Trend: Polo Tops

A polo top is a knitted top with a very specific style of knitted collar and placket. The placket typically has two or three buttons, and an optional pocket. It’s inspired by golf wear, equestrian wear, and tennis wear. The most famous polo shirts are by Lacoste, complete with crocodile emblem and starched piqué fabric. Lacoste shirts or Crocodile shirts are classics that look as fab today as they did decades ago.

The fashion industry is giving the polo shirt and its fun iterations its trendy moment. Sleeves are all sorts of lengths and fits range from body-con to fluid. Fabrics are KNITTED and made of piqué, all types of jersey, gauze, mesh, ribbing, or yarn that resembles knitwear (sweaters in the US). The collars and plackets are standard. The collection showcases a wide assortment of polo tops across patterns and colours.

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Openwork Knit Polo
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Crocheted Polo Shirt
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Polo Sweater
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Heart Logo Polo
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Ray Stripe Polo
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Stella Jean Polo Tee
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Le Superbe Room Polo
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Very few of my clients and friends wear fashion polo tops, although many wear the gear version for golf and tennis. They generally find them too strict, sporty, angular and hard, unflattering and preppy, and don’t like the collar. Some find them twee, dowdy and unattractive. They’ll wear them for sport, but not for fashion.

I’m in the minority because I LOVE polo tops. They are casual but dressier and more interesting than a basic tee. I wore fluid versions in the ‘80s, and fitted versions in the early ‘90s. I also wore pony club polo shirts for horse riding in the ‘70s and ‘80s. The collar and placket are a slam dunk for my body type, giving me the structure that I crave around my shoulder neck points and narrow shoulders. My long neck loves the coverage of the collar, which I pop when it’s relatively stiff. Polo tops are a magical fit most of the time, so it’s no wonder I’m fond of them.

I have two knitwear versions at the moment that have been fab for Spring. A short sleeved version in ink blue from COS, and a patterned bubblegum pink with longer sleeves from Scotch & Soda. The fits are fluid and welted. They work well worn over or semi-tucked over jeans, utility pants and dressier pants. I always wear them with my chunky pearl necklaces with a few of the top buttons undone. The pearls add glam and a dressy integrity to the polo.

Although on-trend, polo tops are classics, which is another reason I like them. I’m back to wearing all sorts of classic tops this year because the trends are against me, so it’s fab timing that this classic is having a fashion moment. I hope to add some versions for high Summer, and cold weather too.

Over to you. What’s your take on the polo top?

Coach 1941 Fitted Polo Top

FUZZI Camo Polo

Ten Reasons to Wear Bralettes

A bralette is a bra without wires, moulded cups, or much compression. Some resemble sports bras, but without the shock absorbing support. Bralettes are designed to be easy-going, lightweight and comfortable. They tend to create a flatter and more spread-out lift under clothing, as opposed to the round, high and perky lift an underwire bra gives you. The collection below shows a good assortment of bralettes, which are the styles YLF forum members enjoy wearing. They’ve been tried and tested with good results.

Our Team Bra versus Team Jiggle poll revealed that many women wear bralettes instead of bras either exclusively, frequently or occasionally. This surprised me since I have very few clients and friends who wear bralettes, and I don’t wear them either. I thoroughly enjoy wearing pretty bras with underwire and lots of structure so bralettes aren’t on my radar. This is not the case for others, who enjoy or prefer wearing bralettes for one or more of the following reasons:

  1. Daytime Comfort: The lack of compression, ultra softness of the fabric, and zero wire is a lot more comfortable than a regular bra with structured extras. Some have chosen to wear bralettes exclusively for this reason.
  2. Nighttime Comfort: Some wear regular bras out in public, but switch to bralettes at home for lounging, sleeping, gardening, housework, hanging with family, or working from home. The bralette offers just enough coverage and freedom without full-on braless jiggle and exposure.
  3. Travel Comfort: Some reserve bralettes for plane travel because the straps and hooks of regular bras ride up, chafe, and dig into the skin after sitting in a plane seat for several hours.
  4. Breast Sensitivity: Extreme breast and nipple sensitivity is bad news in a regular bra. The ultra soft bralette is just the ticket by providing forgiving and gentle protection.
  5. Outfit Accessory: Decorative bralettes are dead right to wear with low-cut tops, low-cut armholes or sheer tops by providing coverage and just enough support.
  6. Bra Break: The engineered support of a regular bra when you’re larger in the bust can create dents on the shoulders, which is quite heavy going. Wearing a bralette from time to time gives you a break without braless exposure.
  7. Bra Saving: Some wear bralettes to save their expensive bras from wearing out too fast. This is especially true for those who perspire a lot in hot and humid weather.
  8. Easy Care: Some prefer the wash care of a bralette because they can be thrown in the washer and dryer with ease. Bras with underwire on the other hand generally need a little more laundry care.
  9. Cooler in Hot Weather: Apparently bralettes are more ventilating than regular bras, which makes them fab if you run warm, have regular hot flashes, or it’s extremely hot weather.
  10. Shapes a Very Small Bust: A bralette can provide a nicer shape than a regular bra when you have a very small bust.

You don’t need to be small in cup size to effectively wear a bralette. Brands like Cosabella, Torrid and Aerie provide a large assortment of sizes and styles, and chances are high you’ll find one that fits if you like the idea of a bralette.

Black Lace Racerback Bralette

Reflecting on Dad

I was a Mummy’s girl, and my older brother was a Dad’s boy. This is how it was for as long as I can remember. I wanted to hang out and do things with Mum, while my brother was all about doing things with Dad. I was that little girl who relentlessly climbed all over her Mum so that she could always be close to her. My brother was the opposite. Dad worked long hours, and my brother couldn’t wait to spend the weekend with him.

When my Mum died 20 years ago, my relationship with my Dad changed. We grew closer as the years went by, and today I’m as close to my Dad as I ever was to my Mum.

My Dad and I have many differences. He speaks gently, softly, and not very much. I have a loud voice, and to quote my Dad, “Angélique is a great talker, and cannot whisper.” I’m fiery, extroverted, and very social. My Dad is mellow, introverted, a loner, and the King of understatement. He NEVER exaggerates. He will tell you things precisely as they are, or downplay them. As a chartered accountant, he’s a numbers and books person, and I am neither. Dad has a knack for languages and I don’t. Dad is a night owl, and I’m a morning person. Where I’m bouncing with energy, my Dad is reserved. I LOVE shopping, and Dad has always viewed it as punishment.

We also have some strong similarities. We are both hard working, disciplined, organized and tidy. We are global citizens who enjoy travelling and living in different countries. We are similarly fussy, practical, prompt, independent, stubborn, and set in our ways. We really look after our things, keeping them as pristine as possible. We enjoy outstanding food, both at home and in restaurants. We have an extremely sweet tooth. Cake, biscuits, ice cream, chocolate, pastries, dessert — we love it all, at any time of the day. We are house-proud and homebodies, thriving in a cosy atmosphere at home. We love dogs and horses.

At 87 and living alone in the Netherlands since Mum passed away, my Dad is a uniform dresser with a very minimal wardrobe. He’s not into fashion, but enjoys looking classically casual and dapper if someone helps him shop and put his outfits together. That used to be my Mum, and now it’s me. He’s very smiley, which matches the way he dresses. He has always been fond of wearing happy colours and hectic checks. To wear orange, coral, bright green, bright blue, yellow, and all shades of red feels very normal and makes him happy. Dark blue, chocolate and cognac are his black, and tans and stones are his white. Dad wears red specs like I do, which he chose on his own.

He has an appreciation for aesthetics, and for the styles of others who dress well to his eye. He has strong opinions on what he thinks looks stylish. He’s quick to compliment others about their outfits, especially when they wear the colours he likes. He is the most gentle and charming man I know.

I visit my Dad regularly and feel fortunate to be able to do that. Here’s an old photo of us in the Netherlands 16 years ago, before YLF started. This was my first trip to see him after we moved to Seattle from France.

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This photo is recent, taken in April 2019 on the same street in my Dad’s hometown of Velp. Dad had all sorts of nice things to say about my colourful outfit because he likes bright colours! That’s why I make sure I wear them when I’m with him, along with skirts and dresses, which are Dad’s favourite.

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We at YLF wish all Dads, including Dads who are no longer with us, a happy and peaceful Father’s Day.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Casual Summer Palazzo Pants

The palazzo pant trend is going down well with my more casual clients who prefer wearing pants to dresses, skirts and shorts when the weather is too warm for jeans. For those who don’t like to tuck and semi-tuck tops, three of the four examples here showcase untucked tops with palazzos.

Aside from the blue, the palettes are earthy, but feel free to choose any palette in solids or patterns. Sport palazzos at a length and level of volume that works best for you. Shorter or longer, fuller or less flared, it’s all good. Personally, I prefer the visual effect of extra long and full palazzos, but shorter lengths and less voluminous widths are more practical.

1. Earthy Ease

This is the easiest of the four to pull together. Combine a pair of palazzos with a tank or shell top and flat sandals, and you’re done. This is a great formula for short-waisted body types with long leg lines because of its torso-lengthening sensibility. Petites can absolutely wear the look if the top is not too long.

Peruvian Connection Sojourn Palazzo Pants

2. Crisp, Fluid & Sporty

This is a more preppy version and my favourite of the three. Combine palazzo pants that are structured at the waist with a fluid shirt or button-through blouse. Semi-tuck the front or side and scrunch the sleeves to give the outfit some shape or structure. Finish things off with white, tan, blush or metallic sneakers and statement earrings.

Anthropologie Anika Knit Wide-Leg Pants

3. Structured Pretty

Combine a tailored peplum top with a pleated pair of palazzos. The fitted peplum adds ample structure to voluminous palazzos. Finish off the look with casual slides or mules and a straw or embroidered bag. The heels on the slides and the necklace add a dressy component to the look.

Anthropologie Delano Knit Wide Leg Pants

4. Boho Flair

Combine a boho-lite blouse or knitted top with a pair of palazzos. Keeping the top relatively short lengthens the leg line from the hips upward. The suede pumps here are on the dressier side, but the fabrics of the pants and top and straw bag keep things casual. The length and width of these palazzos can be treacherous but they’re awfully striking and dramatic in motion. Please walk slowly when you wear them this long and wide!

Free People FP One Aloha Printed Wide-Leg Pants

The Best Sunscreens of 2019

It seems possible to find fault with almost every sunscreen. Harmful chemicals, skin irritations, allergies, unpleasant textures, ineffective sun protection factors, unsightly white residues, greasy finishes, and overly drying formulas. 

In a recent post I asked readers for their favourite sunscreen. There was a wealth of information in the replies and here’s a summary.

  1. Read the Environmental Working Group’s annual guide to sunscreen products to get information on the the safety and effectiveness of sunscreens. EWG is a non-profit organization that does research on the safety of consumer products for your health and our environment, and their guide is well worth a read.
  2. Mineral based sunscreens were a favourite because they are supposed to be better for your skin. That said, many are using chemical sunscreens because they are effective, work well with their skin, absorb beautifully, and don’t leave an unsightly white residue. Bottom line: you have to go with what works best for your type of skin and lifestyle. That might mean trying out different options until you find just the right one.
  3. Below is a collection of winning sunscreens from our readership. They vary greatly in price and composition. Some are mineral based and some are not. Some are great for oily skin, and some are better for dry skin. The SPF factors vary greatly too. I was happy to see that many recommended the same sunscreens and that the reviews are stellar. Read the reviews and take your pick.

I’m sticking with Neutrogena’s Ultra Sheer Dry Touch for now because it works well for me. When our tubes are finished, I’ll go for one of the mineral based sunscreens on this list. Feel free to add to the list in the comments section.