Relax Into Your Style Journey

Your style journey is not a race or competition. Make it a leisurely stroll at your own pace. Stay positive and relax. Take the time to figure out your needs. Keep within your budget. It can take years to build an effective, authentic wardrobe. 

Style is Patient

Don’t worry about missing out. There will always be another great find, another sublime bargain and another opportunity to buy the item of your dreams. Sometimes it takes years, but that makes the ultimate acquisition even sweeter.

Be kind to yourself when experimenting with something new. You might not see the desired results right away, but the effort and learning counts for a lot. Pat yourself on the back each time you get a little closer to your goals.

Fab Finds: Casual Summer Dressing

As we head into hot weather and vacation mode in the Northern hemisphere, you might be looking for super simple, casual Summery items to refresh your hot weather look. Linen pants are EVERYWHERE at the moment, but not everyone’s cup of tea. Shorts are still very popular with my clientele. Onward to the top picks.

Fab Find: Casual Shorts

If you’re not finding simple Summer shorts at Old Navy, Athleta, and the Gap, may I suggest the following brands and silhouettes. They’ve been winners on clients, and won’t break the bank. The WHBM style has visible silver hardware and looks a little fancy. The Everlane and Boden shorts flare out like little skirts and are adorably on-trend, especially if you like to wear high rises and tuck tops. The Wit & Wisdom assortment of shorts are by far the most popular with my clientele because many of their fits are forgiving, comfortable, and flattering. The items launder well too. The “Ab Solution” styles have a hidden panel of back elastic on the inside of the waistband which expands and contracts with ease. I have two pairs of long shorts for my beach and resort capsule from Wit & Wisdom, and they are perfect. Marks & Spencer shorts are always worth a look too.

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FLUID TURN UP SHORT
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FLUID TURN UP SHORT
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Fab Find: White Jeans, Pants and a Jumpsuit

The first two pairs of white Mother Jeans are substantial, not see-through, and have a good fit. If you’re after very comfy bottoms that are dressier than joggers, trackpants or leggings, remember to look at Liverpool’s offerings. Their bottoms are soft, a little stretchy, and have worked on a range of body types. They are particularly popular with clients that work from home. Their cropped flares have fab back vents. Click the link to see the detailing. Last, a denim jumpsuit with a ‘70s vibe that is my wildcard for the season. It’s great quality, launders well, super fun to wear, and I feel wonderfully “Charlie’s Angels” in it. It’s fluidly tailored and very comfy. One of my favourtite purchases of the year, which found me unexpectedly. Love those spontaneous purchases that become wardrobe favourites.

Fab Find: Tanks

Tanks and shell tops are exceptionally popular with my clients as both layering items, or stand-alone pieces. Many like to wear them under jackets and blazers. Or under unbuttoned linen and denim shirts ‘90s style. Or on their own with shorts and casual pants. Tanks are simple items that you prefer not to pay an arm and a leg for, and preferably wear in natural fibres. Here’s a selection that has worked well for my clientele. Most are knitted and made of natural fibres, but some are woven and not. The necklines and fits vary. Some are tailored and others fluid. It’s hard to find a decent tank or shell top with not too low necklines and armholes, and is reasonably opaque too. I’ve kick-started the tank search for you. There are many colours so click through the links to see them. Notably, the Nic + Zoe Water Drops Tanks looks sublime under a shorter jacket because the asymmetrical hem adds a fab bit of interest.

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Halogen Shell Tank
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Halogen Rib Tank
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Beige: Yay or Nay

The influence of the ‘90s on today’s fashion brings with it countless tones and tints of beige. Beige is a pastel brown. Warmer versions of beige have a hint of yellow. Cooler versions of beige have a hint of grey. Tan, stone, fawn, bisque, flax, raffia, wheat, oatmeal, dune, champagne, khaki, mushroom, buff and putty, are all versions of beige. Beige is lighter than caramel, toffee, taupe, and camel, and darker than cream, ivory, off-white, and bone.

Here are examples of beige wardrobe items.

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Linen-blend dress
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Crop Pull-on Pants
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Long Open Knit Coat
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Zara
Linen Pocket Kimono
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Zara
Printed Tulle Skirt
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Zara
Crochet Crop Top
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Cropped Utility Jacket
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Padded Liner Jacket
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Boden
Fringe Crochet TShirt
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Zara
Knit Culottes
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Poplin Pocket Pants
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Zara
Straight Cargo Pants
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Tied Cargo Pants
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Rustic Straight Pants
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Paperbag Pants
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Beige is a neutral, and a gently earthy one. It can be worn as a solid statement colour, or as an accent. It can also be worn as a pattern. Beige is classically worn with black, all sorts of whites, and other earth tones. That said, beige is versatile and can be worn with any colour. That’s why it’s a neutral.

My clientele, friends, and family run the gamut with beige. Some love it, and regard it their best and favourite neutral. Others find it soul-sucking, unflattering, and won’t wear it at all. Some wear it as bottoms, away from their face. Some wear it as outerwear. Some wear it in patterns. Some wear it as footwear and handbags, but nothing else. Some wear it as a solid with brights. And some will wear it sparingly with black.

I used to enjoy beige much less, and battled to wear it in the ‘90s when it was one of THE colours, along with black and grey. Beige drained me physically and emotionally. My hair was blonder, and I looked and felt much better in bright white, off-white, and cream.

Now that I’m sporting my natural hair colour — a dark honey blonde — I wear warm beiges well, and enjoy them. They match some of the colors running through my hair, creating a harmonious visual. The type of beige I like to wear is oatmeal. I still prefer wearing bright whites and rich creams, because to my eye they look crisper and more flattering with my complexion. But oatmeal items are welcome and I am building my collection.

Here are some of the beige items in my wardrobe.

I wear oatmeal with optical white, cream, denim blue, light blue, and my sour brights. Sometimes I wear it with navy. The oatmeal coat was an unexpected workhorse, and it’s showing some wear. I’d like to add an oatmeal maxi coat to my outerwear capsule by the end of the year.

Over to you. Do you like beige, and does it feature in your style?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Casual Drape and Flow

Roomy and super fluid silhouettes are on-trend. It can be fun to combine multiple items with volume in a single outfit to create plenty of of drape and flow. Of course, temper the volume of items by choosing a fit that you are comfortable wearing. You might want less drape, flow, volume and swoosh than what is shown here. Or maybe you want more. Choose the colour palette that suits you.

1. Swingy and Slouched

Combine a pair of white slouchy, cropped jeans with a drapey and swingy high-low olive top. If it feels too open and breezy, wear a camisole or tank top underneath, and tuck that into the jeans. Finish off the look with high-shaft brown booties and a bag to match. Choose sandals, loafers, mules, slides, or oxfords, if boots are too warm.

Swingy and Slouched

2. Wide and Defined

Here’s a matching set in a bright shade of orchid. It pairs wide cropped trousers and an oversized trapeze shirt with unusual cuffed bell sleeves. A pink belt reins in the width of the shirt adding a defined waist and therefore outfit structure. Dainty purple thong sandals are a pretty finishing touch. Add accessories to match.

Wide and Defined

3. Arty Kaftan

A pair of cropped black linen barrel pants is combined with a cropped and boxy toffee linen shell top. A gigantic patterned and short kimono-esque kaftan is draped over the top. It’s extremely lightweight, and collapses back onto the body, taming the volume. Black loafers match the pants, and work well with the earthy palette of the top and topper.

Arty Kaftan

4. Swooshy and Shirty

If you enjoy a swooshy midi and midaxi skirt like I do, this might be your favourite. A patterned pleated skirt is combined with an oversized forest green tunic shirt. It’s semi-tucked to showcase some waistline in the front and side of the outfit. The sleeves are rolled to showcase forearm skin. Neon lime flatform sandals with ankle ties are the Summery choice of shoes. A colourful grasshopper brooch adds a playful touch. Add bag, watch and eyewear as desired.

Swooshy and Shirty

Link Love: Jewellery With a Story

Over at Refinery29, Vivien Lee explains how a personalized necklace helped her grow a new profound love for her Korean name. Author Kathy Kelleher goes into why she chose a diamond engagement ring despite diamond rings having an ugly history. And four women share the meaning of their inherited jewellery in “I’m always carrying my family history“.

Fab Links from Our Members

After reading this article about Shein, kkards says: “I’m not a supporter of Shein, but I kind of, sort of, maybe respect that at least they are trying to give smaller designers some piece of the pie, after years of just ripping them off. I’m conflicted. But I wanted to share this and wonder how others feel. 

Smart casual dressing tells the world that you are someone who gets it. It shows that you know how the world works now, what the spoken and unspoken rules are.” Vildy isn’t sure if it actually works this way, but thinks of this as: “the Field of Dreams dressing style where if you dress a certain way, you will attract like-minded people, people who might think you’re approachable, creative, edgy, etc.

She also wanted to share this series of amazing outfits created by artificial intelligence in the styles of major artists. Incredible eye candy.

Jenni NZ was horrified to read this story about acclaimed New Zealand designer Adrian Hailwood facing an intellectual property breach investigation.

Runcarla thought the pups embroidered on the bottom of Queen Camilla’s dress were humorous, and she loved the ladies (and gents) in authentic national dress.

Roberta finally watched the Halston documentary last week, and it reminded her of this excellent list of fashion documentaries.

She also found this article on “superfake” handbags fascinating, and highly recommends the novel Counterfeit by Kirstin Chen, which was based on the true story of a woman who bought the real items and then returned fakes.

Once you reach a certain age, you’ve tried it all and you know what your vibe needs to be“, certainly rings true for nuancedream. She adds: “It has taken a while, but I’ve learned to relax, have fun, and do my own thing with style.”

Jaime thought this was an excellent analysis of the “quiet luxury” trend, which she finds sort of hysterical.

Suz directs us to this in-depth article about the change in return policies with some interesting stats on how many retailers are starting to charge for returns — and why.