Thank you all - your welcoming comments are so appreciated.
Anyways - the moral of my hair story is : resist the urge to do different things when you aren't yourself. Every time I've gone in to see my stylist with some crazy idea , thinking it will fix whatever life problem I'm having, IT"S A DISASTER.
My husband, who rarely, if ever comments on what I'm wearing and whose opinions I DO NOT seek , observed how nice and cozy my coat looked . Which in his language means it's the best thing he's ever seen. I really love that there is no fake fur hood trim, and that it is a bit different than the average puffer out there. No basic parkas for me
Jane- skirted leggings are tricky. When I got these (from Deborah, an Australian forum member) , I decided they were so great that I sought out every skirted legging I could find and then bought them all. Yeah, no. Most were of the workout variety , i.e. really tight and fitted , cupped the bum, and generally looked far too casual and weren't all that comfortable to wear. These are actually jersey, with no spandex, and don't hug and cling...thus making them look and act like a short asymmetrical skirt over slim pants. I feel fine wearing them to work as the clingy sporty look isn't there. They aren't the best quality ever, but I am still wearing them about 2x a month , 4 years in. I will say that I haven't seen many, if any at all, at retail in a few years now...