High-Top Sneakers Are My Casual Boots

High tops, or “hi-tops”, are sneakers with high shafts that cover the ankles. Some shafts are higher than others but ankle coverage is key. Hi-tops can have an athletic or fashion vibe but are sporty and casual nonetheless. Some look crisp, refined, and polished. Some look tough, chunky and rough around the edges. Some are a hybrid between a sneaker and bootie. You’ll see all sorts of patterns, colours, embroideries and solids with matched or mismatched soles. Closures are typically zippers, laces, or both. Some have strategically placed elastic inserts for easy slip-on and slip-off access. Sometimes there are velcro fastenings too. Fabrics can be synthetic, leather, Gore-Tex, mesh or mixed-media. Linings can be fleece lined and furry for extra insulation. And soles can be grippy, weatherproof, wedged, and platformed.

The collection shows an assortment of hi-tops:

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Converse Converse
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Shopbop
P448 Star Sneakers
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Sanctuary Sanctuary
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2
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Sanctuary Sanctuary
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3
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Converse Converse
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4
Zappos
Vans Vans
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Ecco ECCO
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UGG UGG
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Converse Converse
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Sanctuary Sanctuary
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Ecco ECCO
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The comfort of regular low-top athletic and fashion sneakers is addictive, and thankfully, today’s fashion has made them very versatile. As a result, I’m wearing non-athletic sneakers almost exclusively these days. But low-tops are not sufficiently insulating in cold weather. Low-top sneakers are okay, up to a point, when my ankles are covered by full-length pants or jeans with knee-highs. But what I really need is a pair of cold-weather ankle-covering casual boots that are as comfortable as my regular sneakers. I find exactly that in the right hi-top sneaker.

Five years ago I bought my first pair of leather, fleece lined hi-top Converse sneakers, and haven’t looked back. I find the leather versions especially comfortable, and the furry inners extremely warm. I successfully made them fit my low-volume feet with a few sets of insoles. They work really well in our wet and cold Seattle weather, and to my eye, their iconic urban design looks good with everything. I wear them with straight and flared jeans silhouettes, dressy checked and velvet pants, pantsuits, and wide crops. I also wear them with a few cold-weather midi dresses and skirts but add hosiery for warmth.

Over the years I’ve added more pairs of hi-tops to my footwear capsule because they have taken the place of casual boots. My current assortment is shown in the collection. They are essentials for my style and the most worn shoes in my wardrobe. They magically dress down my everyday dressy and smart casual attire. I keep them very clean so that they look polished with my outfits. It’s extra effort, but worth the crisp and neat appearance.

If I could magically wave my wand and create a blush pink, citron, red, and light blue pair that fit and felt just like the ones below, I would.

You may have many reasons to prefer regular casual booties over hi-tops. By all means, go with what works best for your style. But if you struggle to find anything as comfortable as the right sneaker, and need a warmer alternative to regular sneakers, the hi-top sneaker is one way to go. 

The Forgotten Denim Skirt

Denim skirts aren’t very popular with my clients and friends, although their teenage and young adult daughters like to wear tight denim mini skirts. Some of my clients prefer to wear denim shorts, jeans and cropped pants. Some enjoy wearing skirts in flowing light fabrics, but not in heavy denim. Some find denim skirts constricting and uncomfortable. Others find them unattractive, conservative, juvenile or too Western.

I like them. Denim skirts can be comfortable and breezy, and to my eye look elegant and fab. They have a vintage and modern retro integrity to them that is appealing. They needn’t be super short and tight if that’s not your thing. They can be knee-length, midi, maxi, A-line and flared. They can have asymmetrical hemlines, and incorporate a little stretch for comfort. They come in all sorts of blue denim washes, and white, blue, black, grey and olive too. They can have pocket, button, zipper, belt, godet inset, pintuck, ruffle, gathering, distressing, and paper-bag design detailing. The patchwork versions are having their mega trendy moment.

The weight of the denim can vary too. Denim can be as lightweight as chambray or as heavy as corduroy. The collection shows a wide assortment of denim skirts across a range of washes and silhouettes.

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Eloquii
Denim Mini Skirt
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BLANKNYC Blank NYC
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Mango
Midi Denim Skirt
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Talbots
Denim Skirt - White
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Mango
Midi Denim Skirt
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Gap
A-line Denim Midi Skirt
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Mango
Medium Denim Skirt
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Over the decades I’ve had many denim skirts in my wardrobe. I passed on a fun ‘80s acid wash denim midi skirt last year because it was a very narrow silhouette. Constricting pencil skirts no longer have a place in my style, but I do miss having a denim skirt. So I’m after a ‘70s A-line or flared midi silhouette with a little or a lot of swoosh, and have a few on order. As far as footwear goes, I’ll wear the skirt with crisp and clean fashion sneakers and hi-tops most of the time, and occasionally throw in tall and short boots, and maybe loafers and ballet flats too.

Over to you. Do you wear denim skirts?

Spotlight: Alice Alexander by Mary Alice Duff

Mary Alice DuffAlice Alexander is a clothing line that was founded by Mary Alice Duff, who designs the label and runs the company. Duff started sewing her own clothes after being enormously frustrated with retail’s lack of a high-quality, ethically-made, and size-inclusive clothing assortment. Her hobby and passion grew into a business. Her mission is to “radically change the fashion industry to one that is inclusive of ALL BODIES and is respectful of people and planet.”

Duff is committed to sustainable and ethical garment manufacture through her vertically integrated company that operates out of Philadelphia with a small team of three other people. Items are designed, patterns are made, and clothing is cut and sewn under one roof instead of outsourcing the services elsewhere. They make their items here in the US on a made-to-order basis to keep production slow and their carbon footprint low. With no inventory on hand, there is no overproduction, and no costly and environmentally damaging garment waste. You can read in more detail how the label achieves sustainability.

Working in this manner allows the label to create sustainable and ethical high-quality clothing for women of every size and shape. As a result, sizes run from US0 to 30, or XS to 4XL, and are available in petite, regular and tall. YES, garments can be made to exact size and measurement requests too. Each made-to-order piece must allow 4-6 weeks for delivery in order to keep things sustainable.

It’s very comforting to know that these types of garment manufacturers are emerging. The assortment is small and exclusive because that’s the point. Designs look timeless, versatile, flattering, a good fit, and the quality jumps off my computer screen. The descriptions and photos of the items are very detailed, and include the hidden features of the garments that you might miss at first glance. Like the immaculately constructed hidden phone pocket inside the lining of the Patti Moto (the last photo below.)

Alice Alexander The Bessie Adventure Jacket in Ivory

Alice Alexander Gloria Culotte in Hands Print

Alice Alexander Ina Shirtdress in Hands Print

Alice Alexander The Rosie Jumpsuit

Alice Alexander The Patti Moto

The price of this approach is that you are not spoiled with item choice, fast delivery, or budget price points. Although items are tailor-made to fit, the seasonal assortment has to tickle your fancy in the first place. Items are fairly pricey compared to what you can get from less sustainable retailers, making them unaffordable to some. I’m also not sure whether you can return and exchange things, which we are extremely used to doing with other retailers. Such are the trade-offs and compromises of creating a sustainable and ethical wardrobe that suits our needs and budget.

If you like the goods, can afford them, and are patient with delivery Alice Alexander can help you make a more sustainable and ethical wardrobe choice that will fit your body type. If you end up purchasing fewer and better items over time that you keep for longer and wear more frequently, then the label has also helped you become a more sustainable and ethical shopper.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Team Lipstick, Earrings, Both or Neither

This poll is about your lipstick and earrings style this year. You bat for Team Lipstick if you’ve been wearing lipstick but not earrings during the pandemic, and vice versa. You bat for Team Both if you’ve continued to wear lipstick and earrings. Team Neither if you’ve given up on both for now. Note that lip balm does not qualify as lipstick, and all kinds of earrings count.

I haven’t worn lipstick since March because I wear a mask as soon as I leave our front door, and I feel odd wearing lipstick while staying and working at home. I tried wearing lipstick at home a couple of times because I love lipstick! But it felt wrong so off it came. Masks and lipstick are a bad combination, but masks and lip balm are great. For now, I’ve switched completely to lip balm. Since I don’t wear earrings at all, I bat for Team Neither. I will wear lipstick post pandemic, but perhaps not as diligently. I have no intention of wearing earrings in the future.

I suspect that many people have paused wearing lipstick, but that earrings are still quite popular. Dangly big earrings are tricky with mask wearing, but small studs are more manageable. That said, big earrings can also be fun to wear for digital meetings, and perhaps lipstick too.

Over to you. Which team do you bat for? Tell us why, and no batting for more than one team.

20 Truths About Style

Style is an energy and confidence that is expressed through clothing, footwear and accessories. It can be a positive force in our lives, but it can also be a source of stress. Here are 20 truths about style that help me to keep perspective, be more accepting, prioritize what is important, and stay in charge of my own style. 

  1. Style is a celebration of individuality. There’s no one way to be stylish.
  2. Style emanates from within. Pay attention to how you feel in an outfit.
  3. Style is about your preferences. Your favourite colours, silhouettes and combinations are always in style.
  4. Style is everyday. It should be manageable and practical.
  5. Style is not a competition. Compare, but don’t despair.
  6. Style is authenticity. Be yourself, rather than an inauthentic version of someone else.
  7. Style is now. Dress the body and lifestyle you have today.
  8. Style is a journey, not a destination. Be patient and enjoy the evolution.
  9. Style is personal. Listen to yourself most of all. Other people have opinions, but you know best.
  10. Style is not about pleasing everyone. Choose a small group of people whose opinions matter to you.
  11. Style is your decision. Don’t let it boss you around.
  12. Style is social. It unites people. It creates helpful and entertaining communities like YLF.
  13. Style is within your means. Don’t focus on what you don’t have.
  14. Style is not obsession. There is much, much more to life than physical appearance.
  15. Style is not trends. A look is only dated when you are done wearing it. Not when an influencer, designer or fashion magazine says so.
  16. Style is uplifting. Your style can inspire others.
  17. Style is subjective. Judge the outfit, and not the person wearing it.
  18. Style is not fashion. The world of fashion is fickle and sometimes ridiculous. Don’t take it too seriously.
  19. Style is sustainable. As far as possible, make sustainable and ethical choices when choosing your wardrobe.
  20. Style is fun. Relax into it. Let it be your creative expression. Have fun and laugh a lot.

Recently I have been summarizing the aspects of style that are most important to me personally with the acronym SIMPAT: Sustainable, Individual, Manageable, Practical, Authentic and Therapeutic.