Checking In: Style Goals for 2021

We are halfway through the year and fifteen months into the global pandemic. I can barely believe how time has flown by. In the US, life is slowly but surely normalizing. But in some ways, the world has changed forever. We’re adapting to new normals. I try to remember that each day brings us the power to be positive and hopeful amidst the stress, anxiety, loss, and uncertainty that we’ve experienced.

Today I’m reflecting back on the annual style goals I set back in January. Overall, things are going better than I expected.

1. Be true to my style aspirations that are Modern, Crisp, Retro, Soft and Dressy. Check! Although I’ve only just started working with clients in person, I continue to dress up in my usual way while working from home, doing errands on foot, and to walk our Yorkies Sam and Jo.

I’ve made some permanent changes to my style that were brought on by the pandemic. I’m wearing polished fashion sneakers, both low tops and hi tops, most of the time. I am seeing some clients wearing them too. Wearing fashion sneakers with clients is a HUGE change for me, and not my ideal choice. I’d rather be working with clients in dressier shoes because it feels and looks more professional. But because I walk almost everywhere and have fussy feet, I have to keep them happy and comfortable. It’s a healthy necessity at this point. I wear dressier shoes when I’m working with clients for a shorter amount of time.

I’m also leaving off the tinted moisturizer, wearing lip balm instead of lipstick, and keeping my short hair in a super easy wash-and-go pixie. For now, I’m enjoying my simpler beauty and grooming routine. I might be in the mood for a more complex routine next year.

2. Prioritize Quality. Check. My commitment to wearing beautifully constructed and finished items made of gorgeous fabrics that launder well, and LAST, is going gangbusters. Good quality has little to do with the price of the item these days, so it’s up to us to build our own set of quality check boxes and be as discerning as we can.

3. Make manageable sustainable and ethical wardrobe decisions. Check. I remain committed to making the most sustainable and ethical wardrobe decisions that I can manage. They aren’t perfect decisions, but I improve on them every year while keeping my wardrobe in a happy place. I de-pill garments and launder very carefully so that I can hold onto them for longer. I alter clothing more than I used to so that I can purchase from brands that produce sustainable and ethically. I pass on items to Dress for Success and to people who will happily continue wearing items that no longer work for me but work well for them. I cannot entirely avoid polyester and man-made fibres, but am wearing less of them. And I continue to be thoughtful and mindful with my wardrobe edits and additions to minimize waste.

4. Express my style through colour and my favourite patterns. Check. My style is more colourful, maximal, and pattern-rich than ever, because it positively affects my mood. For patterns, I’m sticking to the classics like stripes, dots, plaids, and some florals and geometrics because I don’t tire of them. For colours, I’m sticking with sour brights, whites, dark blue, light blue, gold, and blush. I find that I am VERY attracted to patterns on this leg of my style journey, and have to remember not to ignore solids. Here are some of my newer patterned acquisitions.

5. Continue exploring the world of fun and practical dressy pants. Check. I LOVE wearing fun dressier pants, and especially in the plaids and checks that are signature to my style. They are a great alternative to jeans, and always on my radar. So far, I’ve added navy gingham pants, and checked turquoise and orange wide leg pants.

6. Continue adding elegant-to-me touches to my style. Check. I do my hair and make-up, apply a scent, sport pretty clothes, maintain a high level of outfit neatness, and wear my pearls, EVERY day. No exceptions. This goes a long way to making me feel elegant, good about my appearance, and ready for whatever the day throws at me. I’m also wearing midi skirts, pants, jeans, tops and dresses that move in a way that looks elegant to my eye. Nothing too short, tight, or oversized. Lots of tailored fluidity, swoosh, and romantic flounce. Good posture makes me feel elegant too, and regular yoga practices help with that. I miss my refined non-fashion sneaker shoes and hope to wear them more frequently soon.

7. Sport my signature style, despite the trends. Check. That means edgy short blonde hair, equal parts classic and trendy, an emphasis on the “soft and pretty,” statement eyewear and handbag, natural make-up, modest coverage, white pearls, white footwear, white jeans, fluidly tailored outfits, lots of colour, classic patterns, pattern mixing, hectic colour combinations, light neutrals, dark blue, flat footwear, fashion sneakers, and no nail polish.

8. Refresh my at-home yoga capsule. Check, and here are the completed results.

9. Refresh my capsule of white tops for Spring and Summer. Check. I managed to get two white tops. A warmer hoodie for Spring which I’ve worn a lot, and a shirt for Summer. They are great and I adore them.

10. Refresh my white jeans capsule with wider silhouettes. Check. I found two great roomy white jeans styles. One is a high-rise boyfriend, and the other a very relaxed high-rise straight. I had the G-Stars significantly altered with stellar results. The Frame jeans are ripped and torn in the stock photo, but are not in real life.

11. Add more citron to my wardrobe, starting with a new dressy satchel. Check. I found a lovely lemony cardigan that I wear buttoned up like a top as a welcome change to pullovers. I also added a dressy chain-strap satchel. The bag is not a clear-cut replacement for my battered citron Furla, but it will share the wear because citron bags are workhorses for my style.

12. Add more flowing and fun skirts to my skirt capsule. Unfortunately nothing yet, but we have six months to go. That said, I don’t wear skirts in chilly and cold weather so this might have to wait till next year when I once again refresh my wardrobe for Spring and Summer.

13. Try a pair of G-Star jeans. Check. I got a great pair of G-Star white jeans, a sublime A-line denim skirt, and a classically tailored dark wash denim jacket. All work horses, and sustainably and ethically produced.

14. Add a blush pink wool coat to my coat collection. Nothing yet, but I hope to find a beautiful blush pink wool coat at the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale preselections next month. It has to be sufficiently warm, long, fluidly tailored, and just the right shade of saturated blush. It’s a tall order, but you never know. I am in no rush, and eventually the right light pink coat will find me!

I’ve finished my refresher shop for Spring and Summer. All that’s left to do is wear the heck out of my stuff and repeat my favourite outfits. I hope we have a lovely hot Seattle Summer so that I can wear the heck out of my dresses and skirts. I’ll be thinking about Fall and Winter fashion soon when the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale comes around. In the meantime, over to you. Have you managed to achieve some of your style goals?

Fab Finds: Shorts, Bags and Tops

Macy’s deserves a shout-out because they’ve upped their game. I’ve ordered online from them recently, and their service has been stellar. Fast, efficient, accurate, and reliable. They’ve updated their site so that it’s easier to use, and there are lots of fun new brands if you take the time to browse. The brand selection is quite different to Nordstrom, which increases the variety for all. There are lots of size-inclusive options, affordable prices, and you will almost always get a discount. It’s nice to share that this often overwhelming and understaffed retailer is weathering the storm of the pandemic and giving us better service and merchandise. Long may it last.

On to this week’s top picks.

1. Old Navy Shorts

Our forum members and some of my clients are having an excellent run with simple, casual and affordable Summer shorts from Old Navy. Here are the winners, and many with great reviews. There are structured and elastic waists, technical fabrics and natural fibres, lots of sizes, and lots of colours. So far, no post-laundry complaints either.

2. Radley London Handbags

Radley London makes extremely nice handbags and wallets. The quality is gorgeous, and if you’re into terriers like I am, their emblem is a Scottie. There are lots of colours and silhouettes to choose from. Most are structured and on the dressier side, although casual totes and playful doggy designs are there too. Hardware can be silver or gold, and the linings are made of recycled polyester. If you purchase the bag at Macy’s you will probably get a discount. I have a light blue Radley satchel that I got in London, and a red Radley wallet that I got at Macy’s. They are old and in pristine condition.

3. Good Casual Tops

Some of these tops have worked well on my clients, and others have good reviews. Most are fluid and very fluid, but some fitted and with waist definition. Many are made of natural fibres, some of blends, and some polyester too. It’s definitely a season for patterns, with fewer solid tops it seems. Fab for Team Pattern.

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Laurie Linen Top
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4. Alfani Petite V-Neck Sleeveless Blouse

These blouses come in petites and regular sizes and are amazingly versatile, and a good colour vehicle. Layer them under cardigans and jackets, or wear them on their own. The neckline and armholes aren’t too deep. They have worked well on a range of straighter and curvier clients with smaller and larger bust sizes. Affordable, easy to wear and pack, fluidly tailored, forgiving on the midsection, and wear like iron. You might need to size down.

5. Ecco Corksphere Thong Sandal

These thong sandals look more polished than regular rubber flip-flops. They are very comfortable, and provide some support. A fab client of mine who lives by the beach in Florida started out with a white pair that she matched with a white tote to create a complement. The white complement instantly became a frequent addition to outfits because it made her feel more pulled together. Because fancy-flip flops are a wardrobe essential for her style, she’s added a pair in black and metallic. She has the casual bags to match too. Easy!

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Paisley: Yay or Nay

I mentioned in my trends analysis earlier this year that paisley patterns are having a fashion moment. Of course, paisley is always in style and defies the trends, but it’s nice to see it get a little extra love now and then.  

Paisley is an ornamental textile design of Persian origin that uses a teardrop-shaped motif with a curved upper end. Although the teardrop shaped motif is of Persian origin, and the textile designs that cram many of them into a rich pattern are originally Indian, the English name for the pattern derives from the town of Paisley. That’s in the west of Scotland, where paisley designs were first produced.

You can find paisley on any wardrobe item, but the pattern is most popular in tops and dresses. It’s next most popular in skirts, pants, scarves and ties. The colours and scale of paisley patterns runs the gamut. Some patterns are spaced, and others tightly packed. Paisley can be combined with patterns like florals and geometric designs too. Paisley can create a quiet or loud visual effect, and can be worn year round in seasonally appropriate fabric. Paisley can be tonal, monochromatic, or multi-coloured.

Here are some examples.

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I don’t wear paisley often, but like it and vote yay. It reminds me of the psychedelic patterns of the ‘60s, and of Prince in the ‘80s, which are amongst my favourite fashion eras. I don’t have paisley items in my wardrobe at the moment, but have happily worn them in the past. I like paisley best in the form of a patterned dress or pants, although I’m not opposed to a paisley top, scarf or skirt. I like the large scale spaced paisley patterns best, and across neutrals and non-neutrals. I like quiet and loud versions, as long as the colours are a match with my sartorial preferences.

Over to you. Do you like and wear paisley?

AVENUE Brookline Print Dress Berry Paisley

Tahari ASL Paisley Print Tie Neck Blouse

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Simple Summer Navy and Black

Some of my clients like to wear dark neutrals like navy and black in Summer, but with a good amount of bare skin, and in seasonally appropriate fabrics so that they don’t overheat. You can keep the outfits dark like most of the outfits shown here. Or add bags, shoes, belts and jewellery in whites, pastels, other neutrals, and brights. 

1. Casual Black Dress

Jersey fabric can be see-through and flimsy but tends to look more substantial in darks like black and navy. This one has a lovely ‘70s integrity with the empire cut and kimono sleeves. Espadrilles make a nice change to regular sandals, and I like how the raffia sole breaks up the black. If this were my client, I’d add casual tortoiseshell jewellery to further break up the black, and a bag in a shade of brown or tan. Animal print accents would look fab too.

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2. Navy Shirt Dress

I LOVE this dress, how it’s styled, and have ordered it. It’s a boxy navy shirt dress with a high-low hemline, subtle white stripe, and white buttons. The subtle white accents are just enough to break up the expanse of dark, and lighten the palette. Sneakers are one option, but so are slides, mules, loafers and sandals. Scrunch the sleeves, add a bag, and you’re ready to go.

Navy Shirt Dress

3. Black Crops and Patterned Top

This is the option with the least amount of sold dark neutral if you prefer breaking things up. Combine a pair of black or navy cropped pants with a black patterned top, and finish things off with Summery black shoes. Add a bag that works with the pattern of the top. The black slides showcase a good amount of skin, thereby adding and effective Summery touch. Great bookending of footwear and hair too.

Black Crops and Patterned Top

4. Jumpsuit

A navy or black jumpsuit can be a nice alternative to a dress when you prefer to wear pants, and don’t mind the extra effort in the loo that jumpsuits require. I like the addition of the black sandals and hat that perfectly bookend the model’s hair. The topper is for the chill in the morning, evening, or arctic a/c, but not essential. Add jewellery, watch and bag as desired.

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I don’t wear solid black anymore, but I like to wear solid navy and do so year round. Some of my Summer navy items have a subtle white stripe, but give the effect of solid navy. Here are my Spring and Summer navy items that I remix with white, light blue, blush, and sour brights. The navy denim jackets go over all sorts of patterned tops and dresses. I don’t wear navy from head to toe in Summer unless it’s in the form of a dress. My footwear is white, blush, light blue or bright, and never dark.

Over to you. Do you like to wear black and navy in the Summer?

Link Love: The Micro-Core Phenomenon

By now, you’ve probably heard of ‘normcore‘ and ‘cottagecore‘, but Refinery29 reports that “the notion of ‘core’ has suddenly become one of the buzziest topics in fashion. The innocuous word functions as a popular qualifier for an endless number of aesthetic subgenres that have emerged in different corners of the world. From ‘angelcore’ to goblincore’, there are more and more niche cores appearing each day.” Refinery29 delves deeper into this micro-core phenomenon

Since the Netflix show Bridgerton became a hit, there’s been a spike in Regencycore weddings.

The Spring 2021 shows, from Burberry to Versace, leaned into a mermaid narrative, with sea life prints, coral colourways and seashell accents galore. Fashionista says that “the under-the-sea fun has continued on TikTok, where ‘mermaidcore’ has really taken off.”

Fab Links from Our Members

Joy thought “50 of the Worst Fashion Fails” was a hoot.

Slim Cat recommends “The Worst Fashion Disasters in Fiction“.

Suntiger thought this was another good blog post from Debbie Roes, and recommends reading the comments too: Do we have a false sense of security about our wardrobe if we technically own a lot? Just because we have a lot doesn’t mean it’s all useful.

After seasons of pinks, bj1111 says she’s now really drawn to the blues.

Nuancedream directs us to these stunning images from Kenyan photographer Thandiwe Muriu. She adds: “The extravagant fabrics and accessories repurposed from everyday life are truly breathtaking. When you have little, you transform it and reuse it.”

Since she first became an adult, Mary Beth increasingly wore black, because it made her feel slim, elegant — or at least invisible and no-fuss. At the height of the pandemic, she started avoiding it: “I’m slowly shifting away from it in my wardrobe. And I found this brief video by renowned yogi Sadhguru, about wearing/not wearing black, really resonated with me.”