Outfit Formula: Patterned Luxe

If you’re in the mood for a luxe, structured, and dressier vibe that is still relatively comfortable, take a look at these outfits. They might inspire you to pull together a similar look from your own wardrobe, put a potentially fab item on your shopping list, or spark an idea for another outfit. These outfits showcase pants, which is quite a practical choice in Winter, but feel free to substitute a skirt. Choose any colour palette and let the creative juices flow.

1. Dramatic Coat and Shoe Sandwich

This is a great formula, especially when you’re out and about and need to keep your outerwear on most of the time. It’s about creating a quiet outfit of neutral wardrobe essentials — like flared jeans and a blouse — and finishing things off with a spectacular topper and pair off shoes that make a statement. When the coat comes off, the wearer keeps things interesting with a pair of gigantic hoops that bookend the gold loafers. I don’t wear earrings so I’d rely on my statement eyewear and essential pearl necklaces to make the outfit look finished without the statement coat.

Dramatic Coat and Shoe Sandwich

2. Matching Triple Plaid

This is a hectic look with plenty of harmony. The outfit combines three plaids, which are in a similar palette, and have the same geometric integrity. Therein lies the harmony, because the eye can rest when it finds colour and pattern matching. The topper and pants create a tonal match of sorts, because the plaids are almost the same, albeit across very different scales. The yellow tartan bag picks up the yellow in the other patterns. Simple wardrobe essentials like a neutral top and boots are easy additions that complete the outfit.

Matching Triple Plaid

3. Three Patterns and a Solid Support Act

A neutral pair of micro-check pants are paired with a striped top in a similar neutral palette. The micro-check is a false plain that functions much like a solid. A scarf that picks up the neutrals in the outfit adds a vibrant touch, and is the focal point because it’s the only place in the look where non-neutrals are represented. That makes them stand out. Wardrobe essentials, like a black coat and oxfords, quietly finish off the outfit and let the rest stand out. The outfit would also look great without the scarf.

Three Patterns and a Solid Support Act

4. Playfully Structured and Suited

A suit in a subtle plaid takes the strictness out of the corporate silhouette, without looking unprofessional. The green top matches the green stripe in the plaid and creates a fun pop of colour. It’s also the focal point of the outfit. I like the green, but would probably have kept things neutral and crisp with a cream layering top to match the cream boots. Gorgeous nonetheless. Add jewellery, watch and eyewear as desired.

Playfully Structured and Suited

Weekly Roundup: Dressier Items

Here’s a collection of items that have a lot of potential and can be worn across the seasons. I’ve thrown in some dressier tops because you might be craving just that after eleven months of casual pandemic attire. I know I am. Many of the items have great reviews, and some items are on sale. Happy browsing!

  • Hobbs Sonya Printed Top: A knitted top made of soft and luxe viscose elastine. Great layering top for under jackets, or to wear on its own. Fitted.
  • Lois Hill Sterling Silver Scroll Stud Earrings: An elaborate pair of studs when you're in the mood to elevate from simple and minimal earrings.
  • Hobbs Elva Silk Horse Printed Scarf: If you like horses, jewel tones, and square silk scarves, give this one a go.
  • Halston Prisma Long-Sleeve Asymmetrical Jersey Dress: A long-sleeved black jersey dress with lots of gorgeous drape and visual ruching interest. You need to showcase the waist in the silhouette, which is fitted. Will look as good worn as a tunic over cropped cigarette pants or flared crops. Comes in white.
  • M&S Collection Jersey Floral Circle Midi A-Line Skirt: An easy and very comfy jersey midi to pair with a welted or cropped hoodie or sweatshirt and sneakers, or a dressier support act. A tee with knotted hem could work too. Click the link to see some fun sporty styling.
  • L.K.Bennett Alessandra Purple Bouclé Double-Breasted Coat: A very well-made knee-length purple belted bouclé coat is a rare find and playfully chic. This one is on sale.
  • L.K.Bennett Ingrid Argyle Merino Cotton Jumper: A cropped sweater for Team Bright Argyle looks awfully fun and this one is on my radar. The fabric blend of cotton and wool is appealing too. It reminds me of a fun golfing outfit.
  • Kate Spade cat dot top: A classic and pretty blouse for Team Black & White and cat lovers.
  • Kit & Ace Effortless Merino Wave Long Sleeve Tee: A machine-washable woolly tee that looks a little more polished than a regular jersey tee. Fluid, yet tailored. The structured tapered hem allows it to work well for skirts and wider pants - much like a banded bottom without the band. Layers quite well under jackets. Comes in black and grey. An effective blank canvas for statement jewellery. Great wardrobe essential.
  • Kit & Ace Featherlight Pants: A VERY lightweight and wrinkle-resistant pair of pants that works well for a curvier body type. Roomy on the thighs. Dress it up or down. Comes in a mid-tone blue.
  • Kit & Ace Go To Jacket: A unique knee-length fluidly tailored blazer with very long side slits to create a dramatic touch. It's machine-washable, partly made of recycled polyester, and available in dark neutrals. Click the link to see it in motion and styled in a simple yet effective way. Dress it up or down. A good wardrobe essential.
  • Radley London Baylis Road Suede Multiway: A beautifully made satchel and convertible crossbody in a rich shade of navy. On sale.
  • Radley London Elia Mews Small Zip Top Crossbody: A casual and robust Spring and Summer crossbody for Team Lilac.
  • Kit & Ace 3-in-1 Jacket: A topper that can be worn as a short jacket, long belt-less trench coat, or a long vest. Click on the link to see how. Cotton-rich and machine-washable. Comes in tan and black.
  • Ted Baker London Lyhndi Bergamot Flocked Sweatshirt: This is the type of easy and slightly architectural sweatshirt that looks great with skirts and wider pants. A forgiving silhouette that is structured and tailored in all the right places.
  • Fuzzi Leopard & Floral Print Ruffle Mesh Skirt: A fun and very comfy skirt that you can wear romantically, or with a hard edge. Works well on a straighter and curvier figure because the mesh follows the contour of the body.
  • Ted Baker London Decadence Floral Long Sleeve Top: A beautifully crafted navy floral blouse for Team Long Neck and Arms, who like cool colours. Best on a regular size bust. Gorgeous with white pants.
  • Donna Karan New York Donna Karan Print Tunic: This type of tunic works well on a slew of body types, but you have to be okay with the architectural volume. The pattern cleverly tempers the volume with its diagonal integrity. Make sure it fits on the shoulders and that the sleeves are sufficiently tailored. You can unbutton the collar too.
  • Ted Baker London Rococco High Neck Blouse: An awfully pretty teal blouse for Team Modern Victoriana. You need to wear and like mock turtlenecks to like the fit of this type of neckline. Wear it untucked over slimmer pants.
  • Ted Baker London Cannan Woven Peplum Shirt: A shirt with a peplum can look playfully pretty and very crisp. Forgiving on the midsection, breezy, and versatile. I can see it work with a range of bottoms, and layer under a topper. I have my eye on this one, and it's on order.
  • mDesign Expandable Makeup Organizer for Bathroom Drawers, Vanities, Countertops: Organize Makeup Brushes, Eyeshadow Palettes, Lipstick, Lip Gloss, Blush, Concealer - Adjustable Width - Clear: If you are a make-up minimalist like me, this tray is the bomb, and all you need. It's compact, versatile, easy to use and clean, and awfully neat and tidy. I store all my make-up in this tray with nail files, nail clippers and eye-brow tweezer, with room to spare.
  • Boden Rosie Jersey Top: I've been looking for a Breton stripe in a trendier silhouette, and this is it. Very roomy on the midsection and with an architectural dropped '80s sleeve. The hem tapers a little and has bound side slits so it works beautifully worn out over bottoms. It has a subtle sleeve cuff, and a bound neck too. Substantial rugby jersey fabric, and well made. Comes in neutrals.
  • Boden Cashmere Crew Cardigan: This is beautifully refined with gorgeous small tortoise shell buttons. It's tailored, classic, and chic. You might need to size up if you prefer a roomier fit. It's longer, and can be worn buttoned up, which is how I wear the citron. I unbutton the top button and the last two buttons on the bottom to create a different type of "pullover" look with a cardigan. Comes in many colours. It's a versatile item for my style.
  • Boden Eldon Crop Cardigan: SUPER cute cropped little cotton cardigan with darling gold buttons. VERY comfy. This has a lovely boxy '60s look to it that stole my heart. I wear it all buttoned up like a top with a higher rise or skirt.
  • Steve Madden Steve Madden: Super fun and comfy perforated sneakers for hotter weather. Airy and ventilating. Comes in three more colours. Might need to size up.
  • Halogen Argyle Sweater: A fun argyle that comes in SIX colour variations. Some of the variations are subtle, and some very bold. Roomy fit so size down.
  • Dolce Vita Huey Bootie: Super cute Winter bootie with a crisp white rubber lug sole. To my eye, the white sole MAKES the boot. Not too heavy, and quite comfortable. Add an insole for extra cushioning comfort. Might not work on high insteps because it's a pull-on style. Good for high arches. Chunky yet reasonably refined. Not too wide on the ankle.
  • L.L.Bean Women's Scotch Plaid Flannel Shirt, Relaxed Zip Hoodie: This hooded plaid zip-through shirt comes in eleven plaids and is very size inclusive. It's quite unique, and looks good layered over a long sleeved thermal tee with jeans, joggers or utility pants. Runs roomy.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

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Sonya Printed Top
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Kate Spade
cat dot top
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Go To Jacket
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3-in-1 Jacket
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Rosie Jersey Top
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Eldon Crop Cardigan
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Aging Well, Your Way

I used to think that aging well was about looking younger than your years. These days I believe that it has much more to do with a positive attitude and balanced state of mind, than physical appearance. It’s key to get your priorities right and think more holistically in order to enjoy the aging process and find peace in your heart. If you don’t, you’re a lot more vulnerable to feeling lost, unworthy, invisible, unattractive, and unhappy as you get older.

Just like there is no one way to be stylish, there is no one way to age well. How we choose to age with grace, spunk, energy, independence and fulfillment is as personal as the rest of our style. 

The people in my life who have aged well and are young at heart have many things in common. They are mentally strong, confident, positive, active, have a good sense of humour, are constantly learning, and keep up with the world around them. They pay good attention to their physical appearance, but are also unaffected. They are at peace with how they look and who they are, laugh a lot, don’t compare and despair, see the good in other people, and have a sense of adventure. They cherish life, and get stuck into what it has to offer with the people and pets that mean the most to them. They appreciate the smallest gestures, and don’t take things for granted. This frame of mind is extremely inspirational to me.

First things first: accepting and embracing the aging process. We can’t stop it, so we might as well make the most of it. I’m 50, and with the gift of a good bill of health, there is a lot I still want to do and accomplish in my next 50 years. I want to focus on that, and how I can make a meaningful difference in the world and to my loved ones. I want to age without the pressure of wanting to look younger than my age. I want to age naturally, energetically, and with an optimistic attitude. I want to feel good about my age, and be grateful for what I have, every single day.

I continue to rise above the thought that looking older is the enemy, and shout that from the rooftops. I want to ignore the anti-aging messages that I’m bombarded with daily on social media and in the entertainment world, because it’s not important. The world’s obsession with youth and young beauty is extreme, which can negatively impact our self-esteem. No thank you. I want to laugh it off and maintain a stylish balance, so that I can relax into and embrace the physical effects of aging with a happy heart.

Physically, I want to continue giving my skin, hair, teeth, hands and feet the attention that they deserve because those are the components of my physical appearance that I think of as most important. I can’t do much about wrinkles, jowls, and sagging skin when aging naturally, but I can strive to have dewy and healthy skin, and maintain well-groomed hands and feet with naked nails. I can look after my teeth, and sport a fun and current short hairstyle with a shiny head of hair.

I will continue to have fun with fashion and style, because I enjoy it! It’s my bread and butter, a hobby, and an unstressful component of my life. I have the power to pick and choose from the buffet of trends every season, and wear them my way. Individualism is the strongest trend of all, and I’ll continue sporting my signature looks until I’m bored with them, and not because they are no longer on-trend or I’m “too old” to wear them.

It’s also important that I stay active and supple as I age, because it gives me energy, makes me think more deeply, relieves stress, and keeps the aches and pains at bay. I want to continue my daily yoga practice for as long as I am able to stretch, bend and move fluidly because it makes me feel centred and grounded. I hope to continue with my urban walking lifestyle, because it feels liberating and therapeutic. It also makes me feel connected to life, and helps me appreciate the beauty that surrounds me.

Aging is a privilege. I hope to age as well as those who inspire me. With each passing year I experience more of what life has to offer. With these experiences come the gift of reflection, wisdom, and self-awareness. I strive to be more open-minded, proactive, patient and problem-solving as I age. I want to go to bed with a clear conscience, and wake up choosing joy. 

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Casual Chic in Cinnamon & Brown

A new outfit from Psyche Southwell of Economy of Style, whom we introduced to YLF in July 2015.

Psyche dresses up casual joggers and a sweater with a relaxed-fit, drop-shoulder cashmere coat. The sleeveless rib knit turtleneck adds subtle texture. The warm toffee colour of the top doesn’t match the cool-toned chocolate brown of the joggers, nor the rich cinnamon of the coat, but the stunning combination of these three shades of brown makes for an eye-catching tonal Sporty Luxe ensemble. The stone sneakers with contrasting toe cap and two-toned laces add another earth tone into the mix, while the white soles on the footwear give them a crisp finish. The small satchel in vibrant teal is unexpected, and makes the browns stand out even more. So does Psyche’s glam bright red lipstick. She finishes off this casual chic look with a silver chain bracelet, watch, wrap ring and hoop earrings with bright blue faceted stone that match the bag.

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Wardrobe Basics Refresh for 2021

Time for the annual wardrobe basics post. You might not enjoy wearing or purchasing basics because they’re tedious to try on, hard to fit, hard to find, relatively pricey, and quite boring. Most basics are also hidden from public view. I get that it’s much more fun to spend time, energy and money on wardrobe items that you and others can see, and I feel the same way. But the fact is that most wardrobe basics are workhorses. We wear them daily and cannot get dressed without them. That’s why they deserve your attention, and a portion of your budget, at least once a year.

To recap, wardrobe basics are items like panties, bras, camisoles, thermals, socks, sleepwear, shapewear, loungewear, hosiery, and workout wear. They are NOT the same thing as wardrobe essentials, which we discussed at length last week.

It’s extremely satisfying to wear comfortable, breathable and flattering underwear, to wear socks that don’t slip and slide, to wear hoisiery that doesn’t dig into the waist, to have workout wear that looks good and does the job, and to wear loungewear that looks pulled together. If you’ve neglected these aspects of your style, I’m reminding you to replenish what you can this year. Review your wardrobe, assess which basics need replenishing, and add them to your shopping list.

Personally I am reluctant to spend money on some basics, like workout wear, but bite the bullet because it’s so worth it. On the other hand, I like wearing pretty underwear, hosiery and cute loungewear, so I adore shopping for those basics.

My guess is that your wardrobe basics are in relatively good shape because many prioritized these types of wardrobe purchases while we held on tight — and continue to hold on tight — through the global pandemic. The emphasis on workout wear and loungewear over the last eleven months has been enormous, and with good reason. You might even have the best set of wardrobe basics that you’ve ever had. That is definitely the case for me.

Coincidently, it was a style goal in 2020 to refresh most of my wardrobe basics, which I did throughout the year. I purchased monthly and a few items at a time. I replenished across all wardrobe basics categories quite thoroughly, except for workout wear. It’s therefore a style goal in 2021 to give that section of my wardrobe some love.

My workout wear needs are simple: a yoga capsule and that’s it. These items are worn for yoga and physical therapy, and nothing else. The pandemic changed my yoga setting from a heated studio to an at-home practice, which meant that I needed a different set of clothes. It’s just as well because I last bought workout wear seven years ago, and my stuff was a little shot. I therefore created a new capsule from scratch.

It’s taken a while, but my new yoga capsule for at-home practices is complete. I created five outfits for five practices a week to avoid laundry bottlenecks. I need a sports bra, leggings, a long-sleeved top and a sweatshirt for each practice. The sweatshirts are only for the beginning and end of practice, so three is ample because they don’t need to be washed after every wear. I chose pink, teal, navy, olive and eggplant as the main colours, because those were the colours available in the items and brands that I like. I tried to avoid black and grey, but it was hard so you’ll see a bit of that coming through too. I like the idea of wearing looser yoga wear, but it doesn’t work for my practice. I’ve tried, and it was disastrous. I need compression leggings and tighter tops for vinyasa and hatha yoga because of excessive stretching and movement at a faster speed. I don’t enjoy wearing leggings and tight technical fabric tops, but it’s the most practical solution because the items stay put and stretch. My favourite items here are the sweatshirts, which were the most fun to buy.

Now that that’s done and dusted, and I’m committed to practising yoga at home from now on, I hope to not have to think about purchasing yoga gear for a few years. The collection shows the exact items in my capsule.

Over to you. Are you refreshing wardrobe basics this year? When did you last edit and review your wardrobe basics capsules? Are your wardrobe basics in better shape than ever after 2020?