Ensemble: A Casual Pile of Pearls

This ensemble was inspired by my own desire to reincorporate pearl necklaces into my style. The long and short of it is: wear your pearls with just about any outfit. Don’t worry about them looking overly dressy because they’ll work if you wear them with conviction. 

The trick to wearing pearls is to wear them with TRENDY casual outfits so that they don’t look overly classic. There are hundreds of ways to do this, and here are two easy outfit formulas to get you started. Choose any colour palette. Personally I prefer oversized white pearl necklaces, but feel free to wear any style of pearl necklace with these renditions. 

Cropped Jeans, Top, Pearls & Booties 

Combine trendy cropped jeans with an oversized pullover or pretty blouse. Choose solids or patterns. Make sure the necklines are no higher than crew in order to provide an adequate backdrop for the pearls. An open shirt collar works well too. Close the gap of the cropped jeans with higher shaft booties. White or cream footwear does a great job of bookending white pearls, but is not a necessity. Add a topper and bag to complete the look. 

Flares, Trendy Top & Pearls

Combine flared trousers or jeans that are fitted on the hips and thighs with a trendy swing top, peplum top or upscale sweatshirt.  Make sure the necklines are no higher than crew in order to provide an adequate backdrop for the pearls. Add heeled booties or pumps, a bag and topper. I’ve chosen to pattern mix the tops and topper within the same colour palette, just for fun. By all means choose solids if that’s more your preference. Add jewellery, eyewear, watch and headgear as desired.

I’ve been wearing version #1 with a blouse, pullover or plaid shirt over a thermal top quite a bit over the last few weeks. Greg is delighted to see my pearls again, and Yorkie Sam has helped himself to a little pearl necklace chew when I hold him close.

Ensemble: A Casual Pile of Pearls

Link Love: Coat Weather

I really enjoyed watching these two Bill Cunningham videos showing us how both men and women are sporting statement coats in all kinds of fun colours, patterns and silhouettes to ward off the frosty New York cold.

Racked published an interesting article about how luxury outerwear brands Moncler and Canada Goose have turned puffy Winter coats into legitimate luxury items.

If you could use another Winter coat, then have a look at The Guardian’s list of the 10 Best Warm Coats, or this roundup of  24 Puffer Coats to Bundle Up as Stylishly As Possible This Winter.

Do you hesitate to sport your big Winter coat with more dressy looks? Then “How James Spader Helped Me Overcome My Fear of Pairing Formal Clothing With a Parka” is for you.

Fab Links from Our Members

Approprio wanted to share this 1996 telephone conversation between David Bowie and Alexander McQueen.

Diane G thought this list of petite fashion bloggers compiled by Catherine may be useful for some of our petite Fabbers.

Une femme d’un certain âge’s post on alternatives for the must-have crisp white shirt caught Joy’s eye.

CocoLion came across an article about Macy’s going in the direction of Nordstrom Rack.

Annagybe lets us know that Grace Coddington is stepping down at Vogue, but will continue to work for the magazine, assuming the role of Creative Director At Large.

Suz thought the following quote, taken from this David Bowie article, sums up ’70s Glam in a nutshell:

“I think in the ’70s that there was a general feeling of chaos, a feeling that the idea of the ’60s as ‘ideal’ was a misnomer. Nothing seemed ideal anymore. Everything seemed in-between. We thought, ‘Are we entering a great flux from which we’ll never come out again?’ The reaction …in my work, it was just horror: ‘Well, it’s all over! So just dress up! Put your best clothes on because it’s finished!’”

Challenging Your Environmental Norm

When it comes to fashion and style your environmental norm is the way people around you expect you to dress. It is the unspoken dress code wherever you are, whether that’s at work, at a party, at a family event, or socializing with friends. 

The world is much more casual than it used to be. The upside of this is that we seldom worry about being underdressed, but the downside is that we are more concerned about being overdressed. This is a recurring theme with my clients. They desperately want to step up their style quotient by dressing up or wearing trendier, more creative, or edgier outfits, but aren’t comfortable challenging their environmental norm. When they do, they invite questions about why they’re “dressed up“. They would rather not attract attention in this way because, ironically, it makes them feel bad about their outfit.

My suggestion to my clients who feel this way is number 5 in my list of New Year’s resolutions”Set the stylish standard and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for dressing in the ways that make you happy.”

Shrug off the commentary and judgement because it’s temporary. If you persevere, you’ll probably find that before long others will be more accepting of your evolving style quotient, and inspired to step it up themselves. I’ve also found that it becomes easier to challenge your environmental norm as you get older. With age comes confidence. Confidence makes it easier to sport an outfit with conviction, which in turn tends to temper negative reactions from others.

There is nothing wrong with adhering to your environmental norm. But in an ideal world it would be just as easy to try something new if it makes you happy, is within the boundaries of your work dress code, and does not prevent you from getting on with your day. I think we get closer to that ideal world every time we brave the environmental norm to wear what makes us happy.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Weekly Roundup: Cobalt Items

Cobalt blue is popular with my clients, and I like it too. It’s superb combined with black and white. It’s fresh and fun with trendy rust and mustard. And for a super hero effect, wear cobalt with poppy and light blue. Here’s an assortment of cobalt items, many of which are winners on my clients. 

You can also see the items alongside my descriptions.

Boden
Colourblock Skirt
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Four Ways to Wear a Denim Skirt

Denim skirts are one way to wear a casual outfit without wearing jeans, which is especially fab when you’re a skirt gal. The four combinations here piqued my interest because they’re different and quite interesting, yet wearable and within our reach. 

With a ‘70s Touch 

The A-line denim midi is as ‘70s as it gets. It’s an excellent skirt shape on a curvy hourglass or pear shaped body type. For a retro flavour, combine it with a cropped pullover or fitted top. Tuck the top in if you’re long or regular waisted, and wear it out when you’re short waisted. Add chunky platforms, wedge espadrilles, or fitted knee-high heeled boots. You can achieve a similar vibe with denim culottes.

FRAME DENIM Le Panel denim skirt

Denim on Denim & Pumps

This combination looks a little dressier because of the choice of footwear and bag. I really like the chic effect of this outfit. The length and fit of the skirt is elegant. The relaxed vibe of the shirt creates a fab juxtaposition with the severity of the pumps and the strictness of the angular clutch. The visual effect is very modern to my eye.

TOM FORD Frayed stretch-denim skirt

Tweed Jacket, Sneakers & Clutch

Try combining a denim skirt with a dressy jacket, layering tee and sneakers. Finish off the look with a graphic bag like a clutch. A mini crossbody bag is another fun option. The sporty luxe outfit is practical, spunky, creative and unique. I like the juxtaposition of the pretty and  sporty.

STEVE J & YONI P Ruffled denim midi skirt

Chunky Knit & Heeled High-Shaft Booties

This combination is the easiest to pull together and wear. Combine a short denim skirt with a  chunky pullover that’s short or semi-tuck the front to create a shorter length. Add higher shaft booties or mid-calf boots, a scarf and bag, and you’re good to go. Tonal tights are a good addition in cold weather, or stick with sheer hose in nude. 

CURRENT/ELLIOTT The Short Sally denim skirt

Here’s a collection of denim skirts just in case you were looking for one. A fun new denim skirt has been on my radar for a while just because it’s a casual alternative to jeans. Perhaps this will be the year I add one to my wardrobe.

Shopbop
Beach Skirt
$125.00 $37.50
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Marino Skirt
$228.00
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Easy A Skirt
$190.00
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Mango
Denim Skirt
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Gap
1969 denim pocket skirt
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