Fifteen Years!

Software engineer hubs Greg lovingly built YLF for me back in 2006, and on April 5 that year my first post was published. I was 35 back then, and I turn 51 in July. Fifteen years later to the day, and YLF is strong, steady, and made it through the global pandemic with a positive and hopeful attitude. I couldn’t have predicted the success and longevity of YLF, but here we are. We haven’t missed a (non-holiday weekday) day of posting yet, and our social community is unique and fabulous in many ways.

From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for the tremendous support. You are what makes YLF a special place on the internet by graciously sharing your wit and wisdom in blog comments and forum posts. Your thoughtful, compassionate, intelligent and insightful contributions enrich this community, make me grow as a person, and provide me with daily inspiration. A special shoutout to Fabbers who have supported YLF for ten years and counting — some for the full fifteen years. I’m humbled by your loyalty.

Inge has been a Fabber for thirteen years, and part of the YLF team for ten. Inge is a kind, capable and sweet person, a delight to work with, and a very dear friend. A big thank you to Inge for a decade of hard work, support, friendship, and fun! I hope to see Inge in the Netherlands by the end of the year when I hopefully see my Dad. I usually see Inge a few times a year and miss her.

My biggest thank you to Greg. His ongoing behind the scenes YLF work is incredible, and all on top of his demanding day job. There would be no YLF without him, and I am forever grateful.

On a sentimental note, I recently watched the video Fabbers put together marking YLF’s five year anniversary. It brings me to tears every single time. Our ten year anniversary was extraordinary, and the very special gift that accompanied it continues to blow my mind.

8th Birthday Cake

Over the years, I’ve had the pleasure of participating in killer YLF gatherings in New York, Boston, Santa Monica, Pasadena, Chicago, Antwerp, Amsterdam, London, and of course Seattle. The epic gathering we had for Inge when she visited Seattle in 2014 was off the charts. It’s high time we rekindle the fabness. I’m hoping that by the end of the year, after we’ve been fully vaccinated, we can gather as a group somewhere and celebrate YLF’s decade and a half. We can have gatherings across the globe so no-one is left out.

Saturday

In the meantime, here’s to spreading the word that style is not an age, size, or budget. It’s a do-your-own-thing, authentic energy, confidence, and ease that is expressed through what you wear and how you wear it. Wishing you all a safe, peaceful and healthy day.

Gathering

Fashion News Roundup: March 2021

Sustainable UGGs, a new Netflix series, fungi-derived leather, and more fashion news that made headlines in March.

Fun Fashion Fact

Did you know that “the first modern-day sports bra was only conceived in 1977, and patented in 1979. It was branded as the JogBra, making this sporty foundation garment a mere four decades old.”

Outfit Formula: Soft Skirt Flow

Here are some midi and midaxi flowing skirt looks that will take some of us through transitional weather, and others right through Spring and into a cool Summer. With an emphasis on FLOW, these outfits are casual and smart casual, pulled together, and easy to move around in. If you leave the toppers off, you’ll have a breezy Summer outfit.

Feel free to use any colour palette and sub with more solids, if that’s your preference. The most important component of the outfit is the long flowing soft skirt.

1. Alluring Layers

The point here is to cover up and show some skin. Combine a flowing skirt with a strappy camisole or tank top that matches the skirt. Tuck, semi-tuck, or leave the top untucked. Layer a lightweight and swooshy maxi cardigan over the top. Gauzy cardigans are lovely for this type of effect. Scrunch the sleeves for some structure. Finish off the look with casual slides, mules, sandals, or espadrilles that match the outfit. Dressy ballet flats are lovely too.

Alluring Layers

2. Neutral Drape

Here, all three clothing items are drapey and fluid, with structure in the right places. The result is a practical, comfortable and relaxed elegance that is quite delicious. There is high contrast between the top and bottom, but you could create a lower contrast. And if solid neutrals from head-to-toe aren’t for you, throw in more colour and pattern. Combine a draped top with a banded bottom or welt with a drapey and flowing skirt. The band or welt gives the outfit some structure and there is no need to tuck the top. Add a drapey topper over the lot and a pair of dressy mules or ballet flats that work with the palette of the outfit. You’ll find that a shorter drapey topper with a bit of waist definition will add some structure to the outfit. I like the twinset effect of top and topper here, but it’s not essential.

Neutral Drape

3. Tee and Denim Jacket

This is a classic combination that works well over and over again. Combine a graphic tee with a flowing long skirt. Tuck, semi-tuck, or leave the top untucked. If the top looks and feels too boxy with the volume of the skirt when it’s untucked, do the knotted top trick to visually shorten the top and hint at a waistline. Add a short and tailored denim jacket to create traditionally flattering proportions, or throw on an oversized denim jacket, moto or bomber for a more avant-garde look. Heeled sandals, espadrilles, ballet flats, loafers, or fashion sneakers on your feet, and Bob’s your uncle.

Tee and Denim Jacket

4. Crisp Structure

And last, some Modern Classic with a sprinkling of Sporty Luxe. Combine a flared skirt with a top that matches the pattern. Tuck it in if you need to create some structure. Throw over a trench coat that’s a similar length to the skirt. Finish off the look with white sneakers. Here the white sneakers pick up the white in the pattern, which looks smashing. A white top would do the same thing. Add jewellery, bag, eyewear and watch as desired.

Crisp Structure

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Weekly Roundup: Elevated Fabness

I’m enjoying the elevated creativity of designers this year. After a good global pandemic kick in the pants, designers and retailers are trying harder than ever to satisfy our needs to look chic yet practical, and with busloads of comfort and interest. I appreciate how they’ve been bringing the glitz to our lockdown lives, amping up the glam in a manageable, safe, and more relatable way. I haven’t seen all these items in person, but I’m sure they will be winners on many of my clients. Browse the colour and size options, and read the rave reviews.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

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Link Love: Fragrance for Spring

Allure reports that, “inspired by the calming Japanese cultural practice of ‘forest bathing,’ a handful of new fragrances attempt to bring the outdoors in.”

The Guardian shares tips on how to pick the perfect scent from the comfort of your own home.

Finding your signature scent can require lots of sampling. Signing up to a perfume subscription box is one way to do that.

Finally, here are a few reasons why you can’t smell your perfume anymore.

Fab Links from Our Members

Nuancedream directs us to this interesting article about Ann Lowe, a pioneering African American designer who created Jacqueline Kennedy’s wedding gown.

Brooklyn liked this post about learning to enjoy Summer fashion: “It’s comforting to know that even fashion bloggers can struggle with Summer.”

Runcarla has been making a concerted effort to not acquire things made in China: “I haven’t had a perfect record, but continue to try to source responsibly. I’ve been following the H&M story with interest.”

“Maybe everyone else had already figured this out,” says kkards… “but I’m blown away, and sort of mad at myself for not realizing that many influencers aren’t using a mirror to snap photos, they’re using a second camera.”

SarahD8 directs us to this fascinating, data-rich exploration of how the names and numbers associated with make-up shades reveal racial and ethnic bias in the beauty industry.

Helena loved this article about an amazing young Canadian using fashion to fight racism.