Pink and Your Style

In my experience, pink is the most complicated colour of them all. Friends, family, and my clients either love it or loathe it. For some pink is a signature colour, while others refuse to wear it. Some wear it sparingly, in very specific settings, and in very specific tints, tones and shades. Others like to wear it in the Spring and Summer, and that’s it. Some wear it as a pastel or dirty mid-tone, and others as a clear bright. Some stick to pink lipstick and flowers in their garden, and say no thanks to the rest.

As a colour, pink symbolizes romance, tenderness, and sensitivity. It’s the colour of breast cancer awareness month. It’s a traditionally feminine and girly colour. That said, men wear pink too, but more frequently in parts of Europe or Asia. Pink can look soft, pretty, gentle, soothing, and charming. It can also look strong, cheeky and vivacious. In the right hue, tint, tone or shade, pink can be flattering with your complexion. It can be quite versatile as a soft pastel.

Pink wardrobe items are sometimes also considered overly sweet, twee, delicate, precious, and juvenile. The opposite of tough, hard-edged, influential, and powerful. Some women have bad associations of wearing pink under duress as a child, while others simply don’t like the way it looks.

When it comes to pink, I’m in the love it camp. I have worn it my whole life. It doesn’t have negative associations for me, and I feel great when wearing it. I enjoy how it can look soft and pretty, or electric and unique. I feel strong, confident, attractive and powerful in pink.

I generally stick to two types of pink, which are both well represented across clothing, footwear and accessories in my wardrobe (in both solids and patterns). I love a bright shocking pink with an ‘80s vibe, and a soft but fairly saturated tone of blush pink. Occasionally I’ll wear fuchsia, bubblegum, and neon pink. Blush pink footwear and handbags are wardrobe essentials for my style, and extremely versatile. I love combining pinks with red and orange, and since I wear a lot of red, pink is an easy addition.

These are the pink items in my wardrobe at the moment. Most are solid, and some are patterns. I’d like to add a blush pink coat, pair of pants, and pleather jacket at some point. I’d love a pair of shocking pink pants too:

Zappos
Cole Haan Cole Haan
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Boden
Helen Sparkle Dress
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Boden
Linen Shirt
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Boden
Print Scarf
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9
Boden
Viola Multiway Bag
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11
Boden
Antonia Sweater
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Boden
Cashmere Crew Sweater
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Yoox
Furla Handbag
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20

Over to you. Do you wear pink, and how does it feature in your style? Does pink have negative connotations for you?

A Horsey Wardrobe Capsule

As a child, teen, and young adult, ponies and horses were a big part of my life. I competed in dressage and showing, and was extremely horsey. I haven’t ridden since I was in my twenties and miss it very much. I doubt I will ever own a horse again, but I can build a horsey wardrobe capsule to keep me connected to that world. Relaxed equestrian looks pander to my nostalgic and sentimental side.

I am in no rush to build the outfits and capsule, and will take my time as my budget allows for the additions. The point is to enjoy the process of finding the right items at the right prices, and of course wear them with a happy heart.

Some might remember my infamous jodhpur jeans. I’ve kept them for sentimental reasons, but they have worn through and are unwearable. I also had the best cognac jodhpur boots that were re-soled twice before I let them go. My favourite jeans and boots of all time! My tall black riding boots became very uncomfortable, so they’re gone. I also passed on two Smythe equestrian blazers because they were too grey and structured and not how I want to do Equestrian Chic on this leg of my style journey.

I’d prefer not to tuck classic skinnies into tall boots, and wear body-con turtlenecks with fitted blazers. Athough that’s a sharp, elegant and beautiful equestrian look that I wore and loved in the past, I’m now in the mood for a more relaxed, playful, fun, and retro equestrian vibe across colours and neutrals. I want to remix my horsey items with other stuff too. Ralph Lauren is great inspiration, and I so enjoy their sporty yet glam equestrian aesthetic.

So far, I’ve committed to two items for my new horsey capsule. A navy pullover with horse bits from Ralph Lauren, and a pair of relaxed cream, straight leg corduroy pants (I’m wearing them here). I’m looking at brown Ariat riding boots or the like, a belt to match, and a saddle bag of sorts. A few polo tops for Summer would be welcome, as would be wardrobe items with horses on them. And I’m always on the lookout for my next pair of jodhpur jeans.

It’s all in good fun, and a therapeutic capsule to build and wear. Who knows, I might climb back onto a horse at some point too.

Is there a part of your personality that you would like to reflect in a wardrobe capsule that you build slowly over time? Something nostalgic and sentimental perhaps?

My Favourite Lip Balms

Twenty months into the global pandemic and I haven’t worn lipstick the entire time. I switched to lip balm, and I’m not looking back. I used to be a huge lipstick fan, but now enjoy having nothing on my lips apart from a little moisturizing shine. Since I wore soft subtle colours on my lips anyway, the transition to lip balm is not extreme. I prefer to accentuate my brows and eyes rather than my lips, so it’s working out well.

I like to wear shine on my lips because, to my eye, it adds outfit polish. I’m allergic to some of the chemicals found in cosmetics, but these lip balms are on my safe list and suggested by my dermatologist. I use Blistex “Silk & Shine” most of the time, and Blistex “Lip Vibrance” when I want a touch of colour and shimmer. It simply darkens the natural colour of my lips and adds a bit of shine. The tint comes off a little on my mask, but washes right out. Both lip balms include SPF15 sun protection.

Over to you. Do you wear lip balm, and which are your favourites?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Casual Skirts and Cosy Sweaters

These looks are for Team Autumn and Winter Casual Skirt. Combine comfy skirts with all sorts of knitwear, hosiery, boots, socks, and toppers, and you’ve got a great little look. At last, retailers are styling skirts with a larger assortment of untucked tops, which is how many like to wear their skirts these days. Some of the tops are fitted or oversized, but most are fluid. Here are some good examples.

Boden
Rachael Skirt
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Mango
Fluid Midi Skirt
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Mango
Pleated Midi Skirt
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Mango
Satin Pleated Skirt
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Eloquii
Ponte Knit Skirt
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Zara
TEXTURED SKORT
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Eloquii
Full Satin Skirt
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Eloquii
Pleated Knit Skirt
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Create a high or low contrast between the sweater and the skirt. Use solids or patterns and any colour palette. Skirts can be straight or swooshy. On to some outfit formulas.

1. Chunky, Fluid and Neutral

This on-trend unstructured look is an acquired taste. It’s ‘80s to my eye, although the boots are more ‘90s. I wore this in red in 1987 with shoulder pads and white shoes and bag and loved it! Combine a flared skirt made of substantial fabric with an untucked chunky sweater. Throw in a pair of flat boots and a bag to match. Here, the black skirt and boots elongate the look. The long sweater shortens the leg line. Choose a shorter sweater to lengthen the leg line if that’s more to your taste. Add refined and heeled footwear to create a dressier look. I see a short black puffer over the lot.

Chunky Fluid and Neutral

2. Dressy Pretty Edge

This is a particularly fab look that combines a flared leather skirt with a comfy fine gauge sweater. Tuck the sweater and scrunch the sleeves. Finish off the look with dressy heeled boots and a dressy bag that works with the palette of the outfit. Here, the fine gauge sweater dresses things up, and works beautifully with the skirt. The cream boots and toffee bag match the light neutrals in the sweater. I see a long classic toffee wool coat over the lot.

Dressy Pretty Edge

3. Flared Pattern with Hard Edge

This is a great ‘90s rendition. Pick a fairly soft and flowing patterned skirt that has black in the pattern. That way you can easily match it up with a black support act to create a cohesive look. Add a black tucked or untucked sweater, a black moto jacket, and black boots, and Bob’s your uncle. The top and jacket are short and fitted to create traditionally flattering proportions. Not essential, but one way to go. Choose flat stompy boots instead of heeled dressy boots if that’s more your thing. Add black hosiery for warmth.

Flared Pattern with Hard Edge

4. Sweatshirt and Pencil Skirt

If sweaters aren’t your thing because wool and wool blends irritate your skin, a fluid cosy cotton fashion sweatshirt is another way to go. Combine a warm pencil skirt with a fluid sweatshirt. Scrunch the sleeves. Add tall flat or heeled boots and a bag to match. Easy! Throw in jewellery, watch and eyewear as desired.

Sweatshirt and Pencil Skirt

Link Love: The Beauty of Accessibility

Allure’s “The Beauty of Accessibility” series, in which they write about “inclusivity and representation for people with disabilities in the beauty industry and beyond”, provides lots of food for thought with articles like:

Fab Links from Our Members

Nuancedream reports that Judith from Style Crone is absolutely killing it on the runway.

Sal is really enjoying Kate Young’s videos on YouTube: “Recently the history of Gucci, Prada, Christian Dior and the Cartier tank watch were all fascinating.”

Katerina came across these two articles discussing whether colour is the new black.

She also liked this article about the “thin useless scarf”, and adds that she is a fan.

Jenni NZ thought we might enjoy these archival street style photos from the 1960s snapped in the main street of Auckland.

Mary Beth is on Team Take Care Of Your Leather Goods, and has been binge-watching The Elegant Oxford who polishes and restores men’s leather shoes. She adds: “His mirror shines are to die for.” And Lyssa Koo who brings back old leather Coach bags from the brink of destruction.

Angie enjoyed this NY Times article about an elaborate hairstyle made popular by young men on TikTok. She adds: “Hubby Greg has this hair naturally, zero effort!-)”

SarahD8 wanted to share this uplifting news story about an officially registered new tartan designed in Australia that is honouring koalas.