How to Prevent Shoes from Rubbing

We try our best to purchase footwear that is comfortable from the get-go. But sometimes even comfortable footwear can rub, especially in hot weather, or after we haven’t worn them for a long time. With some pairs of boots, ballet flats, and loafers, I need to walk them in a bit again after not wearing them for more than a few months. Most of the time, I’ve found that I can prevent shoes from rubbing with a combination of the strategies below. 

1. Wear Them in a Little

Sometimes it’s a case of wearing the shoes multiple times with a bit of rubbing. Your feet get used to them, and after a while they no longer rub. Hopefully you won’t get blisters and sores, and the shoes become comfy. Wear them for short periods at a time while you are wearing them in.

2. Apply Moleskin

Shoes that begin to rub after a while might need the addition of moleskin. Apply a patch of moleskin to the inside areas of the shoes where your skin is prone to rubbing. The moleskin is soft, breathable and stretchy, and does a good job of minimizing the friction.

3. Use Anti-Chafing Balm

Generously apply anti-chafing balms like BodyGlide to the areas of the feet that are prone to rubbing before putting on your shoes. For me that’s my pinky toes, and the sides of my big toes. It REALLY works. You can get these types of balms at running stores, some drug stores, or online. Don’t apply the balm to the underside of your feet because you will slip and fall.

4. Wet Your Feet

This is a trick my late mother taught me. Wet your feet and slide them into shoes that do not require socks. Walk around in the shoes with wet feet, and yes, they dry quite quickly. Do this multiple times over the course of a week and ignore the squelching sound. You’ll stretch the shoes to fit your feet better, which can prevent rubbing. I recently did this with a new pair of white loafers that I sized down in because they were a little snug all over. Walking around in them with wet feet created a better fit, and now they don’t rub.

5. Have Shoes Stretched

Sometimes you need to stretch shoes in the areas where they rub to create more space. You can have this done professionally at a cobbler, or get an at-home stretching kit. Typically, my clients who have wider feet and need extra room in the toe box have their shoes stretched.

6. Wear Footies or Knee-Highs

If you can find footies or no-show socks that stay on your feet, that’s great because they effectively prevent rubbing and make footwear more comfortable. There isn’t a footie that stays on my feet, so I often wear nude-for-me knee-highs because they always fit. That said, it has to be mild or cool, and not warm or hot weather for knee-highs.

7. Add Cushioning Insoles

When shoes rub on the underside of your feet, try adding soft cushioning insoles that you can get at the drugstore for a couple of dollars. It effectively creates a more comfortable shoe. It does however take up shoe space, so bear that in mind. It only works for closed shoes.

These tips aren’t a slam dunk, but they can absolutely help and are worth a try. They might not prevent rubbing completely, but will certainly reduce it. Apart from shoe stretching, I successfully use all of the tips. Feel free to add to the list in the comments section below.

Checking in: Word and Colour for 2021

Back in January, for the third year in a row, I chose a word and colour for the year. I like the simplicity of a single word to keep top of mind, and the power and symbolism of a single colour. The exercise also helps me to follow through on my priorities. It’s halfway through 2021, and this is how I’m feeling about my choices so far.

Word: Achieve

I chose the word ACHIEVE because I feel energized to define and develop my next set of deliverables as an inclusive fashion professional who is passionate about the fact that having a fab-for-you personal style and effectively managing your wardrobe are skills that can be learned. The main project I’m working on is going well, but had to go on pause when we got new puppy Jo in April. I hope to get back to it in a couple of months, and launch by the end of the year.

Now that I’m fully vaccinated, the goal is to go on a few important trips that were put on hold because of the pandemic. Top of the list is seeing my Dad in the Netherlands, and I’m actually with him right now.

Working with my clients in person was another thing I wanted to achieve this year. After 15 months of working from home, I’m cautiously back to shopping and working with clients in stores and in their homes. It’s been fabulous, and I realize how much I missed this part of my work.

Colour: Citron

I chose citron because it’s a cheerful colour that’s associated with sunshine, warmth, happiness, energy, positivity, hope, and enlightenment. It’s also a signature colour for my style. I’ve bought a citron handbag, a lemon cardigan that I wear as a top, added citron accents to our home, and filled the house with yellow tulips and daisies during the Spring. I’m considering the pale yellow loafers below. They aren’t exactly citron, but close enough. I also continue to wear a lot of the bright citron items in my wardrobe. So far, citron has been well represented during 2021.

Pink was runner up as my colour of the year. I’m very drawn to shades of pink this year, and have occasionally chosen pink flowers over yellow and orange ones. For my wardrobe refresh, pink has featured quite strongly too. Here are the items, and I hope to add a blush pink coat in Winter.

Over to you. Would you like to reflect on how your word and colour for 2020 are shaping up?

Fringe Trend: Puffy Sandals

Puffy sandals (some retailers refer to them as quilted sandals) have spongey, puffy straps, where the puffiness ranges from subtle to extreme. Some styles are more dressy, dramatic, edgy, and fashion-forward than others. They are an open footwear silhouette that showcases a lot of the foot. Many take the form of a slide, with no back. Puffy sandals are supposed to be quite soft and comfortable, and some offer arch support. Some have a platform heel. 

Here are examples.

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The idea is to wear puffy sandals like you would a regular pair of casual or dressier sandals or slides, and not think too much about how they affect the outfit. Skirts, dresses, pants, jeans, shorts, jumpsuits, leggings — it’s all good. Here are some examples in the context of an outfit.

Some styles are chunky or very chunky, while others are a lot more refined. They don’t look bulky on the foot when you choose a less puffy and more refined version. But you might like the grounding, tough and dramatic effect of a chunky flatform, which can also add a little height.

I suspect that the puffy sandal is an acquired taste, which is why the trend hasn’t gone mainstream. It’s for those who are more adventurous with their Summer footwear, enjoy wearing all sorts of sandals, and are after something a little different. The slides with the soft footbeds, if they fit and work for your feet, look particularly easy and comfortable. We’ve seen some YLF forum members enjoy the trend and rock the look. Some early adopters took to them like a duck to water last season and haven’t looked back.

Personally, I don’t really wear sandals, and slides are impossible to fit unless they come in a narrow size. They also aren’t great for my urban walking lifestyle. I prefer to wear closed-toe shoes for foot protection. That said, I like the look of puffy sandals. They have a futuristic vibe about them, somehow both jarring and appealing. I vote super cute and fun on someone else!

Over to you. What do you think of the puffy sandal trend?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Summer Brights

There are countless ways to wear Summer brights. If you’re on Team Brights, figure out how you like to wear them in hot weather and run with it. You might prefer them in solids or patterns, or wear both. You might combine two to four solid brights in one outfit, or stick to one or two and ground them with neutrals. Wear brights on the top or bottom, or both. Wear them as a dress, suit, jumpsuit or romper. Or wear neutrals with bright footwear and bags. Do your own thing, and wear brights your way.

Here are four ways to wear Summer brights, and I’ll take a version of each, thank you very much. I wear brights all year round, and feel calm and energized by them. Note that jewel tones can be your brights.

1. Party Pants

Combine a pair of lightweight patterned Summer cropped pants with a top that picks up a colour in the pattern. Choose a neutral or non-neutral. You can tuck, semi-tuck, or leave the top untucked. This version is dressy but feel free to create a more casual vibe. Add shoes that work with the outfit, and earrings that pick up a colour in the pattern. Here, I like the way the neutral shoes match the top, and how the red earrings match the pants. Feel free to sub pants for a skirt if that’s more to your taste.

Party Pants

2. Bright Dress

Choose a bright solid or patterned dress. Add shoes and bag in a neutral or non-neutral, and Bob’s your uncle. It’s that easy! Here, the black slides bookend the model’s hair, and match the bag and the buttons of the dress. The matching creates a pulled together effect.

Bright Dress

3. Billowing and Beachy

Combine a solid or patterned billowing and breezy soft blouse or knitted top with a pair of shorts. The shorts can be blue denim, white, or another colour. Add Summery shoes like slides, sandals, huaraches, fashion sneakers, espadrilles or mules. Sunnies, bag, and a smile complete the look.

Billowing and Beachy

4. Summer Suit

A bright Summer suit in a lightweight cotton or linen might not make sense to you, but it does to those who work in an air-conditioned office or retail space. Working in air-conditioned stores all day, I’d be very comfortable in this outfit and welcome the coverage. Make sure you like the outfit without the topper too. That way when you remove the jacket, you feel just as fab. Pristine white sneakers match the white layering top, and create a fun Sporty Luxe vibe. By all means add dressier shoes instead. Add jewellery, watch and bag as desired.

Summer Suit

Who else bats for Team Summer Brights?

Team Pattern or Team Solid

There has been a large variety of pattern in retail over the last few years. From bold and bright, to quiet and subtle, and everything in between. Dots, stripes, checks, plaids, florals, paisley, animal print, novelty prints, conversational prints, ombré, geometric designs, swirls, galaxy designs, botanicals, bohemian, tie-dye, abstract designs. You name it, and it’s there. So it’s time for a poll.

You bat for Team Pattern if you incorporate a lot of patterns into your outfits. You bat for Team Solid if you wear patterns sparingly, if at all. Note that false plains and very narrow pinstripes count as patterns.

My style swings from being more solid or more patterned depending on the mood of the current leg of my style journey. For the last few years, I’ve added a lot more pattern to my wardrobe and I’m really enjoying it. I frequently wear patterns, and I pattern mix my outfits a lot too. I seldom wear a completely solid outfit, although I tend to keep my shoes and bags solid. I like subtle and bold patterns in neutrals and non-neutrals. I’m quite set in my ways with patterns, and keep them fairly classic, although the odd novelty pattern can pull at my heart strings. I like stripes, polka dots, checks, plaids, some florals and simple geometrics, and that’s about it.

I love a good clean and crisp solid, but for this poll I’m batting for Team Pattern because I’ve been VERY attracted to them over the last few years. I have to stop myself from buying them for a while, and focus on solids, or there will be chaos in my wardrobe.

Here are the patterned items in my wardrobe.

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Rosie Jersey Top
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Helen Sparkle Dress
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Muriel Sweater
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Zara
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Club Monaco
Weylyn Shirt
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Velvet Emilia Blazer
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J.Crew
Vintage floral scarf
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Annie Pant
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Malden Tweed Pants
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Over to you. Do you bat for Team Pattern or Team Solid? Tell us why, and no batting for both teams. If you can’t pick a side, I’m serving grilled cilantro, lime and mint chicken drumsticks with a green salad and delicious green sauce to match at the bench. Mangos or chocolate for dessert.