Link Love: Jewellery With a Story

Over at Refinery29, Vivien Lee explains how a personalized necklace helped her grow a new profound love for her Korean name. Author Kathy Kelleher goes into why she chose a diamond engagement ring despite diamond rings having an ugly history. And four women share the meaning of their inherited jewellery in “I’m always carrying my family history“.

Fab Links from Our Members

After reading this article about Shein, kkards says: “I’m not a supporter of Shein, but I kind of, sort of, maybe respect that at least they are trying to give smaller designers some piece of the pie, after years of just ripping them off. I’m conflicted. But I wanted to share this and wonder how others feel. 

Smart casual dressing tells the world that you are someone who gets it. It shows that you know how the world works now, what the spoken and unspoken rules are.” Vildy isn’t sure if it actually works this way, but thinks of this as: “the Field of Dreams dressing style where if you dress a certain way, you will attract like-minded people, people who might think you’re approachable, creative, edgy, etc.

She also wanted to share this series of amazing outfits created by artificial intelligence in the styles of major artists. Incredible eye candy.

Jenni NZ was horrified to read this story about acclaimed New Zealand designer Adrian Hailwood facing an intellectual property breach investigation.

Runcarla thought the pups embroidered on the bottom of Queen Camilla’s dress were humorous, and she loved the ladies (and gents) in authentic national dress.

Roberta finally watched the Halston documentary last week, and it reminded her of this excellent list of fashion documentaries.

She also found this article on “superfake” handbags fascinating, and highly recommends the novel Counterfeit by Kirstin Chen, which was based on the true story of a woman who bought the real items and then returned fakes.

Once you reach a certain age, you’ve tried it all and you know what your vibe needs to be“, certainly rings true for nuancedream. She adds: “It has taken a while, but I’ve learned to relax, have fun, and do my own thing with style.”

Jaime thought this was an excellent analysis of the “quiet luxury” trend, which she finds sort of hysterical.

Suz directs us to this in-depth article about the change in return policies with some interesting stats on how many retailers are starting to charge for returns — and why. 

The Only Rule: Have Fun with Fashion

Wearing the aesthetics you like can make you happy. Shopping can be therapeutic. Dressing well can boost your self-esteem. Sharing opinions can be social. Even wardrobe management can be enjoyable if you’re into organization and analysis. 

Fashion Must Be Fun

Outfits can be creative expressions. An art form, especially if you make your own clothes. Budget can be a constraint that fuels creativity. Sometimes the most beautiful outfits use items that you’ve had in your wardrobe for years.

Fashion trends can be fascinating as they emerge on the fringe and then filter into the mainstream. Let them inspire you as you express yourself through your personal style, creating outfits that make you happy. Have fun with fashion.

Relaxed Dressy in Pink and Purple

A new outfit from Kim Mitchell of J’Adore Couture, whom we introduced to YLF in April 2016.

Kim’s pink and purple trouser look is a beautiful example of how to relax a dressy look. She is sporting fluidly tailored trousers under an untucked, oversized button-down linen shirt. Rolling the sleeves to show her forearms together with the trousers’ tapered silhouette creates some structure. The on-trend square toe on the stiletto slide sandals adds an interesting tailored touch. The narrow black panel on the trousers is a great design detail, and draws the eye up and down. The vibrant hot pink shirt combined with the pastel pink bottoms and the delightful lavender pop of the footwear feels cheerfully Spring-like. Our blogger completes this relaxed dressy look with a structured black bag that echoes the panel on the trousers, oversized hoop earrings and big sunnies.

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Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Trend: Platforms and Flatforms

Platform shoes are shoes with thick or very thick soles. They provide a lift, as if you’re standing on a platform. When platforms are heeled, the heel is raised significantly more than the ball of the foot, causing the foot to arch. Flatforms, on the other hand, are platformed shoes with a completely even lift. The foot does not arch like it does with a platformed heel.

Platformed footwear has been around for centuries across many different cultures. But I think of them as disco ‘70s shoes. Any type of shoe can be platformed these days. From boots, sneakers, loafers, pumps and oxfords, to mules, Mary Janes, clogs, slides, and sandals. Take your pick.

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Platformed heels and flatforms waft in an out of fashion. They are having their fashion moment now because of the strong influence of ‘90s fashion. The appearance of a platformed shoe is chunkier than a shoe without a platform, which is something you either like or not. Of course, platformed footwear can be subtle, moderate or extreme. 

Platforms have their advantages. When they are extreme, they make a dramatic statement. When the fit, heel heights, and silhouette details are right for your feet, they can feel substantial, comfortable, and supportive. They are fab for Team Chunky Footwear. They add height to your outfit. Platformed footwear can also be a way of wearing a higher heel in a more comfortable way. If you want to add height to your outfit without arching your feet in heels, a flatform is one way to go.

Platforms also have their disadvantages. They can be hard to walk in, heavy, uncomfortable, and too high in the heels. They might be overly chunky for your sartorial preferences. And sometimes, the soles of flatforms are made of a material that does not adequately flex as you stride, which can make walking odd, unnatural, and a little treacherous.

Personally, I bat for Team Dainty Footwear so platformed footwear doesn’t feature strongly in my style. That said, I’ve had my fair share of Dr. Martens over the decades, which I wore with joy. I currently have a pair of cream lug-soled combat boots that are a couple of years old, and I love them. They are very comfortable and weatherproof. I also have two pairs of weatherproof oxfords, which I’ve been wearing a lot this Spring. I’m not sure they qualify as platformed shoes, but they are the thickest heeled shoes I have.

Over to you. What do you think of the platform and flatform trends? Do you wear them?

Outfit Formula: Easy Breezy

It’s warming up quite a bit in parts of the US, so I’ve pulled together some easy casual outfit ideas for the warmer days. Most of the outfits have sleeves for protection from the blazing sun. Sleeves can be comfortable in natural fibres like linens, viscose, silk, and cottons. Fits are fluid and roomy to provide breezy outfit ventilation.

It’s the formula of the outfit components that I hope is mostly helpful. Choose any colour palette.

1. Roomy Pants, Short Top, Scarf, Slides, Tote

Combine a pair of roomy pants like lantern pants or wide crops with a boxy short top. The shorter length of the top lengthens the leg line from the hips upward, and offsets that potentially “ too tenty” fit of a wide top. A soft silky scarf drapes over the top, which you either like to wear on a hot day or not. A cognac complement of slides and tote adds polish to the outfit.

Roomy Pants, Short Top, Scarf, Slides, Tote

2. Dress, Summer Bag, Espadrilles

Wearing a longer flowing dress is my outfit preference for a hot day, so this formula is my favourite. Here, a tiered teal linen dress is combined with a pair of very Summery flat espadrilles. The espadrilles are low contrast to the model’s skin tone, which lengthens the leg line a little. A Summery bag like a straw tote completes the look and matches the espadrilles. Opt for sandals and another type casual bag if that’s more your cup of tea. Relaxed and elegant.

Dress, Summer Bag, Espadrilles

4. Palazzos, Drapey Top, Flat Sandals, Beads

If you like to wear super soft, wide, and lightweight pants, palazzos are an option. These are patterned, which packs some punch. These are at an excellent full length which is just below the ankle bone. Wear them shorter if you prefer them cropped. But don’t wear them longer with open-back shoes like these toe-loop sandals because the hems will get caught under your heels as you stride. If you want to wear wide pants longer, wear them with closed-back shoes. A drapey brown knit with asymmetrical hem is a great choice for on top because the shorter front offsets some of its volume. The shorter front also lengthens the leg line. Chunky beads that match the palette of the outfit add a casually polished touch.

Palazzos, Drapey Top, Flat Sandals, Beads

4. Dressy Shorts, Blouse, Flatform Sandals

If you enjoy wearing shorts, a patterned pair in a fluid fit with self-tie belt is one way to go. These are paired with a roomy black blouse that matches the black in the pattern. The front of the blouse is semi-tucked to showcase some waistline, and the tie of the shorts. Chunky black flatform sandals match the black in the clothing. A cinnamon bag adds an earthy touch. I like the dainty layered necklaces too.

Dressy Shorts, Blouse, Flatform Sandals