The Role of Black in Your Wardrobe and Style

Black is the darkest neutral. The absence of colour. It is an extremely popular neutral for good reason. But black is not the only dark neutral. Shades of dark blue, brown and grey can be equally effective. 

Black wardrobe items can look extremely dressy, dramatic, edgy, slimming, chic, elegant, classic, urban, appropriate, avant-garde and powerful. Black wardrobe pieces can complement a complexion, and bookend an outfit if you have black or salt & pepper hair. Black items can be versatile and practical, and bring out colours, like shades of white, grey, cobalt and red. Black can be the perfect background colour to a pattern, provide an effective background to white pearls, and accent a palette in just the right way. Some items simply look best in black. And when all is said and done, you might feel happiest when you wear black.

On the other hand, black wardrobe items can also look very harsh, flat, boring, dowdy, flat, hard-edged, overwhelming, and predictable. Black does not suit every complexion, sometimes looking unflattering and dull. It does not create a crisp or fresh effect, nor does it look radiant when worn flat and on its own. Black items can attract lint, dust and light marks, and be impractical. You might feel unhappy and not your best when you wear black.

Don’t assume that black is best, suits you no matter what, and will always work. Don’t settle for black just because you think it’s versatile, easy and practical. Don’t get black because it’s the only colour available. And on the flipside, don’t omit black items from your style just because you think they will never work.

Think about how much black you want to wear, and when you want to wear it. For example, is it seasonal? In large or small doses? Think about how you want to wear black. As an item against your face, as a bottom, as a column of colour, as an accessory, as shoes, or as an accent in an outfit? Think about whether black flatters your complexion and creates the outfit effects that you aspire to. But most importantly, assess whether you feel happy when you wear black. Listen to your feelings and get the quantity of black that is represented in your wardrobe aligned with how you really want to dress.

My clients, friends and family run the gamut when it comes to the amount of black that they wear and have represented in their wardrobes. Some clients and friends wear black, grey and a bit of white exclusively because they feel their best in the palette with few exceptions. People like Greg love to wear black and charcoal, but with lots of dark blue, and light grey. Some clients wear black in some form daily, whereas others wear it more moderately. Some will wear black as an accent, as a bottom, in a bottom or as footwear, but not as a wardrobe item against their face. And some have very few black wardrobe items because they’ve chosen navy and brown as their dark neutrals, and don’t like to wear black.

As I reflected at the end of last year, I’ve been on a mission to limit the amount of black in my wardrobe for several years. A wardrobe rich in black does not make me happy. I do not want to create a hard-edged effect, preferring crisp, fresh and colourful outfits over too much dark neutral. I am MUCH happier combining all sorts of other neutrals and colours in outfits than falling back on black. For the most part, “dark blue is my black.” That said, I do wear black because it complements shades of white (my favourite neutral). I have a very deliberate set of wardrobe items that I love to wear in black. Most of them are old, but a few are new, and the exact items from my wardrobe are represented in the collection.

A black turtleneck is a wardrobe essential for my style, and yummy with white jeans and navy pants. A gauzy black polo shirt has a fun equestrian vibe. A black dress, dressy top, and lace top are magical with a pile of white pearls. A pair of tall black riding boots with matching belt are classics. A black mixed media moto jacket is useful, and I love the gold hardware. Sailor pants, cropped flares, and harem pants look dressiest in black. I adore my avant-garde black pants suit that I bought in Tokyo because it shows the right amount of skin so that I don’t feel like I’m drowning in black. And I wear black patterned items, because they look fab with white, blue denim, olive and tomato red.

Over to you. How is black represented in your style and wardrobe? Is it the right amount for the look you want to emulate? Does wearing black make you happy?

Ensemble: Simple White Jeans in Winter

I LOVE white jeans, and enjoy wearing them year round. I wear them in the Winter months with dark neutrals and brights because they provide a yummy bright and crisp change to blue jeans and dark trousers. 

This ensemble was inspired by white jeans outfits I’ve worn recently. The exact items from my wardrobe are shown in this collection.

I remixed three items of outerwear — a navy military coat, an olive anorak, and a citron peacoat — across the outfits depending on my mood. It changed the look of the outfit quite a bit.

Graphic Ink Blue & White Jeans

I combined an ink blue tunic pullover with cropped white straight jeans, navy knee-highs, and navy booties. The combination of high-contrast tunic over cropped jeans did shorten my leg line, but not to the extent that I felt unattractive. I topped things off with ink blue military coat on one occasion, and olive anorak on another. Navy satchel with patterned pom-pom added a playful touch.

Casual Equestrian Plaid

I combined a semi-tucked plaid shirt with cropped white straight jeans, black riding boots, and matching black belt. I wore a long-sleeved Uniqlo Heattech tee under the shirt for insulation. I added pearls to amp up the pretty, and topped things off with olive anorak and burgundy satchel. On another day, I swapped out the tall boots for short burgundy booties, knee-highs, and added a matching burgundy belt. I also chose my citron peacoat for a brighter effect.

You CAN wear your Christmas plaid into the New Year. Why not!

Ensemble: Simple White Jeans in Winter

Style Goals for 2018

It’s not essential to create a list of style goals, but they can serve as a helpful frame of reference as you review your closet, shop for new items, create outfits, and evolve your style. Having a FLEXIBLE set of goals will make your style journey more effective and enjoyable. 

If you have a good handle on your style direction and are in the fine-tuning phase, setting style goals is a quick, intuitive and incremental process. On the other hand, if you’ve experienced dramatic changes in your life, or if you’re in a style rut, setting style goals requires time, some soul searching, and an in-depth analysis of the internal and external factors that affect your style.

For a formal and thorough approach, write down or type out your style goals, keep them close by, and check in on them regularly to asses your progress throughout the year. Tweak your goals along the way. If this sounds overwhelming, try a less formal approach by simply taking a moment to think about how you’d like to improve your fashion and style life in 2018. Keep those style musings in your head and see if that way works for you.

Anything that relates to your style can go on the list. Style goals can be long or short, general or specific, seasonal or annual, abstract or countable. Remember that style goals can be changed at any time.

I reflected on my 2017 style a few weeks ago. It took me a while to settle down last year, but I eventually found my direction, added lots of wild cards, and ran with it. I’ll be building on those reflections as I evolve my look for 2018, and try new stuff that tickles my fancy. We have a busy year filled with lots of travel and many special occasions, so my wardrobe needs to reflect my needs even more closely. It helps that I feel more content about my style direction than ever, and have a solid base to work from.

One small epiphany: I tend to crave a change in colour and colour combination more than a change in silhouette. This accounts for my colour-rich wardrobe, my propensity to regularly add new-to-me colours to my wardrobe, and to remix colours in fresh ways.

I’m changing my style moniker slightly from “Urban Pretty” to “Urban Polish”. I may live in a grungy and casual city, but it’s important to me to create daily outfits that are refined, pretty, structured, polished, comfortable, and somewhat dressy.

Here are my goals:

  1. To wear outfits that are Modern, Crisp, Retro, Soft and Dressy. I’ve chosen these adjectives to describe my ideal style. They’ll serve as a benchmark for assessing outfits and purchases on this leg of my style journey.
    • Modern because I enjoy injecting a few carefully chosen hot-off-the-press trends into my seasonal look. That’s part of why fashion is fun.
    • Crisp because I love wearing shades of white, and have a strong need to create a polished and tidy appearance.
    • Retro because of my fondness for fashion from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s, but remixing their sensibilities with a good dose of current.
    • Soft because I do not like wearing hard-edged looks.
    • Dressy because super casual does not make me happy.
  2. To continue exploring Maximal style my way. I thoroughly enjoy scarves, piles of pearl jewellery, matchy-matchy looks, pom-poms, belts, intentional layers, as well as a whole lot of pattern mixing. I’ll be looking for that next layer of maximal fabness that makes me happy.
  3. To further explore colour by adding a few more new-to-me non-neutrals to my mix of sour brights, pastels, earth tones, and favourite neutrals. To continue remixing the colours in my wardrobe in bold, new and tonal combinations.
  4. To continue adding elegant touches to my style. My custom-made dainty pearl bracelets, pearl ring, watch and scarves make me feel more elegant and polished, as does wearing dresses, real pearl necklaces, Furla handbags, structured outfits, and refined footwear. I hope to add comfortable pointy-toe ballet flats and pretty Summer dresses to my style.
  5. To add a pair of white Modern Retro prescription sunglasses.
  6. To add soft, bright turquoise wardrobe items. A tricky goal when turquoise is not an on-trend colour at the moment.
  7. To continue wearing black in small doses.
  8. To continue wearing skirts and dresses more frequently year round. Wearing dresses over cropped straights and flares counts as wearing a dress.
  9. To wear both casual and dressy trousers more frequently and blue jeans less frequently.
  10. To continue mixing high-end and low-end items in one outfit.
  11. To continue finding wardrobe gems on my travels because they are unique and sentimental.
  12. To build an effective Modern Retro swimwear capsule that makes me feel fab.
  13. To have even MORE fun with fashion.

Over to you. Have you thought about your style goals for 2018? Many of our forum members have thought about theirs, and they have been a pleasure to read. Please share your style goals in the comments section. Begin with just three goals if that’s easier, and take it from there. Or simply jot down some rough thoughts about your current and aspirational style direction.

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Spanx Luxe Leg Pantyhose

I can’t rave enough about these pantyhose, especially since I was skeptical about their comfort and don’t enjoy Spanx in general. A great sales assistant who I’ve been working with for years suggested them to me, so I gave them a go. She said that they will feel too small when you’re trying to get them on, but to persevere and not size up. She was right. Once on, they fit perfectly, creating a smooth silhouette under my dresses. I find the compression very comfortable, and toasty warm. I’ve laundered the same pair multiple times so they’re quite robust.

Poppy Power Scuba Crepe Sheath with Balloon Sleeves

I was blown away by the fit, fabric and finish of this dress. The fabric is thick and weighty, and glides over the body without any cling. The balloon sleeves are beautifully architectural. The neckline can work on most body types because it’s not too wide. The length is magically elegant, and the softness of the fabric is very comfortable. The pattern is bold yet soothing, especially if you like poppies. The fabric does not crease. It might run one size small. We’re going to an evening wedding in a couple of weeks, and this is a strong contender for the Winter event, although I might need to have it altered a little. Also available at Amazon if you can’t find your size.

Cheerful Sweater Dress

A new outfit from Veronica Popoiacu of Bittersweet Colours, whom we introduced to YLF in August 2013.

Veronica is looking cosy and stylish in her bright sweater dress. She’s expecting her second child, and the roomy, knee-length dress is an easy solution to accommodate a growing baby bump. The fiery orange-red makes it a cheerful statement piece, while the chunky knit and oversized cable pattern on the sleeves add plenty of textural interest. Veronica has created structure by pairing the dress with sleek tall brown suede boots that have a tailored fit. Classic sunnies and brown-red lipstick to complement the colour of the dress finish off the look.

Veronica Popoiacu - 1

Veronica Popoiacu - 2