WIW and why I don't post my outfits...a confession

While trying to make some order of my closet and put outfits together, I came to a realization: I'm a pretty plain dresser and I actually prefer it. When mixing and matching, trying to create outfits with interest, I ultimately feel overdone. I feel best in simple things that fit well. My go to outfit combo is a simple top (I prefer pullovers), bottoms (mostly jeans, but also nice trousers, simple skirts or leggings), and a great pair of shoes or boots ( I have many to choose from).

That's it...anything beyond that feels fussy to me. I love looking at the outfits and posts on YLF but don't really feel that what makes me feel great is really worth posting. And there you have it. This is a lovely, supportive community and I do gain inspiration from all... Especially when it comes to accepting yourself. And that's why I posted today

I added a pic of one of my closet mixes but what I actually wore was an oversized merino sweater and ditched the three (!) tops.

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12 years ago

Mochi

Veteran

But wait--your outfit is absolutely charming and interesting! I love the contrasting textures, colors and pattern of the blouse peeking out from the neckline and hem of the sweater. The brown leather booties add their own kick. It's truly a sophisticated, funky vibe! Don't undersell your style; from this post, it appears to be awesome.

AviaMariah

I wish you'd post a picture of what you really wore! Your closet remix is really cute and I am drawn to those looks all the time. But when I try to wear them, I feel overdressed and fussy just like you said. I bet your outfits are not nearly as boring as you think.

Kristin L

First off, your outfit looks wonderful. And I understand what you mean about simple outfits because I thought the same about mine for a long time. But then I realized that's just part of my style. And if it makes me feel great, then I feel like I shine more. I know I wouldn't feel like that in anything too fussy or complicated.

qfbrenda

Simple is good! Don't under estimate the power of simple, well-fitting clothes. I really like the outfit you posted, and like the sound of what you actually wore.

Alexandra

(website)

That's a nice outfit! And I'd like to see the one with the oversized sweater, too. There is beauty in simplicity and it's worth sharing.

dustt

Missey - I get it - I'm a simple dresser too - but keep on with the experimenting - that outfit is - simple and fabulous - I know it may feel like too many layers at first but maybe work with 2. You've got a good eye because that is a really nice combo that still really reads simple to my eye - simple and interesting and comfortable!! - please post those outfits that you actually wear as well!! - I'll be waiting!!

Word Lily

I'm often dressed like that, too (as you describe); it lets me play with color and highlight my accessories (although said accessories usually aren't worn at home, where I spend most of my days). I think you could still post, this site has a broad range of styles and preferences, and you shouldn't sell yourself short just because you have a formula that works for you that happens to be simple. I think there are quite a few members who actually describe their style as "minimal," among other things.

Echo

These pictures, IMO, demonstrate a very distinct style with attention to detail. They are absolutely worth posting and they are inspirational to others. NEVER assume what you wear is too plain. There are a LOT of people who actually prefer a minimalist approach.

Anonymous

My routine exactly- jeans, Gap shirt, sneakers/ballerinas. The dog gives two paws up.

Angie

Fashion Stylist

Missey, honing your style this closely is a marvelous achievement. Well done, and great outfit. Please post your looks often so that others can draw inspiration from you.

Missey

Thanks ladies...as I said in my post, this is a very suportive community and I appreciate your kind and inspirational words.

kellygirl

Great outfit. I love simple

celia

Missey, I understand your feelings. The outfit you posted is excellent but I would feel too fussy with it. For me it's more a layering issue.
I would be interested in seeing what you really wore because 'simple' outfits don't mean uninteresting it all depends on the application and you showed us here that you got what it takes.

i am actually a very simple dresser, I think. Love the outfit you posted.

gryffin

First that is a fabulous outfit you posted. Second, what is wrong with simple? Line, proportion, texture all make for a modern, comfortable and elegant outfit. Being a minimalist at heart, and after seeing this outfit, it would be a great pleasure if you would consider posting what you really wear. You wear clothes beautifully and I'd love to see what you really like!!

CocoLion

This is a fabulous version of classic casual! I love it. Thanks for posting and inspiring us. I haven't thought of layering a shirt and sweater like that, then topping it with a blazer -- in a while, so I think I'm going to copy!

claire

Active Member

I also have a very low threshold for fussy. I would love to see more pictures from you, I think you look great. And love your boots.

karymk

Please post your simple chic outfits! That is a whole category I pin on Pinterest, so I am very interested in what you are wearing!

Post away! I wear simple things often, especially in the FL heat. This month I've even resorted to posting my lounge looks for No Repeat November. If I can post the down and dirty, you can certainly post your streamlined every day looks!

sarah

Well, we are kindred spirits when it comes to keeping it simple - I was just thinking the other day, "Is it OK that I wear trousers or jeans, crewneck sweaters, and booties, nearly every day?" You look great!

LACeleste

This is my kind of outfit! You look great!

viva

Please keep posting! I love this outfit, and I'm attracted to the little details - how you turned your cuffs, the fit of your jacket, the check of that shirt (LOVE that shirt). It's just fun to see the choices people make, whatever they are. Simple, complicated, there's room for everyone. Please post more!!!

Overwhelming kindness and support from all, such a boost...many thanks! I will try to post more often, even if it is "simple".

Aquamarine

What viva said! You look great!

minimalist

Missey, I'm another who would love to see your actual outfits. Simple isn't easy, after all.

Love this outfit! And simple does not mean not worthy of posting. I for one feel more drawn to the simpler side. One of the best things on this board is that there is a range of looks and styles!

I think simplicity is just as interesting as complexity! Sometimes simple outfits don't photograph as nicely as they look in real life, so if you're not happy with your photos maybe try taking some detail shots too? I almost always wear delicate jewelry and it gets a bit lost in the full body shot, so I just take a couple close ups. I also think lovely textures show up best in the closer photos.

Your closet remix outfit looks good, but I bet the sweater substitute looked just as good! There's no way I could layer 3 long sleeve tops without feeling arm-strangled, so it makes sense to me that you changed.

Peri

I don't think I create outfits either. Pants, top, scarf or jewelry...that's it. I enjoy the looks others come up with, but ease suits me better. I don't post a lot of WIW either but I do post pictures with questions...lately keep or toss! (Funny, they've all been toss).

Jaime

Simple is not easy and this outfit (and I bet the one you actually wore) looks really put together and good. I rarely vary my accessories (watch, wedding ring, stud earrings) but love a good shoe and would be delighted to see more of your outfits!

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