Twenty years ago yesterday, youlookfab.com went live with my first post. Hubs Greg and I plus our Yorkies Jasmine and Rosie were relatively new in the US, and finding our way. We had moved to Seattle from France a couple of years before. Two decades later, YLF is a steadfast and well-oiled machine. A small blog turned into a large and engaged social community that exceeded my expectations. I can barely believe that I’m an OG blogger who is still doing her thing and enjoying it.

Many people have heard the story that when Greg suggested I start a blog about fashion and style, I replied, “Okay! What’s a blog?”. It was the early days of blogging, and YLF was one of the first of its kind. We brainstormed the name, and Greg designed and built the site.

Eighteen months in YLF, it was Greg’s brilliant idea to add a forum, which immediately jumped into life with the wonderful community that was forming around the blog. It was his idea to create Finds, which is an indispensable wardrobe maintenance and shopping tool. YLF was Greg’s affectionate and loyal labour of love. Without him, YLF would not exist. Words cannot adequately express my gratitude for his incredible hard work, creativity, perfectionism, high standards, and dedication. YLF holds a special place in my heart because the most special person in my life created it for me.

The launch of the forum was an inflection point for YLF. I think it’s a unique spot on the internet. Thoughtful, kind, clever, constructive, and supportive. In a world where online spaces can feel loud, public and fleeting, this community has remained generous, respectful, and deeply engaged. Many of you have been here for years, even decades. You’ve shared your wardrobes, milestones, challenges, and triumphs. You’ve supported one another with insight and warmth. That is rare, and I do not take it for granted.

The forum drew wonderful Belgian beauty Inge to YLF eighteen years ago. Inge politely contacted me privately asking if she could join the forum even though she wasn’t American and lived in Antwerp. I replied, OF COURSE. And mentioned that I wasn’t American either. Inge is Dutch-speaking, and so am I. We clicked immediately. So much so, that we met in Belgium the next time I was in Europe. It was the start of a long-lasting friendship. We asked Inge to work for YLF, which she did wonderfully for thirteen years. We’ve met many times in the Netherlands, Belgium, England, and Seattle. We don’t see each other in person often, but when we do, we spend quality time together, which counts for a lot. We’ve met each other’s families and friends, and chat daily. My close friendship with Inge is one of my favourite things to have come out of YLF, and I treasure it.

There are many, many more things I love about YLF, and its diverse, global following is one of them. I can travel to just about anywhere and meet up with a Fabber. There have been gatherings across the globe, and there will be many more. I’ve made many FABULOUS friends through YLF and my work as a personal stylist. These friends enrich my life daily in countless ways, and some I’ve known for twenty years. I’m thankful for their amazing presence in my life.

Our Yorkie team, Jasmine, Rosie, Sam, and Jo, were and are a huge part of YLF. Always close by as I worked, walked, and thought through posts. They brought a sense of routine, comfort, and perspective to the process. They’ve been loyal companions on daily city walks and photoshoots, constant sources of joy, and gentle reminders to pause and appreciate the moment. Many of you have come to know them through the site, and their presence has added a personal animal-loving layer to YLF that goes beyond style. In their special doggie way, they’ve helped shape the rhythm and heart of these past twenty years.

At this big milestone I’m excited to announce that I’m publishing my first book.

In my daily dialogue with in-person clients and members of the YLF community, certain truths kept resurfacing. Great style is about understanding yourself, knowing that small details make a big difference, and recognizing that simplicity, comfort, and authenticity always win. I started collecting the practical tips, mindset shifts, and emotional insights that have helped thousands of people find their own version of fab. Short, digestible insights that you can use immediately, reflect upon, and remember for later. These are things that I believe will transcend fashion cycles, and have the power to shape how we express ourselves every day through personal style. I called them Style Nuggets.

Style Nuggets: Practical Inspiration for Everyday Style is being printed and will be ready to purchase in hardcover and paperback soon. Stay tuned for details.

As we celebrate twenty years, I feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude. Thank you for reading. Thank you for engaging. Thank you for trusting me with your style journeys. You are what makes YLF an extraordinary social community. Thank you for your insightful, compassionate, intelligent, thoughtful and amusing contributions, from which I learn, reflect, and grow as a person. Whether you’ve been here since the early days or joined more recently, you are part of what makes YLF what it is. My goal remains the same: to help you cut through the noise and find what works for YOU.

Here’s to continuing the conversations, refining our styles, and finding joy and purpose in getting dressed every day. Happy 20th Anniversary, YLF!