Two Quick Beauty Tips

After lots of trial and error, and life-changing advice from a dermatologist and savvy aesthetician, I learned that a simple beauty routine with the right products for my skin works best. And inexpensive skincare products seem to work best of all. 

Caudalie’s gentle buffing cream was recommended to me after a recent facial. I was skeptical because I thought it would be expensive (I’m done purchasing pricey skincare products that fight with my skin). But for $15 I was prepared to give it a go. I love this product, and now use it twice a week! It’s very gentle, scent-free, and makes your skin feel smooth and luxurious. It also does NOT strip your skin of its natural oils. What a win. 

As a vigilant daily user of creamy sunscreen on my face and neck, I’m also aware that my hands and bare forearms need sun protection. They catch the sun when I drive or when I’m walking our Yorkie Sam. The tops of my feet also seem to catch a lot of sun when I’m out and about. So I’ve bought Neutrogena’s sunscreen body mist to spray on those parts of my body. You can’t be too careful when you have sensitive pale skin and are frequently exposed to the sun. (YES. The sun continues to shine in Seattle and I’m LOVING it.)

The Neckerchief Trend

ExampleThe resurgence of ‘70s and ‘90s fashion has brought back the neckerchief or “handkerchief scarf”, which is a small square-shaped scarf. It’s tied tightly or loosely around the neck with the ends tucked in or out of sight. 

The bandana has been a fringe trend for a while. It’s probably the easiest type of neckerchief to wear because it’s a casual accessory. You can add a bandana to any casual outfit and not feel like you’re overdoing it or getting too dressed up. As an iconic classic, it stands the test of time and can be moulded to become part of any style persona. Red, black, white and blue bandanas are most popular, but they’re available in all colours these days. Tie-dye and floral bandana-esque neckerchiefs are fun alternatives. 

The silky neckerchief can look glam and gorgeous, but might feel a little much or “precious” at times. Or too much like a flight attendant’s uniform. Dressing it down with sporty or denim outfit elements is one way to temper the look. Or simply go with dressy and glam and rock the vibe. 

Here are some street style shots that might inspire you to sport a neckerchief. You’ll notice how neutral these outfits are — a flop proof way of combining the neckerchief in outfits: 

  1. Treble Classics
  2. Distressed High Contrast
  3. Breton stripes and denim never let us down
  4. Sporty Luxe meets ‘80s Power Dressing
  5. Quietly Black
  6. With a ‘50s Touch
  7. Chartreuse Cowgirl
  8. Nautically Inspired
  9. Boyfriend-y with heels and clutch
  10. Rough Around The Edges Preppy

Examples

Neckerchiefs are a slam dunk on a regular or longer neck, especially when they’re tied tightly like a choker. But shorter necks can wear the look just as well with a few adjustments. Choose a soft and less bulky neckerchief and tie it a little more loosely around the neck. Also, choose a neckerchief that is low contrast against your skin tone if you don’t want to create a horizontally cutting line. 

I saw my Mum wear silky neckerchiefs in the ‘70s, and I wore them a lot in the early ‘90s. I also wore red and blue bandanas, while Greg wore grey and black bandanas. So far, I have not felt inclined to try the neckerchief again probably because I’ve just rediscovered my pearl necklaces and am focussing on those as my neck accessory. That said, never say never, and I love the look of the neckerchief on others.

Over to you. Would you wear a neckerchief?

Matchy-Matchy Floral Workhorses

This outfit has been a workhorse and fast fall back outfit for Spring. I’ve worn it many times to work with clients and out to dinner. The individual items, remixed with other items in my wardrobe, have been workhorses too. I bought them early in the season and have been able to wear the heck out of them already in our lovely warm and sunny weather. 

I was drawn to the Ditsy Chorus Floral Handkerchief Hem Blouse because it’s bright, happy, romantic, and pretty. Its ‘70s vibe appealed to my love for Modern Retro. But when it arrived, it looked different to the online photo. More neon in colour and more voluminous in silhouette. I loved the neon coral pattern but I couldn’t size down. Being a stickler for good fit, I gave this some thought.

Matchy Florals - Shoulder

Making sure that tops, dresses and toppers are sufficiently tailored around my neck, shoulders, and on the arms is extremely important to me and I will not compromise. So I moved the back button and added a snap to make the neckline fit more neatly around my neck. That pulled the shoulder seams into the right place and made the neckline a little higher. The sleeves were already a great length for my long arms. 

Matchy Florals - Close

Matchy Florals - Side

Matchy Florals - Full

The additional structure that I created up top, plus the stellar soft drape of the fabric made me feel completely comfortable with the voluminous swing on the torso. I don’t feel like it overwhelms my slight frame because the fabric collapses back onto the body. The side views don’t look overly “muu muu” either — at least not to me. Sorted! 

There are few things that make me feel as good as a great fitting pair of white jeans, which is why I have several pairs across silhouettes. Current Elliot’s straight crops are my favourite white jeans at the moment because they showcase the alluring ankle and are ever so slightly relaxed. I prefer to wear the floral swing blouse with white jeans because it looks more dressy, crisp and dramatic than it does with blue. It looks nice with my extra long, white flares too. 

Matchy Florals - Blouse Close

Matchy Florals - Blouse

I saw the bright red jacket at Zara and it was love at first sight. The colour launched me into orbit, as did the stiff popped collar. The ‘60s vibe was perfect, and so was the fit. The very tailored shoulders, structured collar, and cropped length offset the boxy silhouette. I’m not usually a fan of belted jacket welts but this belt is short, attached, lightweight and therefore not fussy. I wear the jacket open, and it works over many of my tops and some of my skirts and dresses. Wearing the boxy jacket over the swing blouse surrenders the waist in a big way, so I’m going with “just flattering enough.” 

Matchy Florals - Shady

Matchy Florals - Shady Side

Louise et Cie’s Esperance Pumps in a vibrant floral pattern seemed like an appropriate way to celebrate sunny and warm weather. Their ankle straps are a match made in heaven with cropped jeans. They’re very comfortable and were mine right after trying them on. Most fashionistas are wearing trendy chunky footwear at the moment, but I’m sticking with pretty, dainty and tailored because that’s better suited to my feet and style. I once went shopping with a client all day in these shoes and they go the distance.

I couldn’t resist pairing the floral pumps with the floral blouse and pearl grey satchel to create a very Matchy-Matchy look. Why not! That’s a new thing for me, as is the boho-lite blouse. I’ve left off the pearls, but added my specs, watch, wedding ring to complete the outfit. 

Matchy Florals - Heels

A new bright Spring and Summer jacket becomes an instant workhorse for me. Four years ago, I wore my citron blazer with everything. It wore through, so it’s resting in peace. I replaced it with a better quality neon green jacket that I wore so much Greg’s eyes began to hurt. Last year’s Dutch orange blazer was a hit, and this year’s Retro red jacket is the winner. As for the jeans and blouse, they’re workhorses because I miss them when they’re in the laundry. Instead of purchasing more of the same, I’m simply going to continue wearing the heck out of these pieces.

Matchy Florals - Path

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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A Pat on the Back

Today we’re going to celebrate the most important style-related things you’ve done so far this year. It can be anything at all. A well-curated closet. The realization of an important style epiphany. Tracking your wears. Wearing a trend you thought you couldn’t wear. Thinking of your wardrobe in terms of capsules. Dressing the body you have now. Taking off your sales goggles. Organizing your jewellery box. Wearing more colour and pattern. Tempering your poison eye. Being more patient with your style. Going grey with pride. Taking a stand with your Summer body. Sticking to your style moniker. Successfully taking yourself out of your comfort zone and trying something new. Resisting the temptation to “compare and despair”.

Or simply that you wore the heck out of your clothes. I’ll go first.

I’m celebrating four things. First, taking a stand with my Summer body has been liberating.  It’s been FABULOUS wearing dresses and skirts more than ever in our gorgeous Spring weather. Self-acceptance is therapeutic, calming and strengthening. Second, embracing the waves in my hair has been a revelation after using a flat iron for what seems like forever. My style feels soft and refreshed. Third, I am officially back on Team Sandal after buying two pairs. It took a while getting used to seeing my toes in outfits again, but I’m over the hump. And fourth, I’ve stayed within my budget, even when shopping for Spring and Summer wardrobe items is a shopping weakness. I’m done shopping for the season until the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale in July. All that’s left to do is wear the heck out of my clothes.

Over to you. Time for me to pat your back.

Fashion News Roundup: May 2016

H&M’s next designer collaboration, two stand-alone stores for Canada Goose, the Speedo Olympic swimsuits for Team USA, and other style news that caught our attention in May.

Fun Fashion Fact

Did you know that the word “seersucker” comes from the Persian phrase for “milk and sugar”, šir o šakar. Some people weren’t sure of the practicality of seersucker fabric. So legend has it that Joseph Haspel Sr., who introduced the seersucker suit to the U.S. around 1909, waded into the ocean sporting his suit, “hung it up to dry and wore it to an official banquet dinner that night, looking sharp as ever.”