Step Outside Your Comfort Zone

Refresh your look and have fun by trying new trends and combinations. Don’t exclude options because of what other people think. Have the confidence to step outside your comfort zone. Add a personal touch to make it your own. 

Try New Things

Don’t be discouraged when the experiment fails. Sometimes you will try the wrong things. And whether they work or not, the experiment itself is a success if you learn from it. You tried something new, and you know for future reference.

It can be daunting to step outside your comfort zone. It can also be time-consuming and a lot more effort to style things you’re not accustomed to. Evolve your style in small, manageable increments. View the experiments as a fun, creative challenge.

Team White or Team Colourful Sneakers

Sneakers are the shoe of our fashion era. I can’t think of a shoe that is worn more frequently by people around the world than some form of athletic or fashion sneaker. Today we’re discussing your colour preferences for sneakers. Note that any type of sneaker counts. White sneakers with a bit of colourful trim count as white sneakers. White can be bright white, off-white, greyed white, or cream. For the purposes of this poll, colourful sneakers include those in black and other neutral colours. 

White sneakers are an iconic classic, especially in the form of simple fashion sneakers that can be worn with just about any outfit. Personally, I love wearing footwear in shades of white, which includes white lo and hi-top sneakers. I have many pairs, and they are essentials for my style. They match my white pearls, white handbags, white belts, and work well with the colour palettes of my wardrobe. I enjoy the crisp and clean addition of white sneakers to my outfits. I like their ‘80s touch too.

Here is my current collection. I have gold, pink, citron, and burgundy sneakers too. The four pairs of white sneakers are worn very frequently. I wear the gold sneakers frequently too. I wear the other colours less regularly. I bat for Team White Sneakers.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team White or Team  Colourful Sneakers. Tell us why and no batting for both teams. I suspect Team Colourful Sneakers will win this poll. If you can’t pick a side, I’m serving Italian capreze with olives, balsamic, olive oil, fresh basil, and hot crusty bread for soaking up the juices on the bench. Heirloom tomatoes are particularly delicious and pretty at the moment and are good on toasted rustic bread too. New York cheesecake with hot tea for dessert.

Global Wardrobe Semantics

The YLF community is impressively international. Our highest concentration of Fabbers are in the US, Canada, the UK and Europe. We also have Fabbers in Mexico, Australia, New Zealand, Asia, South Africa, South America, and the Middle East. It’s extraordinary how a subject like fashion and style can unite people across the globe. 

I’ve lived in the US for twenty years, and in Seattle, WA the entire time. My nationality is Dutch (from the Netherlands). I grew up and went to British schools in Hong Kong and Cape Town, South Africa. I speak and spell English the British way because that’s how I learned it at school.

For the most part, English in the US is the same as British English. But there are differences in the meanings of some specific words that I had to learn.

Here are some examples. The word used in the US is on the left, and the word that I was used to calling the item is on the right:

  • Vest – Waistcoat
  • Vest – Bodywarmer
  • Vest – Gilet
  • Camisole (undergarment) – Vest
  • Sweater – Cardigan
  • Sweater – Jumper
  • Jumper – Pinafore
  • Swimsuit – Bathing Costume, or “Cozzie”
  • Barette – Hairclip
  • Jeans Jacket – Denim Jacket
  • Sweater Vest – Tank
  • Pants – Trousers
  • Panties – Knickers
  • Thong – G-String
  • Turtleneck – Poloneck

Now that I live in US I have mostly switched to using American wardrobe terminology when I work with my clientele and sales assistants, or chat to friends about wardrobe items. That way things aren’t lost in translation. The different meanings for the word vest and jumper can be particularly confusing. But when I’m elsewhere in the world, or speaking to hubs Greg and family, I switch to using the words I’ve used most of my life because that’s most natural. Similarly, in the US people call me Angie. In the rest of the world, people usually call me Angélique. I respond to both!

Care to add words to this list from your neck of the woods?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Black with Statement Socks

This one is for Team Wears A Lot of Black.

Browsing Scandinavian COS’s new Fall collection, I saw some interesting outfits with solid statement socks. Most of the outfits are black from head to toe, although there’s a smattering of grey, off-white, and tan. The shoes are black to match the black in the outfits. The socks are solid, slightly textured, and vary in colour. There is light blue, cobalt, bright green, light pink, off-white, shimmery grey, and shimmery copper. There are black socks too.

The shoes worn with the socks are refined loafers, Mary Janes, mules, sandals and slides. Most of the footwear is flat.

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Some of the outfits are Summery while others look more transitional. The silhouettes are signature COS, which means for the most part voluminous, and somewhat architectural. If you wear a lot of solid black, the vibe might appeal to you. Wearing solid black from head to toe nods strongly to the late ‘90s and is right on-trend. Add a pair of statement socks, wear them with suitable black shoes, and you’ve achieved the 2023 version.

Marina Rinaldi showed a similar outfit formula in navy. Navy Bermuda shorts are combined with a navy sleeveless tunic shell top, and topped with a navy soft and unstructured long jacket. A waist-defining black belt adds subtle shine and texture. Black socks are worn with statement black and white platform sandals and match the belt. I see a white or neon green bag complete the outfit. Add jewellery, watch and eyewear as desired.

Marina Rinaldi Triacetate Bermuda Shorts

Link Love: Pop Music Fashion

I’ve been having lots of fun perusing the archives of Messy Nessy Chic. Paris-based Vanessa Grall writes about everything from food to art and design, and today I’m sharing four of her articles on fashion in pop music:

Fab Links from Our Members

Alyssa Beltempo gives great advice on how to fix clothes that aren’t “working” for you. Psst… there’s nothing wrong with your body. Nuancedream had to chuckle when Alyssa talks about ironing/steaming clothes as therapeutic because she enjoys doing it too!

For those in the US who prefer to shop in brick-and-mortar stores, Star thought this could be of interest. She adds: “Michelle had an extensive career in fashion and I do value her opinions.”

How to Start an Edgy Classic Wardrobe Using Contrasting Style Types.” Carol likes the breeziness Emily Wheatley evokes with these clothes.

Jaime doubts low-slung baggy pants with a visible boxer waistband will become mainstream, but you never know!

Adina’s “Rooms for Living” post really resonated with Mary Beth: “It occurs to me that this entire article could be applied to my closet.”

“You don’t necessarily have to spend a lot of money all at once to create a beautiful space; you just need time. A good part of the beauty of many of those interiors I admired was derived from the fact that they were collected and curated — perfected, if you will — over many years.”