Thoughts on Distressed Jeans

On one end of the distressed jeans continuum, the distressing is mild. Jeans are stone-washed, whiskered, and faded to look weathered but they don’t have holes, rips or tears. On the other end, jeans are distressed in the extreme. They are ripped, torn, frayed, threadbare, and shredded to create holes. The distressing is deliberate, and you can purchase them brand new looking like they’ve been through a post-apocalyptic dystopia.

Here’s an assortment that shows the range:

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R13 Kick Long Jeans
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R13 Twister Shorts
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R13 Biker Boy Jeans
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AG Alex Shorts
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The distressed jeans trend was adopted from street style, where jeans that distressed naturally with age became edgy, tough, daring and hip. Designers and retailers artificially manufactured distressed jeans to create the same vibe for the masses. It found a market, and there’s no stopping the trend.

Distressed jeans add texture to an outfit. They create a unique juxtaposition when combined with dressier pieces like pumps, blazers, glitzy jewellery and a structured bag. They do a great job of dressing down more formal wardrobe items so that you can wear them more frequently.

It’s easy to get philosophical about what distressed jeans might represent. They can symbolize that we are flawed, that there is beauty in imperfection, that we are weathered by life, that our path is not a perfectly pretty one, that we come from humble beginnings, and that we can weather a storm. They can also symbolize that we are polished, but not precious. That we have a down-to-earth and relatable component to our persona, despite the formality that we project from the outside.

Visually, highly distressed jeans are not my cup of tea. I prefer to project a polished and professional appearance. That said, I’ll wear very faded blue jeans — and skirts and jackets for that matter — and I don’t mind a frayed hem as long as there are no rips, tears and holes or shredding in the denim. I enjoy wearing faded denim because it’s the easiest way to dress down my dressy pieces so that I can wear them more often. I also like the colour of very faded blue denim.

What are your thoughts on distressed jeans?

Eloquii Peach Lift Jean

Weekly Roundup: Assorted Items

The excellent shopping season continues and I hope you’re finding fabulous items that you’re wearing your way. The Topshop Floral Mesh Skater Dress was one of my unexpected finds, and I love it. I wasn’t initially drawn to the black background of the pattern and wished it was navy, but the flowers and leaves are in my favourite colours so I had to give it a try. It’s a perfect fit, length and silhouette, that will look equally good in Autumn worn with my tall dressy ink blue boots. The neckline fits closely around my neck thanks to a back zipper, and the fabric doesn’t crease. It’s lined with the softest knitted modal that makes it feel like you’re wearing a cotton dress.

Here’s the next roundup of winners from clients and forum members. Some items are available in an assortment of colours.

  • BP Kari Bow Loafer: An elegant, girly and pretty DRESSY loafer that's moderately comfy on lower and regular volume feet. Many colours and they're all nice. Great price and read the rave reviews.
  • Furla Medium Pin Shoulder Bag - Farfetch: A STUNNING quality bag and fabulous silhouette if you enjoy shoulder totes. Structured yet very versatile. Relaxed elegance, and a true white.
  • Anthropologie | Anthropologie Peplum Military Jacket: The photo does not do the darling justice. It looks better in person and drapes awfully well for a casual cotton jacket. Everyone who tried it on liked it. Looks best open, and works over dresses, jeans, pants and skirts. The olive-y brown is surprisingly flattering on most complexions. Might run a size big.
  • Treasure&Bond Tyler Metallic Leather Satchel: A verastile satchel that's compact in size but with a lot of room.
  • Converse One Star Sneaker: These are AMAZING, and made it into my wardrobe. They're LEATHER, very cushioning, and beautifully made. They look and feel better than designer sneakers, and at a fraction the price. Check out the inside stripes on these shoes. The quality is WOW. A little wide for my low-volume feet, but an insole and tighter lacing help. Fun red soles and pretty in blush. Comes in black too.
  • Topshop Nifty Woven Flared Heel Sandal: Fabulous sandal booties for regular volume feet, and medium comfort levels. Look dressy and chic on the foot. Office appropriate if you can wear open-toed shoes. Comes in black.
  • Halogen Ruffle Hem Zip Front Jacket: Super cute TAILORED bomber for dresses, skirts, jeans and pants. Might need to size down. Nice shade of navy.
  • Hobo Sable: Super cute, compact wristlet. A little '60s touch and fabulous in 2018.
  • Paul Green Sally Quarter Strap Sandal: A beautifully made trendy classic with added comfort. Size down half a size for lower volume feet, and tighten the straps. Works as well for higher volume feet. The cognac is as lovely.
  • Banana Republic Lace Midi Pencil Skirt: A fab skirt for both curvier and straighter figures. Dress it up or down, and excellent with a denim jacket. Good on petites.
  • Talbots Tweed Contrast-Trim Jacket: One of the best dressy Spring tweed jackets of the year. Impeccable quality, and brilliant on petites. Elongating and elegant.
  • Calvin Klein Faux Suede Moto Jacket: BUTTERY soft faux suede topper that is as comfy as can be. Excellent on a larger bust. Not good on petites. Runs a size big. The pale pink is yummy too. Fab pewter hardware.
  • Halogen Ruffle Zip Jacket: This jacket looks like a COS item. Avant-garde and GORGEOUS. The overwhelming sleeves are architectural, and the drawstring tailoring on the torso is genius. Looks as fab in tan. Runs a size big.
  • Halogen Tuxedo Stripe Straight Leg Jeans: Fun trendy jeans that run a size big. Best on a longer rise and torso. Works well on curvier hips, bottom and thighs. Read the rave reviews.
  • Franco Sarto SARTO by Franco Sarto Kenan Platform Sandal: Fun flatform Euro sandals for high-volume feet. Lots of good neutrals.
  • Talbots Womans Exclusive Wrap-Front Knit Jersey Top: A beautifully streamlined faux wrap top to wear as is or under a jacket. Works with all sorts of bottoms. Substantial fabric and a quality item. Flattering, forgiving, and sharp.
  • Sole Society 'Katarina' Block Heel Pump: A versatile and comfy pump that works on an assortment of feet. Great block heel. Read the rave reviews and browse the fun colours.
  • Naturalizer Emiline Flat Loafer: I can't rave enough about these loafers, which I wore on a shopping day with a client on their first outing. They are SUBLIME. Extremely comfortable, stay on your feet, and come in a wide width. The regular width works for lower volume feet with the addition of an insole. All the colours are nice, but rose metallic is unique - so my blush-loving self got those. They are instant wardrobe workhorses.
  • Pilcro And The Letterpress | Anthropologie Pilcro Embroidered High-Rise Cropped Bootcut Jeans: AMAZING quality jeans that work on curvier and straighter figures. Looks designer. Fabulous fit and length. Casually dressy and simply charming. Very even distressing.
  • Maeve | Anthropologie Cleary Dress: A fabulous casual dress WITH POCKETS. Forgiving of lumpage and bumpage. Works well on Team Tall with plenty of length. The photo is a very good gauge on how the dress falls on a 5ft 10 client who wore a size large. Available in patterns and solids.
  • Topshop Floral Print Mesh Skater Dress by YAS: I have this dress, which looks and falls just like how the model is wearing it in the photo. Gorgeous length, does not crease, and is extremely comfy. It’s an easy silhouette and elegant length. Will look equally good in Autumn with tall dressy boots. The neckline fits closely around my neck thanks to a back zipper, and the fabric doesn’t crease. It’s lined with the softest knitted modal and feels like you’re wearing a cotton dress.
  • Klub Nico Dallas Woven Sandal: A polished and comfy sandal bootie in a pretty shade of blush pink. Fab block heel, and office appropriate. Read the rave reviews.
  • Kelsi Dagger Brooklyn Ohana Sandal: A dystopian mule for Team High-Volume feet. All the neutrals are nice.
  • Kelsi Dagger Brooklyn Shiloh Block Heel Sandal: Well-made and fun looking dressy sandals that are quite comfy for regular volume feet. I love the blush colour way.
  • Ancient Greek Sandals Niki Slide Sandal: Cute Grecian slides for very casual outfits. Elegant and Summery. Works on regular volume feet and are moderately comfy.
  • Gorjana Laguna Adjustable Lariat Necklace: An adjustable and therefore versatile lariat necklace that comes in three metals.
  • Furla Handbag: I'm a huge Furla fan, and added this wardrobe pet to my happy Furla family of eight this year. It became an instant wardrobe workhorse as it complements my many pairs of blush shoes. I find blush very versatile and it functions like a neutral for my style. The quality is sublime, and size just perfect for my needs and small frame. It's structured, but looks as good with pink sneakers. It can be converted into a crossbody and is great for travel. Adds polish to an outfit. All the colours are nice.
  • Halogen Lace & Pinstripe Pencil Skirt: An interesting floral lace skirt with a pinstriped lining. Fits an hourglass and straighter hourglass really well, but is a little straight for a pretty pear. Elegant length and gorgeous Summery look.

Here’s the collection page if you would like to see the items alongside my descriptions.

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10 Must Haves for Spring & Summer 2018

Today’s fashion is a complex melting pot of sartorial choices where almost anything goes, as long as you add an intentionally trendy component to the outfit. I believe that stylish dressers have a noticeable element of “fashionable now” in their look, which means adding some degree of current fashion, however large or small. It’s all about the two foundations of modern fashion today: Individualism, making it personal, and Maximalism, to the extent that works for you. 

Here’s a shortlist of suggested “must haves” for the warm and hot-weather season. They cut across body types, ages, price points and lifestyles. As always, it’s a question of finding the renditions that work best for YOU.

1. Midi Dresses & Skirts

I’m very excited. For the first time in a VERY long time, dresses and skirts with a little more length are available in retail stores and completely mainstream. A knee-covering skirt or dress (that is not a maxi) is no longer a highly elusive wardrobe item. Goodness knows why it took this long to filter down to retail since catwalks have been showing the midi trend for years. Better late than never, and that’s why it’s the first thing on my must haves list this year.

’Tis a dress and skirt season, and my suggestion is to milk it. There are all sorts of fabulous casual, smart casual and dressy dresses and skirts in stores across a range of silhouettes, colours, fabrics and sizes. Tall clients who have battled to find dresses with sufficient length are hitting the jackpot, and I did too.

2. Non-Neutrals

The explosion of colour has been sublime for lovers of non-neutrals. There are wardrobe items across a large assortment of colours — pastels, brights, earth and jewel tones — and now is your chance to take advantage. If you enjoy wearing non-neutrals, try new-to-you colours and remix them into outfits in fresh ways. If you’re a neutral gal, try adding a colour or two, even if it’s in the form of an accessory or pair of shoes.

3. Florals, Polka Dots, Stripes, Gingham & Pattern Mixing

These are timeless patterns with a high longevity factor, yet they’re having their fashion moment. I call them Trendy Classics. Easy-to-like patterns that you can add to your style in any wardrobe item in neutrals or non-neutrals. Choose one or more and have fun pattern mixing with them too.

Choose subtle and low-contrast versions of these patterns if solids are more your thing. Choose them in an accessory or pair of shoes if you don’t want to commit to a wardrobe item.

4. Cropped Pants & Jeans

This is still one of the best ways to update your wardrobe if you like to wear trousers and jeans, because we’re living in the era of the alluring ankle. Absolutely any current silhouette of dressy or casual cropped pant or jeans is good. Cropped skinnies and leggings, boyfriend jeans, chinos, utility pants and cargos that are rolled at the hems, straight and flared crops, harem pants, joggers, cigarette pants, wide crops, culottes and tulip pants — take your pick. Silhouettes can be streamlined, relaxed through the leg, voluminous on the leg, or flare out at the hems. Waistbands can be pleated, paper-bagged, or high rise. Fabrics can be soft and drapey, or stiff and architectural.

There is a version of cropped pants and jeans for everyone and for every occasion. Most styles look best cropped between two to four inches above the ankle bone. Any longer and they tend to look like regular bottoms that are too short, so make the silhouette look intentional. Two inches is quite the sweet spot, especially with wider calves.

5. Volume on the Bottom

Think further than just skinnies, pencil skirts and sheath dresses, and try a little or a lot of volume on the bottom. It needn’t be extreme. Subtle works well if that’s more your cup of tea. Try wearing culottes, wide crops, Mom jeans, pleated pants, paper-bag waists, cropped flares, cropped straights, A-line skirts, A-line skirts with asymmetrical hems, flared skirts with inverted pleats, bubble skirts, ruffled skirts, tiered skirts, fit-and-flare dresses, tiered dresses, shift dresses, sack dresses and straight dresses.

6. High Rise

High-rise jeans, pants and skirts are the most on-trend. The point is to SHOWCASE the waist by fully or semi-tucking a top, or wearing a cropped untucked top. Don’t hide the rise with a long and roomy top. The best way to showcase a high rise when you’re self-conscious about the midsection is to wear a tailored bottom without too much stretch with a semi-tucked top. Stretch fabrics are comfortable when they’re tight, but they create muffin top so go for something less tight.

7. Embellishment

Embroidery is once again the embellishment of the season, but all sorts of other bells and whistles are also fab. Think fringe, pom-poms, lace insets, badges, tassels, ladder lace, bows, beading, lacing, sequins, and raw denim hems. Go tonal or high contrast. Remix it with patterns and colours, if you dare.

If embellished items aren’t your thing, add bells and whistles to your outfit with accessories like scarves, belts, jewellery, brooches, watches, hats, bold make-up, nail polish and rainbow hair.

8. Tailoring

Reduce slouch and oversized silhouettes by wearing items that are tailored and fit closer to the body. Think about defining the curve of the bust, waist and hip because it looks FRESH. Tailoring goes hand in hand with wearing volume on the bottom because it’s a way of adding structure to the outfit. Think fit-and-flare dresses, sheath dresses, bootcut jeans, straight legs, fitted tops, tie-front tops, peplum tops, pencil skirts, fluted skirts, tailored trousers, structured jackets, belted jackets and dusters, belted trench coats, and structured gilets. Or wear a roomy top tucked into tailored bottoms to showcase the waist. Remember that tailored fits are tighter than fluid fits, but not as tight as body-con fits.

9. Flats & Low Heels

Gone are the days when heels were the only way to elevate your style. In fact, it’s trendy to wear fashion sneakers with just about any outfit these days. Supportive flats, low heels up to two inches, stable block heels, soft footbed sandals like Birkenstocks, slides, mules, loafers, oxfords, sandal booties, and shoes with straps that stay on your feet like Mary Janes and ankle strap footwear — are all on trend.

Remember that flat shoes needn’t be casual, and that dressy flats do exist. You can absolutely look professional or adequately dressed up in a dressy pair of flats or very low heels for the office or an event. My party shoes have one and a half inch heels.

10. Wild Cards

Add an item to your wardrobe that is atypical for your style persona, but that speaks to you in some way. This is an excellent way to evolve your style, making it feel extra refreshed for the season. Wild cards can be new colours or styles of clothing, footwear and accessories. Or a new way that you wear your hair, your make-up, or put together your outfits.

Take the PERSONAL in personal style to heart. You have the power to pick and choose from the trend buffet, and sport it your way.

Eloquii Utility Jacket with Belt

Eloquii Dramatic Ruffle Plaid Top

Eloquii Printed Flutter Sleeve Dress

Eloquii Striped Side Tie Midi Skirt

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Team Dress or Team Skirt

We are re-running this poll because it’s been THE most incredible dress and skirt season. My clients are having a ball purchasing dresses and skirts instead of the usual pants, tops and jeans. Finally, retailers are getting that we need sleeved dresses with knee-covering lengths in casual styles and flattering silhouettes. We need skirts that are not just the basic pencil. AND we want them across an assortment of sizes, colours, patterns and fabrics. I’ve waited six years for the dress and skirt trends to change and at last they have. Let’s hope these trends continue.

I like skirts, but I love dresses and bat for Team Dress. There’s something about the ease of the one-piece dress that you can pull on and go that’s very appealing. It has built-in vertical and elongating integrity. Dresses are easier to style than a skirt because you don’t need to worry about matching it with a top. When you have a good assortment of denim jackets, short toppers, and coats like I do, dresses are easy to insulate when you want the extra coverage.

Dresses and skirts are equally feminine, dressy and elegant wardrobe items that can be worn with dressy or casual flat or low-heeled footwear. Yet I generally feel more pulled together wearing a dress than a skirt. The top can be fussy when it’s tucked or semi-tucked into a skirt, but I’m carefree about that aspect in a dress. Granted, skirts can be easier to fit than dresses especially if you wear a different size on the top and bottom. But it’s been a brilliant dress season, and I’m prepared to have dresses altered to create a perfect fit.

My preferences for dresses over skirts is reflected in my wardrobe. I have many dresses, and these are the exact ones hanging in my closet:

These are my skirts, and I have fewer of them:

My clients run the gamut. Some prefer dresses over skirts and vice versa. What’s your preference, and no batting for both teams. If you can’t choose, you’re welcome to hang out on the bench where I’m serving quinoa and tofu veggie bowls, steamed broccoli, and homemade frozen strawberry yogurt.

The Modern Twinset

Over the years I’ve talked about the twinset effect you can create by combining two top layers that match perfectly in colour and/or pattern. It’s not the traditional twinset pairing of a pullover and cardigan in exactly the same fabric, colour and pattern, but rather the more unexpected pairing of two other kinds of top. 

Here are some items from my own wardrobe as to illustrate the effect.

Patterned Blouse and Matching Scarf

First, there’s the patterned blouse that can be worn with a scarf in exactly the same pattern (although the fabrics are different). I bought the floral combinations at J.Crew last year and LOVED the set. So I bought a botanical and striped combination in the Netherlands a few months ago and have enjoyed it just as much. The effect is maximally Modern Retro, which appeals to my sartorial preferences.

Double and Triple Layers of the Same Solid Colour

Second, there’s the layering of two or three items in exactly the same solid colour. The collection shows two tops that I interchange with the same topper and scarf for a triple layered effect. The topper can be a cardigan, jacket or coat, and the top any silhouette at all. Sometimes I leave off the topper or scarf to create a double layer with the top.

The yellows look mismatched in the pictures, but they match perfectly in person. The fabrics are different, creating textural interest and outfit depth. Personally, I find the visual effect most effective in a non-neutral, and any non-neutral will work. Pastels, brights, mid-tones, jewel tones, muddy colours or earth tones — it’s all fab.

Both versions of my modern twinset feel fresh and different, create a polished effect, and I very much enjoy wearing them. Granted, combining a patterned blouse with matching scarf is an acquired taste and the sets aren’t easy to find. But a solid, non-neutral version is fairly easy to accomplish.

Who’s liking the modern twinset?