SarahD8 - yes, I think you might be right that the light metallic would essentially be like white footwear. It's interesting - I LOVE white footwear and find it easy to wear and don't mind the jarring effect at all. The metallic seem to be an amplified version. Maybe I just need to get used to it.
Roberta - thank you for confirming gold for warmer tones and silver for cooler. Maybe these pewter loafers look 'off' because the majority of my wardrobe is dark warm autumn colors... interesting... Copper Birks sound pretty and I hope you'll post if you get them!
ChristieIJ - YES! A muted metallic with less material could be key.
Jane - metallic pink Birks sound really fun, and perfect for you!
Lesley - picking up a tone in the top sounds like a great solution. I'll give it a go.
JAileen - interesting that it's the style and not the brightness that you struggled with. Those oxfords are really cool, though!
ChristinaF - the Birks are duller (a washed metallic) and a warmer tone. The loafers are much cooler and brighter (especially in the sun!).
FashIntern - lots of great tips in the thread you linked. I'll spend more time there, for sure. The mermaid boots are dreamy!
Sal - interesting tip to match sunglasses to the shoe. I've seen Angie do it with her specs, but always forget about my shades!
MollyMac - YES! I think you are on to something - I need to figure out if it's for me. Maybe I can find an inexpensive option to test drive and go from there.
JenniNZ - those photos are super helpful! Thank you! I love how you pick up the tones of your jewelry (and you have some really AMAZING pieces!)