Hi. Mary, wonderful news! I wish you much happiness. I already commented on the ring but I didn't even think it might be a placeholder for the engagement ring! ( hope we get to see that, plus your dress and everything else!) do you read the blog Privilege? ((amid privilege) She got married a few years ago detailed it all on her blog. I've been married 38 years, but I would love to do it all over again, just to try all the ideas I see for dresses, flowers, etc. Very happy for you!