Fabulous Fifty-Plus Style

I returned from working with a wonderful client a few days ago and posted this on our facebook page shortly thereafter: 

“There is a unique style confidence and grace that is conveyed by women in their 50’s and older. While working with my 52 year old client today, I was once more reminded of this special style je ne sais quoi that comes with age. I can’t wait to turn 50.”

As “je ne sais quoi” implies, it’s a quality that is not easily described. It’s like you’ve climbed Mount Everest after you’ve turned 50 and no one can touch your inner strength. You’ve loved, laughed and learned from life. Your experiences, wisdom and self-acceptance turn into a sense of  confidence and calm. An elegance, cool and grace that shines through in the way you dress and carry yourself. And sometimes it’s a wonderfully quirky and eccentric sense of elegance, cool and grace. 

Of course, younger gals are confident, cool and graceful too, but not in the same way. It isn’t quite as natural, relaxed, refined, strong and deliberate. These unique style qualities come with age, and they are powerful.

There are obvious advantages to being a youngster in a fashion conscious world. But growing older in style is just as fab. I believe this with all my heart because your ability to shine more brightly, own your look, exude confidence, and embrace all that makes you who you are cannot be beat. PLEASE don’t think your style becomes invisible after a certain age. If anything, your style becomes stronger because you are stronger.

I feel fortunate to work with my older clients and forum members. At 42 it is my job to guide them on their style journey, but they also constantly inspire my own style and the way I think about style. They make me even more excited about the next 42 years of my style.

Team Natural or Team Colour

You’re on Team Natural if you prefer to keep your hair tint-free and in its natural colour. You are on Team Colour if you prefer to add chemical colouring to your hair. 

I am naturally blonde and love to have my hair balayage-streaked extra light blonde on top, while leaving the sides and back untouched. It’s fun to have two toned hair. I enjoy the “choppy effect” and the texture that is created by the different shades of blonde. I have also had my hair coloured darker, and almost had blue or pink streaks put in last year. 

I have been colouring my hair for 20 years, and I don’t think I will ever have completely natural hair again. I am so on Team Colour.

Over to you. Are you on Team Natural or Team Colour? Tell us why and no batting for both teams. Remember that there is never a right or wrong answer to these poll questions. You are merely stating a style preference, and whichever way you vote is fab.

Ensemble: Almost Winter White From Head to Toe

My client wanted to add Winter white items to her cold weather wardrobe capsules, so we set out to do just that on our shopping day last week. We scored big time because unlike previous Fall fashion seasons, there are colour options beyond black and grey at the moment. Long may it last. 

Of all the white items that we got that day, my client looked the most stunning when we matched up Banana Republic’s Monogram white wide-leg pants and Merino V-neck sweater  in “cocoon”. The sweater is also available in a subtle gold lurex, which is just as gorgeous paired with the Winter white trousers. Size down on the trousers because they run large, but the sweater fits true to size. It has a slightly roomy fit with just the right amount of structure and does not itch. 

Winter white trouser ensembles are close to my heart, although it’s not everyone’s cup of tea to wear a stark and light colour “almost” head to toe. Yet to my eye the effect is modern, chic, simple, bold and elegant. The visual of the Winter white trouser and sweater ensemble here does not represent the exact items that we used to build my clients outfits, but it does provide a good idea. She will wear variations of this outfit to work, out to dinner, to a casual holiday party, or to an event.

Winter white comes in shades like ivory, bone, cream and a very milky tan or mink. So the first step is to choose the shades that work for you, and by all means mix up the shades in one outfit. It’s odd how I don’t fancy mixing up different shades of black, but I’m fine mixing up shades of white. 

Here are the components of the ensemble: 

  • Bottoms: Choose trousers that are thick, drapey, preferably lined and in a wool or crepe blend. Wide legs, bootcuts or tapered legs are fab. Winter white jeans will work if creating a casual vibe is more your thing.
  • Top: Cashmere, mohair, angora or merino wool knitwear is ideal because it’s refined, dressy and amps up the elegant and “soft” factor. Gold lurex is another fab option. A chunkier knit could work, but will also dress down the look. Keep the top a little roomy, untucked and scrunch the sleeves to showcase an alluring forearm. 
  • Footwear: Pointy toed pumps are fab, but any dressy pump in a light colour, pattern or metallic is good. Throw in a colour or black if creating a high colour contrast is key. To dress down the outfit, add a cappuccino or taupe coloured bootie. Works like a charm. 
  • Clutch: No other bag will work as well because a clutch provides the best modern or slightly retro injection. Keep the clutch casual when pairing the trousers with casual booties. Keep the clutch dressy with pumps. I like the look best with low contrasting neutrals or black. 
  • Jewelry: Pearls look great, but so will gold and rose gold. Or leave off the necklace and add arm candy or statement earrings. 

In addition to the wide legs, my client got this great pair of Modern Sporty Straight Leg Pants from Ann Taylor. They are also available in a curvy fit, tall and petite. It’s nice to change things up from almost black to almost Winter white from head to toe.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Pierced Ears, but No Earrings

I have worn earrings twice in the last sixteen years. Once on my wedding day and once a few years ago when I desperately wanted to road test my late Mum’s vintage emerald earrings. Although I’ve had pierced ears since I was five years old, and a second set of holes pierced when I was a teen, earrings have never been my thing. And for many, many years, I have not worn them at all. In fact, it’s part of my style to leave off the earrings. 

You can clearly see the holes in my lobes from when they were pierced and that will never change. Thing is, I have clients and friends who feel that it’s best to wear earrings when our ears are pierced because it’s unattractive, unpolished and weird to see “unfilled holes”. I guess this concept is not dissimilar to my need to fill visible belt loops with a tucked top

It caught me by surprise when I first heard that some consider pieced ears sans earrings unsightly. I have never thought of it that way, and have short hair which makes my ear piercings even more visible. But it is what it is and this is one thing I’m not concerned about. To my eye, it doesn’t look odd. What do you think?

Fab, Bunion-Friendly Bootie and Oxford

Both styles are attractive, comfortable, soft, stable, roomy and relatively supportive. Add an insole for extra cushioning comfort, and be sure to check all the colour options. 

  • Steven by Steve Madden ‘Wesleyy’ Bootie: Simple in design, stud-free, low heeled, not suede, and not distressed. A tall order in a retail world flooded with distressed, suede, studded and high heeled casual bootie options. If you don’t like the tassel on the faux back zipper, cut it off. Runs true to size, and I vote ivory or cognac. 
  • Fidji ‘Cachet’ Oxford: This cheeky oxford has a turned up nose. I liked both colour options. They are ideal with trousers or jeans that are tapered at the hems, or with skirts and dresses and dark hosiery. No socks! Stick to knee-highs, very fine gauge trouser socks, or hose for foot coverage. They run true to size. 

Sometimes you don’t need to wear a “wide size” when you have bunions or a wider foot. A roomy toe box can do the trick. 

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