Link Love: New Haircare Products

Apparently sheet masks are “the new thing” in the haircare industry.

We all know dry shampoo, but have you heard of dry conditioner?

The Fashion Spot rounds up 11 “edge tamers” for natural and heat-styled hair.

I recently came across SHHHOWERCAP shower caps, and now that The Guardian’s Sally Hughes is raving about them too, I’m even more curious.

Fab Links from Our Members

On the forum we’ve been talking about dressing for ‘approachability’, versus wanting to be a bit more aloof. So La Belle Demimondaine thought that Lisa Pippus’ post on communicating introversion with impact might be of interest.

Gigi likes how Emmannuelle Alt talks about making fashion practical in this 2014 interview, and how she doesn’t want to “suffer” in her clothes.

Silver found this article on how the costume designer for Black Panther went about creating the looks for the movie fascinating. 

UmmLila wanted to share this fairytale garb for bookworms.

Anagybe thought this video about yami kawaii was super interesting as it shows an intersection between style and mental health in a very specific way.

Fab Finds: Shoes, Socks, Toppers and Tote

Here’s a selection of quality items that for the most part are simple in design. That makes them versatile and gives them the potential to become wardrobe workhorses. 

1. Naturalizer Simonette Mule

I like the look of trendy mules, but they fell off my feet and would make a loud “clucking” sound no matter how many styles I tried. Then I tried these in a narrow size in white and at last I have mules that stay on my feet. The style of the mule encloses more of the foot which makes them feel more secure. They don’t “cluck,” and are soft and cushioning. You can see them on my feet in this forum thread.

Naturalizer makes the mules across three widths. If you have low volume feet, order a narrow size. If not, get regular or wide for higher volume feet.

2. Taos Crave Boot

If you need a robust casual and comfortable Winter boot that goes the distance in grotty weather, but isn’t black, try this style. The Taos Crave is orthotic-friendly, and fits a range of foot shapes. You can adjust the laces to fit a range of ankle and calf widths. Wear it over skinnies, with crops, with dresses, or under pants and jeans. Well worth the rave reviews. Fabber Suz models the boot in style on the forum.

3. Boden Elizabeth Ponte Blazer

An extremely well-made modern classic tailored blazer that looks sharp and chic. The quality of the workmanship is gorgeous. The substantial fabric drapes elegantly over the body. The tailored fit is very streamlining. The stretch in the fabric is comfortable, and great for travel. Crease-resistant and flattering. It fits a large bust and wider midsection extremely well, yet it works as well on a smaller bust and narrower frame. Comes in petite and regular and is available up to US18.

4. Naturalizer Emiline Loafer

You can almost always count on Naturalizer to cover narrow, regular and wide shoe widths, and I’m thankful for that. These loafers are heavenly comfortable on the feet in the solids and metallics, and are well worth the rave reviews. The navy and blush metallic options are unique. If loafers usually fall off your feet, try these.

5. Talbots Trench Coats

Both these trench coats are WOW quality. Magnificent workmanship and very luxurious fabric. The red has a belt at the waist which can be tied at the back. The single-breasted style detailing is rare and works exceptionally well on a larger bust and/or apple and inverted triangle-shaped body type. That said, the fit is equally magical on a curvy hourglass and pear shape because of impeccable cut and substantial fabric. My size US12/14 client tried them both on and blew me away. Stunning fit.

6. Dagne Dover Classic Tote

There is more than meets the eye to these simple totes. They’re structured, yet streamlined. The interior is purposefully designed for items like an iPad, phone, water bottle, wallet, notebook, pen, keys and sunglasses. The totes zip closed, and are made of wipeable canvas. They come in many fab colours. A quality piece.

7. Fun Sheer Socks

Sheer patterned socks can be a fun addition to loafers, oxfords, pumps and sandals. They add maximal and textural interest to an outfit. The point is to showcase them with cropped pants and jeans, or wear them with skirts and dresses. The last two styles with “ballet laces” look particularly good with pumps and dresses.

Outstanding Outfit Bloggers

A Travel-Loving Colour Minimalist

Cee Fardoe (32) is a writer who splits her time between Winnipeg and Paris. She shares her passion for fashion and travel on her blog, Coco & Vera. Cee is a colour minimalist who mainly wears her favourite neutrals: black, grey, white and tan. Her style is Modern Classic and trendy with a bit of soft edge, rock ‘n’ roll, and the occasional avant-garde touch. Our blogger enjoys sporting skinnies, culottes, and distressed jeans, and likes to remix her favourite pieces.

“My style has changed considerably in the last five years, and particularly in the last three, since I started working from home. My sartorial choices these days are much more casual and minimal. There was a time when I was known for wearing tulle skirts. Now, I almost never wear any skirts at all! I’m all about a good pair of jeans paired with great basis. My style is a kind of modern-classic hybrid. I love timeless styles, but I also tend to shy away from skirts and dresses, favouring trousers and jeans and garments with more unique, even masculine, silhouettes.”

Cee Fardoe - 1

5’2” Cee demonstrates that you don’t have to be tall to rock a midi dress. Here, she is wearing a form-fitting long-sleeved black dress that accentuates her curves. The body-con silhouette of the calf-length frock creates structure. On-trend white Stan Smith sneakers are low-contrast against Cee’s skin, which lengthens the leg line. They add a Sporty Luxe touch to this casual look. The oversized black and white plaid scarf provides textural interest and cosy warmth. The gold chain-strap and closure on Cee’s bag add polish and subtle bling, while the lighter grey complements the rest of the minimal colour palette.

Cee Fardoe - 2

A Modern Classic look built around a timeless white button-down. The tunic-length makes it perfect to wear untucked over skinny jeans, that taper the volume of the fluid fit. Cee’s ripped blue jeans add a RATE (rough around the edges) touch that, together with the black leather jacket, creates a Parisian rock ‘n’ roll vibe. The white shirt adds classic polish and dresses up the look. Black patent pointy toe pumps bookend Cee’s dark hair. Oversized sunnies, a compact shoulder bag and dangly earrings finish off the look.

Cee Fardoe - 3

A second black midi dress, and a Summery-rendition this time. Our blogger’s ponte knit dress is form-fitting up top and has a pleated skirt that flares out in an elegant A-line shape. The spaghetti straps make it ideal for hot weather days. Cee added a thin brown vintage belt that accentuates her waist and picks up the colours in her tortoise-rimmed sunglasses. The brown is low contrast against the black, but adds visual interest. Pairing the dress with on-trend black flat mules with gold buckles creates a fashionable vibe. The straw tote, a favourite accessory, is the fun finishing touch.

“I have a serious affinity for all straw handbags. My obsession began last year, and I acquired two in quick succession, but I can’t get enough! There are still so many styles I feel like I need in my wardrobe. I’m envisioning styling them in a very South of France way, paired with white linen trousers, a silk blouse and flat leather sandals.”

Cee Fardoe - 4

Light grey, cream and black makes for a beautiful low-contrast colour palette that looks marvelous with Cee’s dark wavy locks. She is sporting below-the-knee black culottes with an untucked cream turtleneck sweater. Black patent boots that snugly fit around the calf lengthen the leg line and create a streamlined look. Black leather gloves and the black buttons on the tailored light grey wool coat tie the look together. A matching beret adorned with a glitzy brooch adds charming Parisian flair. Cee’s soft peachy-pink lipstick complements the soft palette.

Cee Fardoe - 5

This is a great example of Angie’s knife-pleated skirt ensemble. Our blogger is wearing an elegant sunray-pleated skirt with a simple light grey turtleneck sweater. The longer length of the pullover creates a drop-waist dress effect, while the drapey turtleneck adds soft movement. The welted sweater tempers the volume of the skirt by tapering back to the contour of the body. Dainty ankle-strap stiletto sandals help to create vertical integrity and work well with the elegant feminine vibe of this lovely Spring look.

Cee Fardoe - 6

Cee loves clothing with interesting design details, and this tie-front blouse fits that bill perfectly. The blouse is structured on the shoulders and flows out from the bustline. The silhouette works well with the relaxed-fit cropped skinnies. The ripped denim makes the look casual, while the lighter wash jeans and crisp white blouse give it a Summer-y vibe. This carefree feeling is enhanced by the dark tan flat gladiator-style sandals and pretty circular straw bag that echoes the colour of the footwear. Our blogger’s tied back hair, sunnies, and fun earrings complete the Summer vibe.

Let us know what you think of Cee’s modern minimalist style, and be sure to check out the rest of her fab outfits on her blog, Coco & Vera.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Weight Fluctuations and Maintaining Good Fit

Finding an item that fits perfectly can be challenging. When your weight fluctuates, garment fits change and it’s even tricker. I run into this challenge with my clients regularly. Here are some suggestions that I’ve offered to them over the years. 

Slight Fluctuations

When your weight fluctuates a little (less than 5 pounds either way), your items might fit ok, but not look and feel as perfect as they once did. This isn’t too serious, because items are still wearable. You don’t need to start thinking about bigger or smaller sizes, and in some cases you will just wear certain items less frequently until you return to the weight where they feel fab.

These types of weight fluctuations are unnoticeable in fluid and oversized fit tops, knitwear, coats, jackets and dresses, so those are handy and forgiving items to keep on hand. Jeans, stretchy bottoms, wide trousers, leggings, fit-and flare-dresses, A-line skirts, cocoon coats and vests are great too. You’ll see and feel the weight fluctuation the most in tailored items that do not have stretch and follow the contour of the body like sheath dresses, woven pencil skirts, and tailored woven trousers.

Moderate Fluctuations

It is harder to manage when your weight fluctuates regularly to the extent that you need one size up or down in many wardrobe items (typically 8 to 10 pound fluctuations.) My clients in this situation tend to keep two sizes in their wardrobe. It’s a costly exercise, but a kind strategy to your body and psyche because you have items that fit and make you feel fab at both extremes of your weight range.

Significant Changes

If your weight changes and stays at the new level for a longer period, you will need clothes in several sizes up or down to maintain good fit. My clients who have gained weight tend to pass on items that are several sizes too small. Some want to hold onto them, but I discourage that because it can exacerbate negative body image. Sometimes we agree to pop the items in a holding zone as a compromise. In the case that a client fits back into the items at some point, they’re usually not interested in wearing them anyway. Starting afresh is best.

When you are on a weight loss programme over a long period of time, and gradually losing a significant amount of weight, you ideally need clothing that fits properly along the way. Budget permitting, you deserve the reward of seeing your body in great fitting clothes as your body changes. There are ways to keep the cost to a minimum. Each time you lose weight that warrants another size down, purchase a very small mix-and-match capsule that gets you through to the next milestone. Assess your wardrobe needs each time you need to purchase a capsule in a smaller size. Don’t forget to be refitted for a bra and knickers, do laundry more frequently, be patient, and don’t try to replace everything at once. Be thrifty and shop the sales. Pass on the clothing that is several sizes too big.

Forum member Toban recently lost a significant amount of weight and shared how she maintained good fit throughout that leg of her style journey. She offers tangible solutions that are well worth a read. Congratulations, Toban.

The Four Building Blocks of Your Wardrobe

Effective wardrobes, and wardrobe capsules, use four essential building blocks. This has recently been a hot topic on the forum, so I thought I would summarize the way I think about this in a post. 

1. Wardrobe Basics

Basics are items like underpants, bras, camisoles, thermal underwear, shapewear, leggings, sleepwear, loungewear, socks, hosiery and workout wear. Many of these items are not visible components of your outfits.

Extremely bold versions of socks and hosiery can sometimes qualify as statement pieces in an outfit. But for the most part, they’re wardrobe basics.

2. Wardrobe Essentials

Essentials are usually versatile, current and simple in design, but they are not wardrobe basics. They are the “glue” that makes other items in your wardrobe work together. They can be clothing items, footwear or accessories. They often form part of your signature style. They are a specific item within a wardrobe category, but are not the entire wardrobe category. They are not statement pieces themselves, but often create a pulled together look by complementing a statement piece. They are PERSONAL. What is essential to one person is not to another.

3. Wardrobe Statements

Statements are wardrobe items that are eye-catching, memorable, and stand out in some way. They are full of personality and often somewhat unique. Where basics and essentials are the support act, the statement piece is the star of the show. They can be simple in design, yet bold or shiny in colour or pattern. Some prefer their statements exceptionally maximal and loud, whereas others prefer a quieter statement piece.

4. Wardrobe Completers

Items that are neither basic, essential nor statement are what I call completers. If your wardrobe is a movie set, the lead actors are the statement pieces, the supporting actors are the essentials, the film crew and the director are the basics, and all the extras in the background are the completers.

Any item — regardless of whether they are a basic, essential, statement piece or completer — can be a wardrobe workhorse. All of your building blocks evolve over time as you move through the current leg of your style journey.

I wish I could give you magical correct percentages for each of the building blocks, but that depends on your style and sartorial preferences. Generally though, maximal dressers tend to have a greater percentage of statement pieces. Minimal and “simple uniform dressers” tend to have a larger percentage of essentials and completers. You might wear lots of statement dresses and skirts in Summer, but keep things simpler in Winter, and vice versa.

I tend to have roughly equal quantities of each wardrobe building block. I have all my bases covered, and can easily create outfits that make me feel fab across a range of settings and occasions. I adore pretty bras, knickers, camisoles and loungewear, so I have a lot of undies and comfies. I have a wardrobe rich in essentials, and will happily dress in essentials from head-to-toe. I also have a wardrobe rich in statement pieces because of my love for bright colours, gold, and bold patterns. I have brightly coloured items across all wardrobe items because I crave a change in colour more than a change in silhouette. Completers are represented in about the same quantity as the other building blocks.

It can be helpful to assess your wardrobe across these building blocks if you’re struggling to create fab outfits. Maybe you need an injection of statements to amp up your look, or a slew of essentials to tone down the statements. Maybe you need to marry your essentials and statements with the right completers. Maybe you need to get your undies and socks sorted because they’re affecting the comfort levels of your clothes and footwear. It’s quite the delicate balance to get right.