It’s 2026, which marks my thirty-fourth year working as a fashion and style professional. It also marks our twenty-third year of living in the US, and the twentieth year of YLF. I plan to celebrate two decades of YLF and my style consulting business throughout the year. My hope is to have YLF gatherings in Seattle, and in other parts of the US. Nothing has been planned yet, so stay tuned for details as I figure things out.

At the end of last year, I listened to an audio book, “Let Them” by Mel Robbins. It was recommended by a dear friend and I found it worthwhile. Very simply put, the book lays out a two-part mantra “Let Them, Let Me,” which encourages people to stop trying to control or change others because it’s a battle you won’t win. Instead focus on what you can control, like your reactions, boundaries, and choices. By shifting focus back to your own values, goals, and well-being, you build resilience, confidence, and a more intentional life, rather than being reactive to others. The book is full of very relatable stories, situations and emotions. I’m recommending it if the topic interests you, and you haven’t read it yet.

As always, I encourage you to sport a style that reflects your personality, sartorial preferences, values, lifestyle, and the weather. Prioritize comfort, what you enjoy wearing, and what makes you feel attractive and empowered. Let your signature style be the anchor that grounds your outfits. Nothing is dated when you and your outfit project confidence, ease, a pulled together look, and intention..

Wishing you a year filled with whatever gives fashion and style meaning in your life. May it bring good health, laughter, new adventures, enjoyable trips, memorable occasions, meaningful friendships, lots of YLF social gatherings, and mornings that begin with peace in your heart.