Team Store or Team Online

You bat for Team Store if you prefer to shop in brick-and-mortar stores for your wardrobe and style needs. You bat for Team Online if you prefer to shop online. We last ran this poll in 2010, and Team Store won the race. But shopping has changed enormously over the last ten years, so I’m very interested to see what happens this time round. 

The variety, practicality, privacy and convenience of online shopping cannot be beat. There are extended size curves and colours. There are no sales staff if you prefer to bypass them. You can avoid traffic, crowds, bad weather, and public dressing rooms. It’s an ideal way to shop if you’re physically not up to browsing city stores. And it’s fun to see boxes arrive on your doorstep.

Shopping in brick-and-mortar stores on the other hand can be more of an exhilarating and social experience. You can touch, feel, assess quality, and fit items on right away thereby making a decision about them. You avoid the guessing game of size and quality when you see an item in person before purchasing it. There are no shipping costs, and you avoid the tedious repetition of opening and resealing boxes.

I LOVE to shop in brick-and-mortar stores because I enjoy the atmosphere and activity. I adore shopping with clients and fab shopping buddies because it’s fun, rewarding, active, and frequently the way I make my bread and butter. I adore to shop when I travel so that I can bring back interesting treasures and sentimental souvenirs.

That said, I’ve grown to appreciate online shopping because half the time it’s the only way I can find the right size, fit, colour and vibe. Retailers seldom carry the full spectrum of sizes, widths, lengths, colour options and silhouettes that I need in city stores. But I do have the option of getting exactly what I need and want online. It’s amazing! I’m grateful for the large assortment, availability, and that shipping in the US is very easy and often free.

I can’t pick a side so I’m sitting this one out on the bench with garlic and honey baked chicken, wild rice, steamed broccoli, and Häagen-Dazs ice cream. Over to you. Do you bat for Team Store or Team Online. Tell us why. No batting for both teams, but feel to join me on the bench.

The Challenging Longevity of Pristine Knitwear

Knitwear that pills gets my award for most frustrating quality challenge. These days there is zero guarantee that knitwear won’t pill. I’ve bought designer and budget knitwear that pilled after a couple of wears. I’ve also bought designer and budget knitwear that’s pill-free after several years of wear. 

I used to think that a particular type of wool or fabric composition caused pilling, but threw that theory out the window after seeing too many exceptions. I’ve had 100% acrylic, merino, cashmere, cotton, and lambswool pullovers that haven’t pilled at all. I’ve had the same that have pilled awfully. I’ve bought fabric blends that have pilled badly, or not at all. It’s all terribly, terribly inconsistent. The only yarn that I can confidently say will pill after a couple of wears is cheap cashmere. Don’t buy it unless you don’t mind pilling.

Generally, most of my knitwear begins to pill a little after two to three years of wear. I take my wool-rich knitwear to the cleaners where they do a brilliant job of de-pilling the item. Items look pristine after their magic touch. I launder cotton and cotton-rich knitwear myself, and so far, the pills have been minor to non-existent.

I am extremely impressed with the following pullovers from my wardrobe that haven’t pilled at all. Not a hint of pilling, and I’ve worn most of them till the cows come home. Some of the items are new this year, and others are at least six years old. Most are at the two to four year mark, and looking good. My point is that the brand, price point, colour and fabric composition runs the gamut. From 3.1 Phillip Lim, Alexander McQueen and Bella Freud, to COS, Reiss, Boden, Ann Taylor, the Loft and the Gap. Fabrics range from 100% cashmere, merino and cotton, to polyester/cotton/nylon blends.

Bottom line: pilling involves more luck than wisdom, unfortunately. It’s important that my knitwear looks pristine for longer because it amplifies outfit polish and crispness. I wear a lot of knitwear and loathe pilling. So last year I came up with a personal knitwear purchasing strategy that’s working so far. I’m far less frustrated with quality issues, and can continue to enjoy my knitwear.

Here’s my strategy:

  • No more pricey designer knitwear despite how gorgeous it is because the possibility of it pilling after a couple of wears makes me too angry.
  • No cheap cashmere.
  • Purchase wool and wool-rich knitwear from a shortlist of brands who haven’t let me down in the past.
  • Freely purchase 100% cotton and polyester/cotton/nylon blends from a range of brands because the likelihood of them pilling is far lower.

I wish I could suggest a flop-proof way to purchase knitwear so that it won’t pill after at least a few years of wear – but I can’t. The best I can do is pass along info after I’ve road-tested the items and hope for the best. Taking good care of knitwear by laundering it properly also helps, but is no guarantee.

Over to you. Tell us about your knitwear pilling experiences.

Outfit Fomula: Wrap Skirt

These looks have one item in common: a wrap skirt. But the outfit vibes are very different because wrap skirts come in many variations. The way you style the skirt sets the mood of the outfit. Change up the colours and patterns to match your taste. 

1. Classically Crisp

If you enjoy wearing dressy classic structure, this look is a good way to go. It combines a simple A-line wrap with a tucked silk blouse and trendy footwear. Pointy-toe heeled mules, sandal booties, booties, ballet flats, pumps or sandals are great shoe options.

TORY BURCH Ruth Stretch Cotton-blend Wrap Skirt

2. Florally Tough

If you’re a casual gal with a hard edge, try combining a floral wrap skirt with a tee or knitted top and chunky black combat boots. Here, the tee is tucked, but you can semi-tuck, or wear a top that does not require tucking. Black combat boots work particularly well when there’s black in the pattern of the skirt. The pink bag is a fun touch.

MARQUES' ALMEIDA Floral-print Asymmetric Cotton-voile Wrap Midi Skirt

3. Romantically Ruffled

This is an unusual combination because it combines a wrap skirt AND a wrap top in a positive and negative pattern. The effect is like a two-piece dress. The wrap skirt does not have a bulky tie at the waist, which makes wearing a top over it okay. The wrap top fits very fluidly like a kimono. But a tailored version will probably be easier to wear. To my eye, the fact that the wraps fasten on the same side of the body is important. Add footwear that works with the outfit.

Zara Ruffled Floral Print Skirt

4. Casually Elegant

A Friday outfit formula would not be complete without a version with sneakers because sneakers are the shoe of our fashion era. Combine a wrap skirt with tee and sneakers, and Bob’s your uncle. The faux wrap skirt here makes things streamlined and easy. The tucked white tee is sporty yet polished. The white sneaks are crisp and pick up the white of the top. Of course, you can choose any colour tee and sneaks. But when their colours match in some way, the outfit looks visually pulled together.

Mssguided Plus Size Khaki Polka Dot Wrap Over Midi Skirt

I like the idea of a patterned ruffly wrap midi skirt with ample movement for Summer. I’ll wear it with a basic body-con tucked top and white pointy-toe ballet flats, loafers, sandals or sneakers. I’ll top it off with a denim jacket, cotton moto, or chore jacket in air conditioning.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Scrunchies: Yay or Nay

If you were a long-haired teen in the ’80s you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. A scrunchie is a hair accessory used to tie hair back into a ponytail, half bun, or full bun. It’s a regular hair elastic covered with scrunched fabric, which is how it gets its name. Scrunchies come in all colours and patterns. Some have decorative ties on them. Here are some examples.

I briefly had long hair in the late ‘80s and used scrunchies almost exclusively because they were easy to use, very comfortable, and didn’t damage my hair. You pulled them out with ease, and no ponytail headaches either. I occasionally sported a scrunchie on my wrist so that I could use it to tie my hair back at any time. One year, my favourite Christmas gift was a brightly coloured floral scrunchie. I loved scrunchies.

Scrunchies became passé in the ‘90s and ‘00s just because the so-called fashion-powers-that-be decided it was no longer hip to wear them. It’s silly really, since the scrunchie is nothing more than a very practical hair accessory. The oversized neon, polka dot and lamé versions of 1985 were a bit much, but a refined neutral scrunchie should become a timeless classic, much like a regular hair elastic.

I’m happy scrunchies made a comeback. I see long-haired men and women wear them fairly regularly in solid neutrals in my neck of the woods. It makes me smile because it strengthens the Individualism trend. In fashion and style, almost anything goes if you wear it with intention, confidence and verve. I have no use for scrunchies with short hair, but vote YAY all the way for others. Why not! How about you?

Slip Hollywood Hills Midi Scrunchies

Trend: Wrap Skirts

Wrap skirts take me back to the ‘90s, although they featured decades before that and I wore them in the ‘70s. The oh-so-trendy nod to the ‘90s this year is more prominent than I expected. I’m not generally a fan of ‘90s fashion, but am thoroughly enjoying the redux at retail. 

Wrap skirts come in all sorts of colours, patterns, fabrics, and lengths. Silhouettes can be straight like pencils, or A-line and flared. The wrap feature on the waist and across the front of the skirt can vary greatly too. Most wrap skirts are authentic, thereby wrapping around the body like a bandage. Others are faux, which means they look like they “wrap” but the front cross-over panel is sewn down either at the waistband, or down the front of the skirt. That means there’s a zipper at the back, or it’s a pull-on style. The collection below shows a wide assortment of wrap skirts.

Loft
Floral Wrap Skirt
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Mango
Buckle Wrap Skirt
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2
Mango
Check Wrap Skirt
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6
Mango
Midi Wrap Skirt
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3
Loft
Striped Wrap Skirt
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4
Mango
Stretch Wrap Skirt
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1
Zara
Faux Suede Skort
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2
Zara
Ripped Denim Skort
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1
Boden
Ella Skirt
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Boden
Florence Maxi Skirt
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3

The beauty of the wrap skirt lies in its breezy comfort. It’s a very non-restrictive style, because the wrap detailing makes the front fall open allowing ease of movement. Even the faux versions are A-line and quite roomy. The fit is forgiving because you can wrap the style to fit the contour of the body by adjusting the ties or the position of the buttons on the waist. The versions with waist ties make a fabulous statement, and can accentuate the waist. Flowing wrap skirts are magical in motion, and there’s something sensual and soft about the silhouette.

Wrap skirts have their annoying traits too. Authentic wraps can gape in front as you stride and sit, especially when the fronts are cut skimpy and fail to cover enough of you. Styles with waist ties can be fussy and harder to layer with a topper. Most wrap skirts look best with a very cropped top, or tucked and semi-tucked top, which might not be your thing. If you like to wear untucked tops, wrap skirts are not the way to go. That said, when the wraps are faux and the waistbands are flat, untucked tops are easier to style with them.

It’s been 25 years since I wore a wrap skirt. I remember liking Summery and very flowing wrap skirts with waist ties at midi lengths combined with a tucked body-con top and slides. I’d absolutely wear that look again because it’s pretty. I also remember wearing and disliking short A-line faux wrap skirts, and will not be revisiting that look.

Over to you. What’s your take on wrap skirts? What else is good and bad about wearing them?