Six Ways To Make a Waistband Fit

Skirts, pants, jeans and shorts have waistbands (or grown-on waistbands) that should fit the waist and lower tummy area properly. Waistband positions vary, depending on the length of the rise. A high-rise waistband should hit you around the waistline, whereas lower rises hit lower on the body. 

Bottoms often fit perfectly, until you hit the waistband. It can be too wide, narrow, straight, curved, or simply grow with wear throughout the day. Here are six ways to make them fit so that they’re comfortable and stay put.

1. Luck of the Draw

The ideal situation is when a pair of bottoms fits perfectly straight off the rack. The waistband is in the right place, and it stays there all day. It’s comfortable, and you wish all bottoms fit this way with minimum fuss.

2. Alter a Waistband that Gapes

Reducing a waistband that is slightly too big is an easy alteration. It costs between US$15 -$25 and is well worth it. Retailers and the dry cleaners are quite used to doing them these days, if you can’t do the alteration yourself. Curvier bottom halves, or body types with swaybacks, generally need this type of alteration on jeans and pants

3. Alter a Waistband that Pinches

Altering a waistband that is slightly too tight is a less common alteration, but can be done. An experienced tailor will cut slits into the waistband and insert triangles of fabric to create a larger circumference. The idea is that you wear tops over the waistband to hide the inserts, unless they are particularly decorative or subtle. Here’s a visual and a video.

4. Wear an Invisible Belt

Wearing a belt that is HIDDEN under a top is a great way to make a slightly too big waistband fit when you don’t want to spend the time and money on an alteration. Invisible belts are extremely flat and lightweight so they don’t create bulk. They’re useful for jeans, shorts and pants that grow during the day.

5. Wear a Regular Belt

If you enjoy wearing belts, make a statement with them and have fun with the accessory. Buckles can be beautiful things. Visible belts are a great way to make a waistband fit, although they might create bulk where you don’t want it if the buckles are heavy and big.

6. Choose Full or Partial Elastication

Waistbands with full or partial elastic are extra forgiving because they stretch and contract with the width of the waist. They work well for weight fluctuations too. You might not enjoy an elastic waist for all sorts of reasons, but they’re comfortable and extremely easy to fit.

Waistbands used to fit me straight off the rack when rises were low and mid length. Now that I mostly wear trendy high rises, it’s no longer a slam dunk. High-rise waistbands frequently gape at the back of my waist because of my slight swayback. 

I used to be into wearing statement belts with low and mid-rise jeans and pants. But I’m off wearing belts with high rises. Occasionally I wear an invisible belt when my jeans grow a little during the day, or by the next day. But at this point, I’m almost belt-free.

That means I do waistband alterations more than I used to, which I’m fine with doing in order to achieve a perfect fit.

Relentless Tucking at Retail

As current trends move back to silhouettes of the ‘70s, ‘80s and early ‘90s, high and extra high rises on skirts, pants, jeans and shorts rule retail. Mid rises are harder and harder to find, and low rises are non-existent unless you thrift them. 

Tucking and semi-tucking goes hand in hand with the high-rise trend. This is especially true when bottoms have waistband detailing that is supposed to be seen. Retail has a habit of flooding the market with a look and killing it. At the moment, this look is tucking tops into bottoms. Unless they are cropped, it is hard to find visuals of untucked tops styled with bottoms.

Tops that are not body-con tend to be fluid, very fluid or oversized. Tucking or semi-tucking them provides effective outfit structure and lengthens the leg line from the hips upward, which is why the relentless tucking trend persists. It’s a very handy styling tool that I frequently use too.

From what I’ve noticed with my clients and friends, many don’t like tucking their tops, don’t want to wear body-con tops, or tops that are too cropped. Semi-tucking is a little more popular. A tailored or gently fluid top at a regular length that can be worn untucked is the perfect solution. This makes the wearer feel streamlined but not self-conscious, and very comfortable. Unfortunately this silhouette of top is hard to find, especially in woven fabrics, petites and plus sizes. Retailers need to bring back tops with a bit of built-in shape and structure so that they can be worn untucked over high rises. There’s too much falling back on tucking as the easy-fix structural solution. Designers need to put in the effort and give us a tailored top with darts, cut lines, ruching and seams. PLEASE.

I’m a tucker and semi-tucker because it’s the way I add structure to an outfit and lengthen my leg line in flats. But I like to wear untucked tops too. I do wear body-con tops, peplum tops, swing tops, short welted pullovers and blouses, and boxy crop tops, which has made sporting untucked tops with structure easier. And some tops I simply leave boxy over slim-fit jeans and enjoy their muumuu effect. So I’m not as affected by the relentless tucking trend as others.

Here are the exact items from my wardrobe that I wear UNtucked:

Boden
Kristie Broderie Top
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Boden
Arabella Sweatshirt
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13
Gap
Stripe peplum tee
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22
COS
Silk-cotton Polo Shirt
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13
Zara
Geometric Jacquard Top
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8
COS
Cashmere jumper
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14
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Textured knit jumper
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6

Over to you. Are you enjoying the focus on tucking, or would you like the trend to swing back a little in the other direction?

Eloquii Kady Fit Double Weave Pant

Eloquii Essential Distressed Relaxed Ankle Jean

Outfit Formula: Tops Over Flared Midi Skirts

Current fashion is all about tucking and semi-tucking into high-rise pants, skirts and shorts. Although I’m a tucker, I like to wear tops untucked too. Many of my clients prefer wearing tops over bottoms instead of tucking them. They prefer their tops on the fluid side of tailored, and not body-con or oversized. These types of tops are hard to find, so I’m always on the lookout for them. They are especially hard to find for flared midi skirts when, ideally, you need them in a shorter length to create more flattering proportions.

These outfits showcase the type of shorter top that works well with flared midis. Of course, you can wear them with straight midis too. The colours here are neutral, but choose any colour palette. In each case the top is fluid and shorter, which visually lengthens the leg line from the thighs upward.

1. Sporty Drape

Combine a flared midi with a shorter, twist-front top. The drape is comfortable and forgiving of midsection bits. The knot hints at a waistline which provides subtle structure. The high-contrast top here creates a strong horizontal line, but a low contrast would create a vertical dress effect. Sneakers make the look practical and modern, but choose any shoe to finish off the look.

Universal Standard Lara Short Sleeve Twist Top

2. Relaxed Dressy

Combine a flared midi with a tie-front top. The tie hints at a waist, which provides structure despite the relaxed fluidity of the top. The tie draws the eye up and down thereby accentuating the vertical integrity of the outfit. Heels create a dressy vibe, although dressy flats would look just as fab.

Eloquii Pleated Midi Skirt

3. Hard-Edged Boho

Combine a prairie or tiered midi skirt with a boxy longish tee. Knot the tee at the hem to create waist definition for outfit structure. The lower you knot the hem, the longer the finished length of the tee, and vice versa. Add gladiators or sandals of your choice to finish off the look.

J.Crew Midi Skirt with Eyelet Trim

4. Arty Flounce

Combine a cropped and fluid cardigan or crop top with a flouncy midi. Button the cardi right the way through so that it looks like a top and not a topper. Finish off the vibe with sandals, slides, wedges, espadrilles, ballet flats or high heels, and a bag that works with the outfit. Add jewellery, eyewear and watch as desired.

APIECE APART Turkanna Wrap-effect Striped Voile Midi Skirt

You can combine a flared midi with a short body-con top that’s worn untucked if that’s more to your taste. I enjoy that combination by putting these items from my wardrobe together.

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Link Love: Sunglasses Chains Are On-Trend

The Fashion Spot reports that sunglasses chains are getting a fashion makeover, and shows us 10 fun options.

I have a light blue chain that matches the rim of my sunnies, and would love one of the pearl versions shown in this roundup.

From glassy beads to shell-adorned, here are 17 more styles to choose from.

Fab Links from Our Members

La Pedestrienne read an inspiring yet sobering article about the contradictions between entrepreneurial growth and sustainable fashion.

She also loved this article about the colour mustard throughout history and in our present cultural moment.

Angie enjoyed Susan’s post because she hit the nail on the head when she says that we’re never going to change the negative perceptions and problems of ageism if we try to erase the signs of aging.

Shevia wanted to share these great historical pictures of Bermuda shorts, her favourite style of shorts.

It’s Ascot week, and Runcarla enjoyed this historical retrospective.

Nemosmom reports that former Snapchat Chief Strategy Officer Imran Khan is launching a digital marketplace for luxury goods.

Kyle directs us to this Vanity Fair article about the new J.Crew.

Vildy is always glad to see smiling models. That’s why she refers us to the iconic Dawson’s Creek catalogue mentioned in the Vanity Fair article above: ” I particularly liked the uproarious photo where they’re splashing and ‘decide to ruin all their nice J. Crew clothes.’ We can overthink clothes so much that it’s easy to forget not only to have fun with fashion but to have fun in fashion.”

Suntiger thought this was a really good description of what works for Ethereal-style blend identities: “Many of my choices make so much sense now!”

InStyle interviews the stars of Little Big Lies on ambition and leading in Hollywood as a woman. Bj1111 adds: “It’s tangentially fashion-related — the outfit photos are stellar.”

Suntiger liked Imogen’s tips about pattern placement, including how to avoid questionable patterns.

Kkards enjoyed how this article about Eileen Fisher speaks to the brand’s, and the designer’s, values, and how they are starting to appeal to a certain type of younger customer.

Checking In On My 2019 Style Goals

We’re halfway through 2019 and it’s time to check in on the style goals we set in January. I’ve had a smashing first half, I’m in a very happy place with my style, and I’ve added fewer items to my wardrobe than I did by this time in 2018. 

Some of the trends are against me, so I haven’t found as many tops, pants and dresses that ticked off the boxes. My shopping strategy is to choose classics when the trends don’t work, which is exactly what I did with tops. I’m back in classic silk and cotton blouses, body-con knit tops, a shirt, and pullovers with polo collars — all of which I haven’t worn for ages as I favoured trendier styles. I’m thoroughly enjoying my new classic tops because they’ve changed things up, and layer well under jackets in arctic air conditioning

With an active urban walking lifestyle across four seasons, I’m even pickier about footwear comfort. I’ve added fewer pairs to my capsule than in previous years, and am wearing non-athletic and refined sneakers more frequently than I used to. Now that more styles of sneakers are available in narrow widths, they finally fit and are comfortable. This has made all the difference for my sneaker style. I’m also enjoying the duplicated footwear that has taken the place of the first worn out pairs.

These are the items that I’ve added to my wardrobe this year for Spring & Summer. Some of it will go straight into Fall & Winter:

COS
Silk-cotton Polo Shirt
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Boden
Arabella Sweatshirt
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13
Hobbs
Saskia Trench Coat
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21
Boden
Silk Shirt
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19

On to my goals. I set twelve in January, and I’ve managed to reach most of them.

  1. Wear outfits that are Modern, Crisp, Retro, Soft and Dressy. Check.
  2. Prioritize quality. Check. My commitment to wearing beautifully constructed and finished items made of gorgeous fabrics that launder well is higher than ever. I haven’t been disappointed in fabric quality of my new purchases so far. Some items are more well made than others, but that’s okay. Thankfully nothing looks like schmutters after a couple of laundry cycles.
  3. Express my style through colour and my favourite patterns. Double Check! I like stripes, checks, polka dots and some florals best because I do not tire of these patterns. I added plenty of colour too. Happy colours and patterns make me happy.
  4. Continue adding elegant touches to my style. Check. I take elegance to heart, and try to style my daily look accordingly. For me, that means wearing longer hem lengths on skirts and dresses, soft and structured fluidity, dainty footwear, dressier attire, and adding the finishing touches that create polish, glam and shine.
  5. Sport my signature style despite the trends. Check. That means short blonde hair, statement eyewear and handbag, natural make-up, white pearls, white shoes, white jeans, structured outfits with lots of movement, lots of colour, high contrast, light neutrals, dark blue, flat footwear, a dressy appearance, and no nail polish.
  6. Add a pair of red pants, orange bottoms or dress, and a red Winter coat. Uh oh. I managed one pair of red jeans that became an instant workhorse, and that’s it. Hopefully I’ll do better in the second half of the year.
  7. Wear black in small doses. Check. Dark Blue is my black.
  8. Wear skirts and dresses more frequently year round. Check
  9. Wear casual and dressy trousers more frequently, and blue jeans less frequently. Check. I have worn blue jeans a LOT less frequently this year.
  10. Mix high-end and low-end items in one outfit. Check.
  11. Find wardrobe gems on my travels because they are unique and sentimental. Check.
  12. Have even MORE fun with fashion. Triple Check. It’s impossible for me not to have fun with fashion and style. It’s one of the least stressful parts of my life and very therapeutic. I relax into every wardrobe and style decision and don’t let it boss me around. I love my fab-for-me wardrobe and am grateful to have a closet brimming with items that spark tremendous joy.

I finished shopping for Spring and Summer by the end of May, which is right on track because I prefer to shop early in the season. All that’s left to do is wear the heck out of my stuff and repeat my favourite outfits. With the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale around the corner, I’m already thinking about my refreshed cold-weather style.