Link Love: Lingerie for 2021

From boxer shorts to Bridgerton-inspired underwear, these are the top lingerie trends for 2021 according to Refinery29.

Why Bridget Jones’s Big Knickers Are On the Rise in Lockdown.”

Expert tips on how to find the best sports bras that offer proper support for workouts.

Refinery29 and StyleCaster round up the best bralettes and best bras for larger busts.

StyleCaster also shares suggestions for the best gap-free bras for small busts.

Fab Links from Our Members

Mary Wilson of the Supremes recently passed away. Nuancedream remembers watching the Supremes on the Ed Sullivan Show as a very young girl and thinking they were the most glamorous women she had ever seen.

Nemosmom found this interesting read about the rise of emotional spending

Madeline likes how Lucy Bertoldi explains the term “enrobed cognition”, and uses the phrase “dopamine styling”.

In keeping with Angie’s blog post, Runcarla directs us to this interesting and meaty article about the psychology of fashion and personality.

Nikki is intrigued with hybrid patterns for transitional seasons.

Lies About Clothes to Unlearn in Your Twenties.” Vildy and nuancedream both recommend this ‘An Emperor Has No Clothes’ take on how to choose clothes you will actually end up wearing. 

Weekly Roundup: Assorted Items

I’m awfully pleased to see that more retailers are committed to sustainable and ethical manufacturing practices. For example, chain stores like Banana Republic and Hobbs are taking extra care with fabric sourcing, denim rinsing, and creating items with recycled polyester. H&M, Gap and Zara are using recycled polyester too. And more brands are extending their size ranges, of which Nic + Zoe is one example.

I see dressier attire gracing Spring and transitional collections amidst the plethora of activewear, athleisure, and loungewear. To my eye, it’s quite the welcome change, and hopefully a sign that the world is beginning to normalize as we soldier through the global pandemic. Browse the colour and size options, and read the reviews. Some items are on sale.

  • Ted Baker London Pleated Zebra Print Skirt: This is a very well cut and flattering sunray pleated skirt because the top portion of the pleats are stitched down and lie flat. No pouf, bulging or gathers. Elegant and gorgeous in motion.
  • Nic + Zoe In The Groove Tie Dye Top: An interesting sweat top with a fabulous asymmetrical hemline, which creates a flattering diagonal line on the body.
  • Alice + Olivia Willa Wanderlust Print Smock Cuff Top: A novelty blouse to soothe your travel bug. It's 100% viscose so I would follow the dry clean only washing instruction.
  • Nic + Zoe Champion Cardigan: This is for Team Long & Lean Outfit Silhouettes. The ribbed effect of the cardigan is unique, substantial and streamlining. I like the way it creates a twinset with a matching tank top. Comes in cream.
  • Nic + Zoe Champion Tank: These tanks are popular with my clients because of good fabric and fit. They layer well under jackets and cardigans, and look good on their own. Neat armhole and neckline fit. Comes in cream.
  • Nic + Zoe Tie Dye Moto Jacket: A patterned moto jacket in a crisp cotton for Team Blue could be a fun Spring addition.
  • Rebecca Taylor Simone Fleur Floral Short Sleeve Silk Dress: I love this dress because it's awfully pretty, romantic, breezy, covered, and drapes like a dream. Beautifully swooshy in motion and very comfortable. The neckline is high so make sure you are okay with that. It would be mine if the colours were different.
  • Reiss Sicily Wool Blend Coat: If you're looking for a beautifully made and luxe cream coat with a slightly architectural vibe, try this one. Make sure you like the length. I find it a little short, but it might be dead right for you.
  • Reiss Stella Metallic Blouson Sleeve Sweater: The stock photo does not do this sparkly sweater justice. The sleeves are like a work of art. Very pretty and awfully refined. Does NOT need to be tucked, so feel free to wear it out and over bottoms. It would have been mine in navy.
  • Rebecca Taylor Simone Fleur Silk Charmeuse Bias Cut Skirt: If you like bias-cut skirts in cool shades of berry and burgundy, keep this one on your radar. The bias cut is not skimpy and glides well over the contour of curvier and straighter hips and thighs.
  • Reiss Tiffany Animal Pattern Sweater: This pullover looks a lot better NOT tucked. The pattern is full of diagonal lines that visually, do magical things on the body. Crisp, chunky, comfy and fun for a cold Spring day.
  • Gap Brooklyn Textured Ankle Pant: These pants are a repeat style that continue to be favourites with clients and forum members. They work well on a curvier and straighter figure, the fit is that good. Easy to launder and crease-resistant. Very fun windowpane check and tuxedo stripe. Available in sizes US0 to US26.
  • L.L.Bean Women's Ultrasoft Sweats, Full-Zip Mock-Neck Jacket Stripe: A striped zip-through jacket could be a fun addition to your Athleisure capsule. Fab under a short puffer. Comes in petite, straight and plus sizes across four stripes.
  • Alice + Olivia Jeannie Bow Collar Silk Top: A different type of yoga top, and quite the acquired taste. Playfully dressy and active in a different way!
  • London Fog Faux-Fur-Trim Hooded Down Puffer Coat: A beautifully made and machine washable TEAL diamond quilted puffer with detachable hood. Tailored, flattering and warm. Comes in purple, and might run a little big.
  • G-Star Raw New Revynn Ultra High Skirt C: G-Star manufactures extremely sustainably and ethically, so they are always on my radar. This is the type of raw urban A-line midi denim skirt I was looking for last year, so I'm giving it a go. It runs small.
  • Banana Republic Vegan Suede 4-Pocket Jacket: A machine-washable faux suede jacket that is boxy, but somehow streamlined in a straight drape kind of way. Works better on a larger bust than you might expect. Has that '90s trucker jacket look to it. Comes in toffee.
  • Brooks Brothers Floral-Print Cotton Sweater: 100% cotton machine-washable floral pullover that's soft and comfy for Spring. Nice fluid fit. Size down if you want a tighter fit.
  • Standards & Practices Elain Denim Pencil Skirt: A long, lean, and very comfy denim midi skirt with faux front buttons that don't pull apart when seated. Goes up to 3XL.
  • SLINK Jeans Stretch Cotton Denim Skirt: Comfy Olive Denim Skirt Fabness. Works well on a curvier and straighter figure.
  • LIVERPOOL LOS ANGELES Seamed Stretch Twill Jacket: A soft and stretchy blush denim jacket is comfortable and a little different to blue denim. Cute with black, grey and white bottoms, jeans, and blush patterned dresses and skirts. Works on a range of body types because the fabric moulds to the body.
  • LIVERPOOL LOS ANGELES Peplum Cargo Jacket: An olivey-grey tencel peplum jacket is cute over straight dresses and skirts, and casual pants or jeans. Might run a little roomy.
  • LIVERPOOL LOS ANGELES Liverpool Clean Coated Denim Moto Jacket: A coated denim jacket in a shade of toffee and in a clean moto silhouette is a rare find. This one comes in red and black, and is made of rayon. Soft and stretchy. Might run a little big.
  • Michael Brie Ankle-Strap Pumps: A dressy and classic slingback with a manageable and stable block heel. Accommodates slightly wider front feet, and is relatively cushioning. Comes in other neutrals.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

Spotlight: Pari Passu

I first noticed the Pari Passu brand at Nordstrom last year, and liked their handwriting. They offer dressier attire and elevated essentials in sizes US12 to US24 across beautiful fabrics. Their items are versatile, crisp, sharp, and a little different to the norm. Trendy classic silhouettes, outstanding fits, flattering cuts, playful detailing, sophisticated, tailored, and lots of neutrals. Prices are high, but they do go on sale.

I did a little digging and was pleasantly surprised by the story behind the brand. Pari Passu is a Latin expression that means “equal in all respects”. The purpose of the brand, as they put it, is “to give curvy women access to the kind of fashion that is pari passu with what is offered to their straight-size sisters.”

The brand specializes in tailoring and excellent fit. Pattern-making experts and designers spent more than a year pouring over the 3D body scans of thousands of women size US12 and above to perfect the fit across their seven sizes. They based their fits on shape rather than size, because one shape does not fit all.

The brand perfected three types of fits that take into account the unique details and nuances of larger women’s bodies. They use multiple fit models for each item in their assortment, and work hard at getting every detail right. Their sample size is a US18, and not the more usual US12. Bottoms that are flattering, jackets that drape with chic, and tops that don’t pull at the bust and on the arms are a few of the fit concerns that the brand takes very seriously. As a result, a very unique fit system was born. All you need to do is find your shape and then your size, and Pari Passu will guarantee you a perfect fit. And if you don’t see your size, they encourage you to contact them for custom options.

Premium fabrics that ensure excellent quality are ethically sourced by expert artisans in New York City. All items are made in the USA, which amps up their sustainability game. Meet the people who helped launch the brand’s first campaign. They look FABULOUS. Watch the verve, confidence and beauty bounce off the screen in the video.

Pari Passu Debi White Cotton Stretch Blazer

Pari Passu Hillary Jacquard Zebra Coat

When Shanna Goldstone, the co-founder and creative director of Pari Passu, was asked in an interview why they used a harder to find size US18 fit model rather than the more usual and easier to find US12, she said that it “was important for us to show what our clothes look like on a body that is truly reflective of the majority of women in this country, not some fashion ideal of what that looks like.”

Goldstone hopes that their campaign and brand encourages a more diverse representation of bodies in the modelling industry, and I do too.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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White Jeans With Essentials

Here are two very easy outfits to replicate as we look forward to mild Spring weather. They are for those who like to wear very simple, tailored, and neutral modern classics. They consist almost entirely of quiet wardrobe essentials, which is a testament to how well a personal set of versatile essentials can function for your style. 

In both outfits, the wearers have dramatic hair, and finished off their look with large hoop earrings. Those variables add punch to the essentials. The fits of the items and the proportions of the outfits are smashing, which is extra important when you’re making simple neutrals like this shine.

1. Casual Light Neutrals

Light blue, white, and pearl grey is a beautifully serene palette for Spring and Summer, and easily achieved with faded denim as the light blue component. Here a pair of white cropped skinny jeans is combined with a tucked grey sweatshirt and fluid faded denim jacket. Wear the top out if that’s your preference. The longer length jacket works well with the jeans. White sneakers are an easy and comfortable addition that lengthens the leg line by extending the column of white.

Swap the denims around if white jeans aren’t for you. Wear faded blue or light grey jeans with a white denim jacket, and a white, light blue or pearl grey top. By all means add more bling to the outfit. I’d wear this with a light blue top instead of grey, and with roomier white jeans like relaxed straight legs, barrel legs or wide crops. I could also throw in my light blue bag and sneakers.

Levi's 311 Shaping Skinny Women's Jeans

2. Smart Casual Contrast

This version is a little dressier and richer because of the contrasting neutrals. Combine a pair of white jeans with a navy top and black blazer, or other type of dark solid jacket. Finish off the look with simple black footwear like loafers or boots. Here, the loafers have statement hardware, which makes them louder than the quiet essential they would be in solid black. Feel free to sub the black for dark blue, and the white for light grey. Silver shoes will work well too.

M&S COLLECTION Cotton Frill Neck Long Sleeve Shirt

Style Beliefs, Values and Personality

I think it is important that the way I dress aligns with my beliefs, my values, and my personality. The result is a style that is more true to who I am as a person. I have also found that it is much easier to manage and evolve a style that is authentically me. Whenever my style strays from this, it bites me in the bottom eventually.

Of course, our style-related beliefs, values and personality are unique to each of us. There are no right and wrong answers. Also, style is often intuitive and reasoning for choices hard to articulate. That’s OK too. If you trust your gut at this point in your style journey, go for it.

If you are feeling in an introspective mood, spend a little time writing down your beliefs, values and personality as they relate to your style. Here are mine.

Beliefs

  • Grown-Up: I don’t want to look juvenile. Of course, what this means is very subjective to me. For example, you might perceive polka dots, Converse sneakers, and bright colours as overly young and unsophisticated looks for a person over the age of 50, but I perceive it differently. I’ve been wearing these items consistently my whole life, and they continue to feel dead right.
  • Dressy: By today’s standards I am somewhat traditional and formal. I suspect my upbringing had a lot to do with this. I had a very dressy and glam mother, who was a role model. I have a father who is very polite and proper about things, and he’s a role model too. I wore a school uniform with shirt, tie and blazer for twelve years. I was also expected to dress up for occasions as a form of respect to others. As a result I almost always err on the side of dressy, no matter what I’m doing.
  • Enclothed Cognition: This is about the psychological effect that clothing has on the way a person thinks, feels, and functions. I am a poster child for this. I’m less effective if I don’t dress for the task at hand. On the other hand, if I dress in the way that I perceive as appropriate for the task, I concentrate more easily. It puts me in a more positive state of mind. I am more productive, and I make better decisions.
  • Balance: I strive to achieve an optimum balance between the different aspects of my life. I have a moderately sized wardrobe, despite being a fashion professional. I find my sweet spot between old and new wardrobe items, neutrals and non-neutrals, trends and classics, outfit uniformity and variety, and caring and not caring about my style. I try to move with the times, but without disregarding the traditional way of doing things when it works just as well.
  • Sustainability and Ethics: We have to save our planet so that future generations can thrive, so I make the most sustainable and ethical wardrobe decisions that I can manage. This is reflected in how I shop, where I shop, when I shop, which items I purchase, how I edit and care for wardrobe items, how I pass on wardrobe items, and how I refresh my style. My decisions are by no means perfectly sustainable and ethical, but I work hard to find the best solutions while being true to my other style beliefs.
  • I’m Worth It: My wardrobe is there for me to enjoy, and I don’t leave things for good. I get the biggest bang for my fashion buck by wearing my pretty and dressy items daily. I don’t feel guilty about refreshing my wardrobe seasonally, as long as I stay within my budget and allocated storage space, and am thoughtful and organized about my purchases. Growing older is about enjoying the life we are given, and doing things sooner, rather than later. Because if not now, when?

Values

  • Modesty: I have always been a modest dresser, even as a child and teen. I choose to cover up rather than expose. I don’t wear items that are very tight or revealing. Apart from when I’m sleeping, I always wear a well-supported bra. My tailored fits are more fluid than the norm. Hubs Greg, who has known me for decades, says, “covering up is your thing, and part of your look.” Enough said.
  • Practicality: I like to wear dressy clothes because it makes me feel fabulous and pulled together. I like glitz, luxe fabrics, white wardrobe items, polish, and lots of refinement. But I am as practical as I am dressy, because life is about getting on with it, and not about being precious and uncomfortable in an outfit for the sake of looking good. I have zero tolerance for footwear discomfort, which is why I wear fashion sneakers most of the time. I keep my hair very short because the wind and rain in Seattle can be relentless. I lead an urban walking life across four seasons, so if my outfit doesn’t allow me to comfortably work with clients and run errands on foot with Yorkie Sam, it’s not worth wearing!
  • High-Low: Our home decor, the food we eat, the services we render, and the way we travel is a mix of high and low price points. We pay higher prices for some things, and much lower prices for others, depending on the value we perceive. Often the very best things are the least expensive, and the most expensive things sometimes have very little value. My wardrobe reflects this too.

Personality

  • Exuberant:  I do not have a quiet presence. You know when I’m at home, because I’m an extraverted chatterbox. I speak and laugh loudly. When I was a little girl my quiet, introverted Dad would remark that I found it impossible to whisper and that “Angélique is a great talker.” I haven’t changed much. My more maximal style suits my exuberance. 
  • Energetic: I have a lot of energy, and I’m greedy for more. It allows me to accomplish a lot in a day and get stuck into what life has to offer. I wear lively outfits because they match my energy levels, but also because they give me energy. I get a boost from bright colours, patterns, pattern mixes, bright whites, and high-contrast looks, which is why I wear them so frequently.
  • Bold: Although my outfits are modest in terms of coverage, they are also bold. I’m not a shy person, and my outfits reflect a boldness that feels authentic. 
  • Structured: I crave a good amount of structure in my life, and in my outfits. It’s a way of keeping my world disciplined and organized. As soon as my outfits look and feel too loose, I have to temper the volume and bring back some order. I feel more attractive and confident when my outfits are fluidly structured, because those proportions work well with my slight frame.
  • Playful: It’s become important to me to wear outfits that are or have light-hearted, creative, soft, amusing and fun elements. This keeps things positive, and also reminds me to not take the fashion and style world too seriously, and to do my own thing.
  • Sentimental: I can be very sentimental. I will absolutely purchase and wear an item with extra joy if it pulls on my heart strings for sentimental reasons. Like if the items have dogs and horses on them, or remind me of my favourite fashion decades like the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s. I hesitate to pass on items that have extreme sentimental value, and will wear items that were given to me by loved ones with a very happy heart.
  • Detail-Oriented: I am very tuned into visual details. I will nitpick about the lengths and proportions, quality, precise colours, and how well wardrobe items match or work together in an outfit. The same holds true for our home decor, and the way I cook and present meals.
  • Soft and Strict: I can be as soft as a puddle, and as strict as a sergeant major. I can be very patient with some things, and have zero patience for others. In my style I’ve married these opposing attributes by wearing soft, romantic and pretty silhouettes, but with some sort of structure and sharpness to them.
  • Neat and Tidy: I’m innately neat and tidy, which is why it’s an easy and organic fit for me to sport a polished style. It would take a lot more effort to sport a style that is fashionably “rough around the edges”, and I’d feel self-conscious about it. I’m sticking with what comes naturally.

Over to you. If you’re in the mood to do some self analysis, have a go in the comments section, or start a thread on the forum. Don’t take it too seriously — it’s all in good fun. Once you get into it, you’ll probably find it quite easy to spot the ways that your style reflects your beliefs, values and personality.