Fab Finds: Simple Punchy Items

This week’s top picks include an assortment of items for a range of climates and colours because Spring weather is varied and unpredictable. Sunny and mild one day, grey and chilly the next. Hot sun, wet rain, hail or snow. Spring can be four seasons in one month. It’s the most unpredictable season in Seattle, and I find myself wearing a bit of everything until July. At the moment it’s alternating between a cold and a mild Spring here in Seattle. I hope it warms up more soon.

1. ASTR Tiered Short Sleeve Dress

This dress looks good in every colour. It’s lightweight, drapey, and lovely in motion. The puffy sleeve makes a statement, yet collapses to relax the volume. It looked great on my curvy client with a medium sized bust, who twirled around in it for a while. She will wear it with sneakers, sandals, and combat boots, and bought two colours. It’s crease-resistant, not see-through, and runs big.

2. Caslon Stripe Split Neck Long Sleeve T-Shirt

Striped tees with V-necks are elusive, and this one is soft and comfy. The fit is gently fluid, and the neckline looks tidy. The stripes match at the side seams. It’s a fab simple item with a bit of pizazz. Lightweight, versatile, and easy to wash. Might run a size big.

3. Madewell Washed Leather Motorcycle Jacket: Brass Hardware Edition

This is a beautifully made modern classic which will last for years if you take care of it. It’s pricey, but you can get 20% off. Its gorgeous antique brass hardware makes a subtle and unique statement and adds a dressy touch to the topper. Wear it with anything from jeans, leggings, utility pants, shorts and joggers, to dresses, skirts, cocktail wear and ball gowns. Make sure you assess the fit with the correct layers underneath. It’s lightweight and can work as an indoor jacket.

4. M&S Collection Denim Jacket with Stretch

This is a neat and tidy denim jacket that’s offered in five Spring and Summery colours at a good price. It’s not soft, but harder like regular thick cotton twill. It has a robust utility vibe to it. It has a 1% stretch component so it’s not as stretchy as you might prefer. It has a fab tailored fit and is sufficiently short if you like short jackets like I do. It’s a slam dunk with dresses, skirts, and wide pants and jeans with higher rises. The mint green is more mint in person and the pink is like a very soft lilac. It runs narrow so you might need to size up if want a more fluid fit.

I am always on the lookout for denim jackets because I wear them a lot in the late Spring and Summer. The shocking pink earned a place in my wardrobe because it creates a fab matching complement with two old pairs of shoes, a bag, and a few guitar straps. I’ll wear it with the Summery dark blue, white, orange, blush, red, citron and light blue in my wardrobe. With a pair of olive carrot pants too. The collection shows my shocking pink complement with the jacket. Perfect match!

5. Mephisto Dominica Sandal

These are very comfortable sandals that have worked on a range of foot shapes because of adjustable velcro straps. The footbed moulds to your feet and has good support. The platform adds height, and is easy to walk in. You might need to size up if you have long toes. It can work for bunions too. They are lightweight, on trend, and come in an assortment of colours. Well worth the rave reviews.

Outfit Formula: Pattern Mix

This is for Team Pattern Mix. These days, you can combine most patterns together, and it’s all good. You used to have to find some sort of common ground between the patterns to wear them together to create visual harmony. The patterns could match in palette or pattern, or both. You can absolutely follow that pattern-mixing strategy — and I do — but combining completely different, clashing patterns in one outfit is just as fashionable. Sometimes, I like doing that too.

Patterns like two-tone stripes, dots, checks, plaids, geometric patterns, and animal print tend to be easy to pattern mix with other patterns because they are relatively simple and grounding. But don’t let that stop you from pattern mixing to your heart’s content. The only limit is your own threshold for the hectic combination.

Here are some examples, followed by four particularly nice examples in more detail.

1. Same Pattern, Different Colours

This outfit combines bottoms and a topper in the same pattern across different colour palettes. The colours don’t match, but the patterns do, which makes them work together in a maximal and bold way. A solid white top unifies the patterns because there is white in the pattern. Black footwear bookends the model’s black hair, and matches the black in one of the patterns. White footwear that matches the tee would work well too.

Same Pattern Different Colours

2. Mismatched Match

A red and white heritage patterned twinset is combined with an oversized jade and white gingham skirt. The patterns look and feel completely different, but share white as their base colour. They are also two-toned, bright, and bold. The common base colour creates unity between the patterns. The red shoes that pick up the red of the pattern up top, help to pull together the outfit.

Mismatched Match

3. Mix of Four Patterns

This may look like a ‘haphazard, thrown together and hoping for the best’ outfit, but it’s cleverly engineered when you look more closely. The outfit combines FOUR patterns. Each pattern has navy and white in it, which creates a subtle sense of harmony. Two of the patterns are two-toned navy and white stripes, which creates similarity between them, and grounds the other two more hectic patterns. Furthermore, the plaid is made up of stripes, which further unifies the striped component of the patterns. The black shoes bookend the model’s hair, and bring the look together.

Mix of Four Patterns

4. Pattern and Graphic Tee

This outfit combines an all-over pattern on the bottom with a graphic tee up top. The graphic tee has black and white in it, which sufficiently marries the prints so that they match. Black shoes pick up the black in both patterns. A white or pink bag would look fab, as would a blue denim jacket. Add jewellery, watch and eyewear as desired.

Pattern and Graphic Tee

The Dressing Room Dance

It’s often easy to see when a client, friend, or family member loves a potential new wardrobe item. They do a little dance, twirling around in the dressing room. Sometimes they keep the item on for quite a while before removing it. Smiley and happy, looking in the mirror, looking at the item repeatedly. The dressing room might be in a store, but it could also be at home when you’re trying on an item you ordered online.

I relate to this. I often break into a little dance, or twirl around the house when I love a garment I’m trying on for the first time. I remember trying on a gorgeous skirt while birthday shopping with Greg a while ago. I kept spinning around in it, smiling, and waited a long time before removing it to try on the next item. Patient and sweet Greg said, “We are definitely getting that skirt.”

Actions speak louder than words. As you try on a new item, pay attention to the way you instinctively respond to it, and the way you feel in that moment.

Who else does a little dressing room dance when you try on an item that you love?

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Bra Shopping Challenges

It can be a tall order to find a comfortable bra (or bralette) that looks good, feels good, gives us the desired support, shape, and doesn’t break the bank. And occasionally when we try to replenish our favourite bras, the styles are discontinued, and we have to start the tedious search from scratch. 

Today I thought we could share our bra shopping woes, and offer solutions. If you haven’t found a solution to your particular challenges, perhaps someone in the YLF community can help you. You can ask a question in the comments section, or even join YLF and ask a question in the forum. I’ll go first.

Personally, I love bras. The pretty lacey ones are my favourites. I had comfort and fit issues because my bra would shift when I stretched or moved in a particular way. I didn’t feel as “locked and loaded” as I would like, and some of my breast tissue spilled out the front.

Eighteen years ago, I went to a bra fitting seminar at Nordstrom that was run by Seattle Dress for Success (an organization I volunteered for). We were professionally fitted for bras. It was an invaluable experience. Every participant at the seminar was wearing the incorrect bra size, myself included. Our band widths were too wide, and the cups too small. I walked into that seminar wearing a 32C bra. After measuring, my correct size was 28D. This brings me to the most important shopping tip, and the rest follows from there.

Know your bra size

Wearing the correct bra size and fit was life-changing for me, making a huge physical and visual difference. If you’re unsure of your size, have your measurements taken professionally by a reputable bra fitter. Make sure the person is experienced and knows what they are doing. Online sites like Knix and Bare Necessities offer effective virtual bra fittings. 

Find the ideal shape for you

Like clothing, bras in the same size across various brands can fit very differently. Some fits run wide, while others run narrow. Some cups offer more coverage than others. Some silhouettes enhance the size of the bust, while others minimize it. Some have underwire, and some don’t.

Knowing your correct bra size is a solid starting point. Next step is finding the right comfortable bra shape and look that best suits the shape of your breasts and body type.

Find one or two go-to brands

Finding a bra in a 28D is hard enough, let alone one that is comfortable and pretty. I like underwire support, ample coverage, and a bit of lace. Through trial and error I stumbled across these bras by Simone Perele that run small. Their 30D fits like a 28D on the right hook, thereby creating a perfect fit. I’ve been wearing these two styles from Simone Perele for many, many, years. Apart from a sports bra for yoga, they are all I wear. I forget that I’m wearing them, they are that comfortable.

Stick with what works

Because I love bras, I wanted to try something different to my Simone Perele staples. Just before the pandemic, I did a whole lot of bra fitting and experimenting across many brands. I tried at least ten other brands in various styles and colours — including Knix bras — and nothing fit as well, looked as good, or was as comfortable as my Simone Perele bras.

As much as I would like to wear bras in colours other than beige and black, that’s all they make in my size and style at Simone Perele. That’s okay. My colourful clothing makes up for it. I’m very happy with my bras and am sticking with them.

Take care of them

Bras can be pricey, and the ones that work best for me are seldom on sale. So I wash them with care and have a number of them to share their wear. I replenish when necessary with exactly the same bras. I hope that the styles won’t be discontinued.

Over to you. What are your bra and bralette shopping woes, and have you found solutions for them?

Weekly Roundup: Assorted Spring Items

I’m back to shopping with clients, which feels really good. I’ve missed it! In store colour palettes are varied right now. Lots of on-trend brights, Atlantic blues, mid-tones, pastels and greyed pastels, but plenty of earth tones and neutrals too. 

On to some of the items that were winners on my clients this week.

  • Sanctuary All Day Long Sweater: Super soft, cute, graphic and quite short. Feels lovely against the skin. It's excellent on a shorter waist and/or torso. It's also a good match with skirts.
  • Sanctuary Part-Time Lover Single Cold Shoulder T-Shirt: If you enjoy wearing a black tee, you might like something like this to change things up. Often clients look at the style on the hanger, and are dubious about the silhouette. And when they fit on the tee, they are pleasantly surprised.
  • Sanctuary Rebel Crop Stretch Cotton Pants: These fit a range of body types, and are quite short. The mid rise is comfy and flattering. Nice room on the thighs. Works well on petites.
  • KUT from the Kloth Helena Denim Jacket: An excellent essential denim jacket that is soft and a little stretchy for extra comfort.
  • Citizens of Humanity Kayla Long Sleeve Button-Up Shirt: If you like wearing crisp, big and boxy statement shirts, try this one. It has an architectural cut on the sleeves which is achieved with a set of cleverly placed buttons and button holes. The light blue is saturated and won't wash you out.
  • RAILS Women's Hunter Plaid Button-Up Shirt: If you like wearing seafoam blues and greens and plaid shirts, check this out. It's VERY soft and cosy. Looks good with olive bottoms too.
  • Sanctuary Daybreak Camo Print Linen & Cotton Blend Trucker Jacket: A short camouflage jacket with an architectural silhouette made of natural fibres. Check out the fun gathers at the back.
  • Nic + Zoe Mosaic Sunrise Sweater: If you like to wear lightweight V-neck sweaters, keep this one on your radar. They've layered it over a shirt, but it looks great worn on its own. Soft and cosy. A nice mix of earth tones and brights.
  • AllSaints Women's Bernie Kosumoso Satin Button-Up Shirt: The floral placement of this blouse is interesting and quite dramatic. Fab with black, white, or grey bottoms.
  • L'AGENCE Dani Silk Charmeuse Blouse: Super pretty, luxe, and chic. Elegantly fluid. Comes in olive.
  • Chaus Floral Surplice Neck Faux Wrap Midi Dress: This is for navy and earth tone lovers who enjoy wearing a modern classic faux wrap dress. The length is longer than usual, and the pattern has interesting blue flowers.
  • KUT from the Kloth Amy Stretch Crop Skinny Jeans: These have worked on a range of body types. They are mid-rise, mould to the shape of your body without too much cling, and are thick and substantial. Size down.
  • MOTHER The Hustler High Waist Fray Hem Ankle Bootcut Jeans (Fairest of them All) | Nordstrom: These are thick and substantial, and can work well on a curvier bottom half. They look as good on a straighter body type.
  • Pistil Tammy High Waist Trousers: These are AMAZING on those who have a curvy long rise. They don't need to taper at the ankle like you see in the stock photo because you can adjust the buttoned tabs at the ankle and wear them wider. Comes in olive and grey.
  • GOOD AMERICAN Good Straight Raw Hem Straight Leg Jeans: These have worked well on a curvier body type. The comments suggest that they are see-through, but I did not get that impression when I saw them on my client. Size up if you'd prefer a less tight fit.
  • COS Pleated Barrel-leg Chinos: I loved these pants, but returned them because the crotch point was too dropped. I like to wear dropped crotch bottoms, but am after a more regular fit rise for my next pair of navy pants. It's very lightweight, has a half elastic back, and rocks a Japanese avant-garde vibe.
  • Sam Edelman Double Breasted Nylon Trench Coat: This 100% nylon trench, machine-washable topper is worth a look if you like to wear lilac. The length is versatile and the colour is unique. Might run a little big, but remember to wear the correct layers underneath when you assess the fit.
  • RAILS Quincy Cutout Sweatshirt: This looked spectacular on a short-waisted client, and comes in olive. You can wear a strapless bra, or a showcase a decorative bra strap.
  • MOTHER The Tomcat Chew Ripped Crop High Waist Jeans: These jeans are a gorgeous sour yellow, that is more saturated in person. Thick, substantial, and fits with a straighter cut on a longer rise.
  • PAIGE Katharina Sleeveless Silk Chiffon Dress: I gasped with delight when I saw this dress on one of my curvy clients. The fit and vibe are awesome, and the fabric soft, drapey, and gorgeous. The V-neckline is very flattering on a larger bust, and the broad waist elastic provides a lot of structure. It's not as frilly as it seems on the hanger. Lots of room and movement on the bottom half.
  • Alice + Olivia Jacqueline Floral Print Trumpet Skirt: If you like mid-tone blue trumpet skirts that are fitted up top and flare out with romantic flounce further down, keep this one on your radar. It is beautiful in motion.
  • Ted Baker London Penny Gingham Frill Scarf: I love this gingham wrap and scarf hybrid. The fabric is beautifully beachy, crease-resistant, soft, and feels wonderful against the skin. If it came in navy and white, it would be mine.
  • Ron White Barbra Ankle Strap Sandal: A very pretty and refined sandal that works well on wider feet. If your pinky toe gets caught in strappy sandals, this style is the way to go. Comes in black.
  • M&S Collection Linen Rich Gingham Square Neck Midi Dress: Smocking and gingham are on-trend, and I fell in love with this rami-viscose NAVY natural fibre, awfully pretty dress. The smocking is not constricting. It's super soft, drapey, extremely comfy, and is a perfect hot-weather frock for my style. Alluring, yet covered. I love the '70s integrity of it, and can't wait to wear it.
  • M&S Collection Linen Rich Striped Midi Shirt Dress: A natural fibre linen-viscose shirt dress with a classic and crisp appeal. It does not feel scratchy. The belt is optional and looks good without. The light blue is saturated and flattering. The skirt portion does not flare, but it's roomy, and HAS POCKETS. I can comfortably walk fast in this dress with doggies in tow. I love it, and have it.
  • Donald J Pliner Women's Loafer: Navy Patent Wedge Loafer Fabness. Beautifully made, quite comfy, and chunky in a refined way. Comes in black.
  • FRAME Crop Denim Trucker Jacket: I LOVED this oversized short denim jacket. The sleeves are artistically created, so click the link to check out their back seam and ruching detailing. They also weren't as long in person as you see in the stock photo. I passed because the silver buttons are too big and cool-toned for someone who prefers gold as a metal. I hope to enjoy it on one of you!

You can see the pictures alongside the items on the collection page.