Evolving My Style Into 2021

I learned interesting things about my personal style last year, and some of them surprised me. As is true for many people, the realities of the pandemic affected my style and wardrobe. Some of the changes I made will have a lasting impact, because I think they are for the better. 

1. Enclothed Cognition is Real

Enclothed cognition relates to the psychological effect that clothing has on the way a person thinks, feels, and functions. Despite working from home, and staying home for most of 2020 and into 2021, I continue to dress in my usual dressy way (with fashion sneakers) because it makes a huge positive difference to my state of mind. The process and end result of my daily dressing routine is a coping mechanism of sorts, and it works well for me. I style my hair, wear pearls, choose a fun outfit, and apply a little make-up every single day. The result makes me more productive when I work, and the routine creates a sense of normality, discipline and structure that I crave. Dressing up keeps me hopeful, and is something I look forward to amidst all the stress. It’s also the one part of my life that I can fully control, giving me a sense of calm and accomplishment.

My style has been especially colourful lately because my signature brights energize me, and make me happy. I’m pattern mixing more because that’s what my style mood calls for on this leg of my style journey. Creating harmony and visual peace with all sorts of clashing colours and fighting patterns is making me more creative with my outfits, and keeping things challenging in a playful way. More symbolically, it’s my way of trying to create peace and calm in our turbulent world. You can see some of my outfits on my Lookfab Blog.

2. No More Professional Manicures and Pedicures

I bat for Team Naked Nails, which means no nail polish. Sometimes, I’d pop clear varnish onto my nails because I like the shine. Pre-COVID, I would have a basic manicure and pedicure every few months because I liked the results. But since going without for a year, I haven’t missed them one bit. I now do my own very basic manicures and pedicures at home every few weeks, and my hands look better than ever. There are fewer hangnails, and my hands are extra clean and moisturized. My feet feel and look pretty good too.

3. Fashion Sneakers Forever

I don’t wear athletic sneakers, but have a large assortment of fashion sneakers because they keep my feet happy. Most of my life is on foot, which means zero tolerance for shoe discomfort. That’s why fashion sneakers make up the bulk of my footwear capsule these days. I have worn fashion sneakers almost exclusively since the pandemic started, and I think that will continue when we reach a new normal. I would like to relax my own rule of “no sneakers when working with clients” at least some of the time. I hope to look adequately professional with the right sneakers.

4. No More Tinted Moisturizer

2020 was my year for skin irritations and allergies. It was one thing after the next, and one treatment after the other. As a result, I had to stop using EVERYTHING on my skin apart from Pimecrolimus cream, one other lotion, and Vanicream moisturizer. I thought I would miss the tinted moisturizer because it evened out the appearance of my fifty-year-old skin. But actually, my skin looks healthier and more dewy without it. Batting for Team Naked Skin is quite unexpected, and I’m surprised at how much I like it. l’ve learned that for my skin, less is more, which also shortens my morning grooming routine. I hope to safely add back a sunscreen though.

5. Dressy Pants For The Win

I thought I would wear my jeans more than pants because life was and continues to be more casual and restricted. But actually, the opposite holds true. I continue to reach for my dressier pants more frequently than jeans because I’m in the mood for the patterns, colours, and luxe fabric. My pants are also more comfortable than jeans. I guess that dressier pants have become part of my signature style, and these are the workhorses.

6. Less Lipstick

I love light-coloured lipstick and wore it daily pre-COVID. It added shine, polish, and a bit of depth to my outfit. But lipstick doesn’t work well with a mask, and I feel odd wearing it to work from home. So I’ve left it off since March, using lip balm instead. I haven’t missed lipstick, so I plan to wear it less in future.

7. Handbags Are Very Important

I am besotted with handbags, and have a large collection that has taken me decades to refine. My satchels are dressy but can be worn as crossbody bags, which is the only type of bag I wear these days. Although I work from home, I am out on foot several times a day. Since the pandemic, I carry a few extra things in my bag, like hand sanitizer, wipes, an eyeglasses case, and sometimes a second mask. I need my stash with me as soon as I leave the front door just in case something happens. This has made my handbag collection even more important, and I never step outside without one. I swap them out regularly and continue to create accessory and footwear complements with them.

These were my winners in 2020, with a few guitar straps to match.

8. Practical Hair

With COVID restrictions in place, I couldn’t have my hair cut and highlighted as regularly as I usually do, which is not ideal for short hair that is normally cut every six weeks. It was annoying at times, especially since I rely quite a lot on my hair and eyewear to make me feel fab in my outfit. But of course, it’s not important in the big scheme of things, and I got my hair done when it was possible. As our cold, rainy and windy weather set in, and since I’m often out in the elements, I found my longer short hair problematic when wearing a mask, beanie and specs. So I cut it very short and call it my COVID pixie. The style is a LOT more practical in our weather, is an easy wash-and-go in the mornings, plus I don’t need to have it cut as frequently. I will grow out my fringe again post-COVID.

9. Mismatched Masks

I bat for Team Matchy-Matchy, and thought I would go to great lengths to match my masks to my outfits. But this was, and still is, not the case. Instead I kept the vibe clinical and wear the same six masks with everything. I chose six neutral re-usable masks that are low contrast to my skin tone and left it at that. I altered the masks to fit and insert a filter for extra protection. Sometimes I wear a white medical mask.

10. Appreciating My Wardrobe

As trivial as it sounds amidst the hardship and tragedy of the global pandemic, my wardrobe continues to spark joy, and I thoroughly enjoy my style. After an early morning workout at home in yoga clothes, I look forward to putting on my regular outfit, and I feel good in it all day. My dressier looks are very comfortable and practical, and I don’t feel precious or constricted in them. I go about my day with ease and forget what I’m wearing.

I am spoiled for choice. I am very grateful to have a fab-for-me fully functional wardrobe that goes the distance. It’s like a gift that keeps on giving, and I appreciate that more now than ever. A special shout-out to these coats and jackets that do the job, and are wardrobe workhorses. Some of them are golden oldies and still going strong after many years.

It has been ten months since the pandemic started to affect our lives. Thankfully there is light at the end of the tunnel, with multiple vaccines and distribution underway. I’m hopeful that life will be somewhat normalized by the end of the year. In the meantime, we have to hold on a little longer, making the most of a restricted life, and helping others where we can. Onward we go.

Team Iron or Team Steamer

You’re on Team Iron if you prefer pressing clothes with an iron on an ironing board. You’re on Team Steamer if you prefer to remove clothing wrinkles with a hand-held steamer. 

I do not like wrinkled clothing. I will absolutely take the time to remove them from freshly laundered clothes, or to spruce up clothes before I wear them a second time. I do not enjoy ironing, but haul out the iron and ironing board because the results of a beautifully pressed piece adds polish to my style, and to me, is worth the effort. 

After much raving about the ease of clothing steamers, I got one of those too. I had to keep it small because we have limited storage in our loft apartment. Maybe I bought the wrong steamer or have poor steaming technique, but I’m a bit disappointed and don’t find the steamer easier than using an iron. You have to plug in the steamer and wait for it to heat up just like an iron. Granted, you eliminate the step of the ironing board, but ours is easily accessible and takes two ticks to set up. The steamer works well on some fabrics but not others. Overall I get better pressed results from an iron, especially with fabrics like raw denim, corduroy, and thick cotton. I can also block knitwear more easily with an iron and ironing board. I bat for Team Iron.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Iron or Team Steamer? If you can’t pick a side or use neither, you’re benched but can grab chicken peri-peri and stir-fried vegetables in take-out boxes if you’re hungry.

Finding a Stylish Balance

Balance is often the factor that makes the difference between personal style being a source of stress, or a source of joy. How one strikes the right balance is very personal, but here are some of the things that I’ve had to learn to balance through soul searching and a lot of trial and error over the years. 

1. Caring and Not Caring

Expressing an interest in how you present yourself to the world, doing some soul searching about it, and creating a signature style that makes you happy is not frivolous, trivial, shameful, or something that should be a guilty pleasure. The effects of enclothed cognition are real. And caring about your appearance in a visual world can send an effective non-verbal message to other people. But being overly vain, obsessed with your wardrobe, and allowing the fashion and style world to consume you is not okay. So at some point, you have to stop caring about fashion and style, make peace, feel satisfied, appreciate all that you have, and let things be.

When I catch myself thinking too much about my own personal style and appearance, I make a point of changing my behaviour right then and there. I let go of negative thoughts, remind myself that it’s not important, and do something else.

2. Taking Things Seriously and Laughing it Off

There is a lot to be taken seriously in the world of fashion and style if it helps you to create a functional, manageable wardrobe and a personal style that sparks daily joy. But there is also a lot of extreme, unrealistic, and overly biased information out there that you simply have to laugh off.

Fashion and style are subjective, and the fashion industry can be ridiculous. Filter the information so that you’re left with what makes sense to you, and take the rest with a big pinch of salt.

My favourite example here is colour. Many style experts believe that neutrals, and even black from head to toe, is the only way to look chic and sophisticated. I don’t agree, and a good thing too, because not everyone looks or feels good in black or a predominantly neutral palette.

3. Shopping and Not Shopping

An interest in fashion and style means that you’ll need to shop to update, refresh and replenish your wardrobe. For some, shopping and the thrill of the hunt is a reward, a necessary distraction from life’s unpleasantries, and a fun pastime. Wearing new wardrobe items can also feel fabulous and exciting. On the other hand, excess shopping can lead to wardrobe waste, bad debt, and an overwhelming feeling of having too much stuff.

As someone who shops with clients for a living, and for my own wardrobe, I sometimes feel very burnt out by it all. Over the years, I’ve developed a shopping strategy that helps me strike the right balance. I shop thoughtfully and carefully for my own wardrobe at the beginning of a new retail season. I’ve usually done the bulk of it when others are just starting their seasonal replenish and refresh. I don’t shop end-of-season sales, and I stick to my budget. Although I am a fashion professional, I don’t feel compelled to shop, or add to my style what fashion influencers are wearing. I follow the beat of my own drum, relax into the shopping process, and take a break when I need it.

4. Glam Looks and Practical Dressing

I like to wear dressy clothes because it’s my sartorial preference, and what makes me feel fabulous and pulled together. I like glitz, luxe fabrics, white wardrobe items, polish, and lots of refinement. But I am as practical as I am dressy, because life is about getting on with it, and not about being precious and uncomfortable in an outfit for the sake of looking good.

My daily dressy outfits have to work for my city walking lifestyle across four seasons with Yorkie Sam in tow. So I balance my dressy style with practical components like wearing extremely comfortable footwear that goes the distance. I dress items down with sneakers and denim, and wear a crossbody strap on a structured satchel. I don’t wear tops that are hard to layer under a coat or jacket because in the Pacific Northwest, you frequently need a third layer. I keep my hair in a neat and tidy wash-and-go pixie to combat the ongoing rain and wind in Seattle. I wear a lot of white wardrobe items, but thanks to my super power, I’m able to keep them clean! I also wear a gigantic apron over my outfit when I cook at night.

5. Trends and Classics

When I was a retail buyer, I was a very trendy dresser. I felt great, right up until I got bored and missed the classics. So I swung the pendulum into the other direction and threw in loads of classics. But that felt off too. It took a while for me to find my sweet spot. Eventually I realized that I’m happiest when I have an equal mix of trendy and classic components in my style, even combining them in the same outfit. Generally, I keep my hair, eyewear, bottoms, and toppers on the trendier side, while my tops, bags, jewellery and make-up are quite classic. I keep my footwear simple because comfort is a priority, but try to throw in the odd trendy pair if they go the distance. I found a strategy that works well for me, and I’m milking it.

6. Neutrals and Non-Neutrals

I’ve worn the same bright colours my whole life, but also adore neutrals like shades of blue and white. The balance between neutral and non-neutral components of my style changes over time. Whenever my wardrobe feels too neutral, I prioritize non-neutral purchases, and vice versa. As a result I’ve built a wardrobe that is equal parts neutral and non-neutral. This allows me to pander to my dressing mood. Sometimes I milk the non-neutrals, and sometimes I prefer shades of blue and white. Things seem to even out in the end. I create a similar sense of balance between patterns and solids.

7. Old and New

I like to shop and wear new wardrobe items. But I’m as attached to old favourites that continue to spark joy every season. Seamlessly combining old and new wardrobe items gives me a lot of satisfaction. Wearing and appreciating older wardrobe pieces is also more sustainable.

8. Uniformity and Variety

I’m still working to find the right balance between uniform dressing and outfit variety. Uniform dressing is safe and easy, but outfit variety makes me happier over time. I successfully create enough outfit variety in warmer weather, because apart from white jeans and fun pants, I wear lots of dresses, blouses, shirts, and some skirts. In cold and wet weather — which is more than half the year in my neck of the woods — I stick to jeans and plaid or checked pants with knitwear because it’s the more comfortable, practical and cosy option. Maybe that’s okay, and I should leave it at that. It’s something to ponder as I continue to have fun with fashion and style.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Delightful Winter Pattern Mixing

A new outfit from Catherine Summers of Not Dressed As Lamb, whom we introduced to YLF in June 2013.

Combining two bold patterns with a third, more subtle one, is a great way of getting your pattern-mixing fix without it feeling too overwhelming. Here, Catherine has paired a mock-neck Fair Isle sweater in striking colours with relaxed fit cropped plaid trousers. The earthy brownish khaki colour of the pants works well with the brighter olive and white in the sweater. The fiery tomato red part is echoed in our blogger’s long-sleeved tee peeking out from under the top, and her unstructured satchel that adds softness to the look. Catherine introduces a third pattern with her navy wool coat that has a subtle, brighter blue pinstripe running through it. The darker blue matches the blue of her sweater, while the tailored shoulder adds structure. Laceless white platform sneakers bookend the white in the sweater and add that on-trend Sporty Luxe touch. A newsboy cap in shades of brown doesn’t match but goes well with the trousers. Catherine’s pigtails peeking out from under the hat add to the playful Sporty vibe. A collection of mismatched earrings and subtle brown-red lippy complete the look.

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Weekly Roundup: Active Items

Here’s a shortlist of items that have been winners on clients and forum members recently as they refreshed their athletic and workout capsules. It’s been five years since I refreshed my own yoga capsule, and I’ve found some good stuff too. Personally, I’m a big fan of active items from Zella and Sweaty Betty, and many of our forum members swear by Athleta’s active bottoms.

Remember that workout wardrobe needs are as personal as the rest of your style. Being active can mean cycling, hiking, running, mountain climbing, and strength training at the gym. It can also mean practising martial arts, Pilates and yoga, walking dogs, doing your physical therapy exercises, or taking a Zumba class. What we need to wear for these activities differs greatly between people, and might have changed over the last year too. For example, now that I practice Vinyasa, Hatha and Yin yoga at home, not the heated room at the yoga studio, I need to wear warmer items and layers that I can peel off and put back on during my practice. Since my practice involves a lot of movement, twisting and stretching, it’s best that I wear leggings with a tighter long-sleeved top plus a cosy warmer loose layer for maximum comfort. That way items stay put but I don’t feel constricted. And I can take the top off and put it back on quickly.

Sustainable and ethical Boden have brought out an activewear collection. I haven’t seen these items in person yet, but I hold the brand in high regard so it has my attention. Lots of fun colours and stripes. Their size range is more inclusive too.

You might like to work from home in some of these items, or relax in them at the end of the day. The sweat tops that I use as a warm loose layer over my yoga leggings and top during my practice do double duty as loungewear.

Be sure to browse the colour options and read the reviews. And feel free to suggest your activewear recommendations in the comments section below.

  • Zella High Waist Studio Lite Pocket 7/8 Leggings: These are my favourite yoga leggings because they stay put, are comfortable on the waist and crotch point, and are made of really nice fabric. I bought the eggplant and navy, just to change things up.
  • AVIATOR NATION Tie Dye Crop Hoodie: Most sweat tops these days are oversized and long, which definitely have their cosy place in our wardrobes. But I also like roomy cropped sweat tops with slightly more structure. They are fab to wear as a third layer for yoga or as loungewear over wide floppy sweatpants. This comes in three fun tie-dye colour options. VERY soft and with long tapered sleeves that stay up when you scrunch them.
  • FREE PEOPLE FP MOVEMENT Sky High One-Shoulder Long Sleeve Top: An active look that is '80s inspired. An effective top to wear over leggings because it's very fluid but tight in all the right places, so it stays put. I have this in black and wear it with a bright red bra top and navy leggings.
  • Zella Live In Soul Pants: Fab for those who like to work out in roomy bottoms.
  • SWEATY BETTY Bouclé Funnel Neck Sweatshirt: The high-low hemline on this cropped funnel neck sweatshirt gives it some structure. It can look as fab over jeans or with a casual skirt. The funnel neck is nice and loose, but best on a longer neck. Lots of calming colours. It has a '60s Woodstock vibe about it, and is a little boho. Cotton-rich.
  • Gap Altitude Pant in Polartec Power Stretch: Effective tight bootcuts for cold Winter walks thanks to thermal insulation.
  • SWEATY BETTY Glisten Long-Sleeve Tee: I got this for at-home yoga practice. The viscose and bamboo fibre mix feels quite good against my skin, and better than other types of technical fabric. It's tight but soft and very stretchy. The olive is darker in person.
  • Gap Brooklyn Lined Jogger: Joggers that are lined with soft jersey to keep you warm and cosy. Comes in black.
  • Zella Liana Long Sleeve Recycled Blend Performance T-Shirt: Made of RECYCLED polyester. If you're after an active top that is sweat-wicking and breathable but NOT clingy and body-con - try this. I got it in pink, and like the fit. Surprisingly, it works quite well for Vinyasa yoga with lots of movement and doesn't slide around too much when you do poses like down dog and wild thing. But it's especially good for a Yin or restorative practice that is slow and close to the ground.
  • Zella Restore High Waist Soft Pocket Leggings: Leggings that fit particularly well when you are straighter on the hips and thighs. They have pockets for phones and keys, stay put, and are relatively substantial and long.
  • Gap Salutation Jogger Camo: Joggers that are almost as streamlined as leggings but far less clingy.
  • Beyond Yoga High Waist Midi Leggings: These fit particularly well when you are curvier on the thighs, hips and bottom.
  • Patagonia Micro D Snap-T Fleece Pullover: An earthy camouflage fleece top with bits of pretty pink is a rare find.
  • SWEATY BETTY Gary Yoga Trousers: A great pair of non-clingy, but very streamlined yoga pants that work for those who don't enjoy leggings.
  • Icebreaker Quantum II Full Zip Hoodie: A minty seafoam active zip top in a non-scratchy WOOL that is machine-washable is a tall order. This one is pricey, but beautifully made, very warm, luxe, and has lots of hidden pockets. Comes in grey and navy.
  • Gap Purana Wrap Sweatshirt: If you like to wear active tops with a drapey and architectural vibe, this is one way to go. Lots of colours.
  • Gap Coaster Luxe Sweatshirt: Roomy yet streamlined sweatshirt fabness. Great for a meditative and slower yoga practice.
  • Gap Ethereal Brushed Funnel Neck: A fab drapey and big top to juxtapose and add volume to body-con leggings. Comes in neutrals.
  • Gap Glacier Handkerchief Poncho: Poncho Sweatshirt Fabness. Click on the link to see the fun side snap detailing.
  • Gap Flow Top Essence Spacedye: If you like to wear active tops with room on the bust, shoulders and arms - try this. It's especially good for inverted triangle body types. It stays put relatively well when you move.
  • Gap Salutation Stash Pocket II 7/8 Tight: Leggings in this yummy shade of orchid are hard to find, and this one has a small size pocket for your phone.
  • Gap Balance Pant: These are more couch potato than active, but worth a look if you like to wear floppy lounge pants to unwind in at night like I do. They are cotton-rich, come in colours, and are available in three inseams. Goes up to a 2XL.
  • Gap Brooklyn Camo Jogger: We have lots of happy forum members in these athleisure pants because they are comfy, practical, easy to launder, crease-resistant, fit both a straighter and curvier body type, and are roomier than leggings.
  • Boden Jessica Active Leggings: Rainbow leggings that are not as high in the rise and have fun tops to match. Lots of colours.
  • Boden Mischa Zip Through Jacket: An active zip top for Team Forest Green, although you'll need to like a bit of pink too. This one looks longer than similar tops sold by other brands.
  • Gap Salutation Jogger: These are great for an active day in milder weather because you can dress them up with a regular casual top and shoes, and keep them on when you work out later in the day. Lots of colours.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

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