Angie, I think you've hit on something, although it's not as bad as you think. Thank you for the reality check. As you know, I tend to learn everything the hard way. I have to say, I feel pretty ashamed of this purchase, which I can't say of anything else I've bought recently, because although it is a fab item, it was a complete cave-in to my old impulsive ways.
I've followed my own rule that for every new item, three items must leave. For example, my new hoodie replaced three old sweatshirt type items. So I've continued purging old items from my closet and made a lot of $ consigning, so it is easy for me to use that credit at the consignment store, feeling like I'm not really spending anything. I need to make it a rule to "cash out" and start treating that credit as real money.
Most of my recent purchases have been fairly focused and YLF-approved. I post a lot of "wants" here, but normally only buy with approval because that gives me a check and balance. My style is changing a little bit, but overall I have made better decisions. However, I am still easily swayed by cost (need to realize that a bargain only is a bargain if it works) and by impulse. That needs to be better controlled, and I need to get a new handle on what I want to wear. UWP is the heart of my style, but I'm finding other options tempting also. So, should I take a break to assess more at this point?
I also need to remember to take pictures because I'm convinced something is wrong with my eyes when it comes to mirrors. This looked really cute in the store mirror, I swear. My instincts are still not good when it comes to knowing what's right for me.
I've tried the jacket several ways and am not at all happy. I'm hoping at least I will take away these lessons from this jacket if it does not work out.
Thank you all so much for your input. If you have any suggestions on how to get a better grip on remaining focused, let me know. My "Aida's list" may need to be revisited.
