Scrunchies: Yay or Nay

If you were a long-haired teen in the ’80s you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. A scrunchie is a hair accessory used to tie hair back into a ponytail, half bun, or full bun. It’s a regular hair elastic covered with scrunched fabric, which is how it gets its name. Scrunchies come in all colours and patterns. Some have decorative ties on them. Here are some examples.

I briefly had long hair in the late ‘80s and used scrunchies almost exclusively because they were easy to use, very comfortable, and didn’t damage my hair. You pulled them out with ease, and no ponytail headaches either. I occasionally sported a scrunchie on my wrist so that I could use it to tie my hair back at any time. One year, my favourite Christmas gift was a brightly coloured floral scrunchie. I loved scrunchies.

Scrunchies became passé in the ‘90s and ‘00s just because the so-called fashion-powers-that-be decided it was no longer hip to wear them. It’s silly really, since the scrunchie is nothing more than a very practical hair accessory. The oversized neon, polka dot and lamé versions of 1985 were a bit much, but a refined neutral scrunchie should become a timeless classic, much like a regular hair elastic.

I’m happy scrunchies made a comeback. I see long-haired men and women wear them fairly regularly in solid neutrals in my neck of the woods. It makes me smile because it strengthens the Individualism trend. In fashion and style, almost anything goes if you wear it with intention, confidence and verve. I have no use for scrunchies with short hair, but vote YAY all the way for others. Why not! How about you?

Slip Hollywood Hills Midi Scrunchies

Trend: Wrap Skirts

Wrap skirts take me back to the ‘90s, although they featured decades before that and I wore them in the ‘70s. The oh-so-trendy nod to the ‘90s this year is more prominent than I expected. I’m not generally a fan of ‘90s fashion, but am thoroughly enjoying the redux at retail. 

Wrap skirts come in all sorts of colours, patterns, fabrics, and lengths. Silhouettes can be straight like pencils, or A-line and flared. The wrap feature on the waist and across the front of the skirt can vary greatly too. Most wrap skirts are authentic, thereby wrapping around the body like a bandage. Others are faux, which means they look like they “wrap” but the front cross-over panel is sewn down either at the waistband, or down the front of the skirt. That means there’s a zipper at the back, or it’s a pull-on style. The collection below shows a wide assortment of wrap skirts.

Loft
Floral Wrap Skirt
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Mango
Buckle Wrap Skirt
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Mango
Check Wrap Skirt
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Mango
Midi Wrap Skirt
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Loft
Striped Wrap Skirt
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Mango
Stretch Wrap Skirt
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Zara
Faux Suede Skort
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Zara
Ripped Denim Skort
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Boden
Ella Skirt
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Boden
Florence Maxi Skirt
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The beauty of the wrap skirt lies in its breezy comfort. It’s a very non-restrictive style, because the wrap detailing makes the front fall open allowing ease of movement. Even the faux versions are A-line and quite roomy. The fit is forgiving because you can wrap the style to fit the contour of the body by adjusting the ties or the position of the buttons on the waist. The versions with waist ties make a fabulous statement, and can accentuate the waist. Flowing wrap skirts are magical in motion, and there’s something sensual and soft about the silhouette.

Wrap skirts have their annoying traits too. Authentic wraps can gape in front as you stride and sit, especially when the fronts are cut skimpy and fail to cover enough of you. Styles with waist ties can be fussy and harder to layer with a topper. Most wrap skirts look best with a very cropped top, or tucked and semi-tucked top, which might not be your thing. If you like to wear untucked tops, wrap skirts are not the way to go. That said, when the wraps are faux and the waistbands are flat, untucked tops are easier to style with them.

It’s been 25 years since I wore a wrap skirt. I remember liking Summery and very flowing wrap skirts with waist ties at midi lengths combined with a tucked body-con top and slides. I’d absolutely wear that look again because it’s pretty. I also remember wearing and disliking short A-line faux wrap skirts, and will not be revisiting that look.

Over to you. What’s your take on wrap skirts? What else is good and bad about wearing them?

How Much Is Too Much Cleavage

There are no rules for how much décolletage is appropriate to reveal in a low neckline. Cleavage exposure is a personal choice. Expose what you are comfortable and confident exposing, and get on with your day. 

My friends and clients have very different preferences in this regard. Some are comfortable showcasing a lot of cleavage, while others are not. For some, even a hint of cleavage, in any setting, is too much. Some cover cleavage at work, but showcase cleavage on date night, at the beach, or in formal wear. Some are comfortable showcasing a bit of cleavage in professional settings. Others are comfortable showcasing a bit or a lot of cleavage in non-work settings only. Some base their decision on how confident they’re feeling about their bodies, and who their audience is on the day. If they feel self-conscious in any way, or their audience is conservative – they’ll cover up.

Personally, I think some degree of exposed cleavage in the workplace is inevitable if you’re wearing anything but a very high neckline. This despite the addition of a camisole if you have larger bust and are wearing a V-neck or scoop neckline. But high necklines aren’t as flattering on larger busts, fuller figures, and/or shorter necks, which is why the V or scoop neck was worn in the first place. I don’t think women with a curvy figure or larger bust should be penalized, so I think it’s just fine to show a bit of cleavage at work, especially when you went to the effort of adding a camisole to minimize the effect. Camisoles with front lace detailing and adjustable straps do quite a good job of covering cleavage because the lace detailing can be positioned higher on the décolletage.

In non-professional settings, and especially when you’re on holiday, at the beach, by the pool, at home, for date night, or at a dressy event, I think it’s perfectly acceptable to show some or a lot of cleavage. My tip: do the sit-down test in front of the mirror before you head out because necklines tend to fall open when seated.

I have a regular size bust and a very long neck, which means I wear cleavage covering high necklines 90% of the time because the effect is visually more flattering to my eye. I want to shorten the length of my neck, and high necklines do just that. I do wear collared blouses and shirts leaving some top buttons open, in which case I layer a lacy camisole underneath. I wear the cami not because I want to cover cleavage but because I’m a sucker for a bit of pretty lace peeking through from under the neckline of my top. If I preferred lower necklines on my body type, I’d be fine with showing cleavage in non-professional settings. In professional settings I’d probably conceal as much as I could with a camisole, but not worry too much about it beyond that.

Over to you. How much cleavage are you comfortable exposing, and does the setting make a difference?

Loft Plus Striped Wrap Top

Eloquii Ruffle Cascade Jumpsuit

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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The Good and Bad of Wrap Tops

Wrap tops are a classic we see every season. This season they are abundant, because the waist definition works well with oh-so trendy wide cropped pants, culottes, flares, and fuller skirts. The versions that are defined at the waist complement the high rise trend because the waists are in the same place. 

I think of the wrap top as a ‘70s star although it featured well before that decade too. There are four types of wrap tops, three of which define the waist:

  1. Classic wrap tops that are hip bone length or longer with a tie at the waist.
  2. Cropped ballet wrap tops that sit on or above the waist. Fits can be body-con, tailored or fluid.
  3. Faux wrap tops that are usually fitted, and sometimes fluid.
  4. Wrap-front tops that are very fluid and surrender the waist.

The collection below showcases the four versions across assorted fabrics, colours, patterns and sleeve lengths.

J.Crew
Wrap top in oxford
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J.Crew
Wrap top with collar
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Mango
Wrap Bow T-shirt
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Talbots
Faux-Wrap Top
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Lane Bryant
Poplin Wrap Top
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Hobbs
Clarissa Wrap Top
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Nordstrom
City Chic Wrap Top
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Shopbop
No.6 Kelly Wrap Top
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Nordstrom
City Chic Wrap Top
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Nordstrom
Chelsea28 Wrap Top
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Boden
Elodie Wrap Top
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Boden
Long Sleeve Wrap Top
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Boden
Wrap Jersey Top
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Nordstrom
1901 Wrap Blouse
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Nordstrom
1901 Wrap Blouse
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On to to the pros and cons.

Good

  • Most wrap tops create a sensational V-neckline that works well on shorter necks, fuller bustlines, and broader shoulders
  • They define the waist and streamline the body thereby creating traditionally flattering proportions
  • They are fab on curvy body types
  • They elongate petites
  • They shorten a very long waist
  • They are worn over bottoms so there is no need to tuck or semi-tuck
  • Faux wraps are handy to layer under jackets and cardigans
  • Cropped ballet versions are a slam dunk combination with flared skirts
  • Fluid wrap-front versions have architectural appeal and are a good look for those who are short-waisted and/or want to conceal midsection bits
  • They can look gorgeously soft and pretty

Bad

  • Wrap tops can create an unflattering, impractical and uncomfortable fit over the bust when they’re not cut exactly right
  • V-necklines can be too low and fall open, although you could try a cami or adding a snap
  • V-necklines can be wide and unflattering on those who don’t wear them well
  • The ties of real wraps can be fussy, too long, and get in the way of toppers
  • The tie can accentuate a short waist
  • Wrap-front versions can overwhelm a small frame and narrow shoulders, and slide around the body
  • They sometimes look overly classic

Generally, the wrap top is like the little girl with the curl. When it’s good, it’s VERY good. But when it’s bad, it’s horrid. And that’s exactly how my clients feel about it. The intermittent reinforcement of finding an absolutely fabulous wrap top once in a while keeps the silhouette on their radar.

I don’t wear V-necks well unless the V-shape is created by a collared shirt or blouse, so that keeps me away from most wrap tops. Sometimes the V’s are very shallow or raised at the shoulder neck points which improves proportions for my body type. I also like some of the newer versions with high necklines. I fancy the structure of the tie at the waist and don’t find it fussy. I used to have gorgeous wraps with shallow V-necks made of mesh, and have worn cropped body-con ballet wrap tops with skirts.

When the right wrap top comes my way, I love it. How about you?

Eloquii Wrap Top with Flutter Sleeve

Fashion News Roundup: April 2019

Rent the Runway expands into children’s clothing, several new initiatives from H&M, and other style news that caught our attention this month.

Interesting Fashion Quote

I like what Katie Sturino of The 12ish Style says in her Week of Outfits post on Cup of Jo:

“As you can see, I like my colors BRIGHT. Fashion often pushes women — especially plus-size women — to wear black. Like we’re supposed to hide inside that lack of color. I have plenty of friends who do prefer to wear all black or all grey, but that’s just not my vibe. There is no destination when it comes to size. So often women live as if life will start when they lose 10 pounds or if they achieve a certain pant size. The truth is that if you don’t accept your body as you are, you will never get off the merry go round. I just wear what makes me happy.”