50 Years

2020 has been difficult in unprecedented ways. The stress of the global pandemic is something we wake up to every morning and go to sleep with every night, day after day. It’s hard to stay positive and upbeat when there is much sadness, disappointment, and hardship in the world. 

The only way out is through. For me, this means taking it one day at a time, and being extra grateful at the end of each day. I try to make the most of what we have, enjoy small pleasures, make a positive difference in the lives of loved ones, and help others stay upbeat. As an innately impatient person who likes to plan and be in control, I’m learning to be more patient and flexible.

On this milestone birthday I am celebrating another year on planet Earth with my favourite person Greg, and favourite doggy Sam. I appreciate the good things in my life that make me happy, and the bad things in life that make me stronger, wiser, and more empathetic. I strive to be a better person, and reflect more and more on what that means, and how I can achieve it.

I continue to have fun with fashion and style because it’s stress-relieving, social, and a creative outlet. I rise above the thought that looking older is the enemy, because I can’t stop the aging process. It’s going to happen, so I might as well embrace it and celebrate the journey. Now, more than ever, I want to go to sleep with a clear conscience, and wake up choosing joy.

Ferry

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Boys

Flowers

Our original plans for celebrating my birthday were cancelled, and will be rescheduled when things are less uncertain. Instead, the three of us are doing some fun things in and around Seattle, with social distancing always top of mind. In particular, lots of nice walks outdoors in the beautiful Pacific Northwest.

We’re taking tomorrow off and there won’t be a blog post.

Belting a T-Shirt Dress

A T-shirt dress can fit like a long straight T-shirt. It’s unstructured, comfortable, easy to launder, and an uncomplicated throw-on-and-go. The unstructured and sack-like integrity of this silhouette makes it appealing. It hides the midsection and curve of the hips, and feels very breezy because it does not cling. 

That said, the lack of structure can also put some people off. It might make you feel unattractive because it hides the narrowest part of the torso, making you feel wider than you would like. You have the option of belting the waist of the dress to temper the volume and give it some structure, like the model shows below. The waist is narrowed, showing gentle curves on the bustline and hips. The extra structure can make you feel more streamlined and polished. I like that the belt and sandals match, thereby pulling the look together.

Ryllace Amalfi Knit Dress

Belting a fluid dress is forgiving on the midsection. The extra fabric camouflages lumps and bumps while the waist is defined by a belt. So please don’t think that you have to have a flat stomach to do this. You don’t!

You can also wear the belt lower than the waist and more on the hips, to lengthen the natural waist. And as one of my clients says, wearing the belt lower gives her “boobs room to breathe.” That might feel more comfortable if the belt stays put. And by all means try belting all sorts of fluid dresses if you like the more structured outfit proportions.

Weekly Roundup: High Summer Items

Some retailers are slowly but surely refreshing and replenishing their merchandise for high Summer. This gives me a little hope amidst the extremely tough situation faced by retailers and their employees. 

Some of these items have been winners on my clients and our forum members, while others simply caught my eye. I have seen some of the items in person. Read the reviews, and browse the colour options. Some of the items are on sale.

You can see the items alongside my descriptions on the collection page.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Spotlight: Third Crown by Kirstin and Kofi Essel

Kirstin and Kofi EsselThird Crown is a New York City based jewellery brand designed by wife and husband team, Kirstin and Kofi Essel. The couple combined their creative talents to launch a modern jewellery collection that they describe as gender-neutral, geometric, and everyday statement pieces. 

The jewellery line is clean, architectural, chunky, yet refined, and available in an assortment of metals. The line was first produced in the heart of New York City, but has now moved to a factory out of state.

Their concept of “the power of the pair” is what I find the most interesting and unique about Third Crown designs. First, you can wear two of the exact same item at once, like two bangles instead of one. In fact here, the model is wearing three bangles.

Third Crown Arc Bangle

Second, the “power of the pair” is meant to convey a sense of togetherness. This encourages you to wear the same jewellery item with a spouse, friend, or family member, symbolizing a bond between two people, and making the unisex character of their designs all the more compelling.

Third, the “power or the pair” is about wearing two different items from the same collection at once, like a matchy-matchy set. For example, the model here is wearing four items from the Prizm Eclipse collection, so TWO pairs. You can mix and match the earrings, ring, necklace and bracelet from the same collection as you wish. Of course, you can wear mismatched items from different collections too.

Prizm Eclipse Ring

I love the versatility of the Third Crown line. You can choose to be a minimalist or maximalist with the items, and wear them to suit your sartorial preferences. You can wear one piece to be more understated, or sport a few or many pieces at once if you like a bit more glitz and metallic shine. The items are sufficiently practical and robust to be worn daily, and with anything.

As the world slows down and makes more sustainable choices on every level, I predict an increase in the demand for fine and precious jewellery because it can be worn all the time, and lasts for years. It’s Third Crown’s timeless and interesting designs that become even more appealing as many strive for a sense of sustainable chic. You can also have jewellery pieces custom-made. Personal and fabulous. Browse the collections, and have a peek at their Instagram page.

Outfit Formula: Easy Summer Dress

In the Northern hemisphere, Summer is here. That means relaxing into what we wear with an emphasis on casual, lightweight and breezy clothing that is very comfortable and not constrictive. If shorts aren’t your thing, there’s the option of wearing a simple and laid-back, throw-on-and-go dress. Here are some extremely easy casual dress outfits.

1. Handkerchief Swing

This type of swing dress with asymmetrical pointy handkerchief hem is a stylish muumuu to my eye. You’ll find them in knits, wovens, solids and patterns. Unstructured, yet just enough structure by showcasing skin on the arms and legs. The neckline and armholes are tailored too. I like the boho-lite additions of straw hat and loose-weave earthy topper. Classic flat gladiators always look good, and a fun straw bag would finish things off.

Ryllace Effortless Swing Dress

2. Relaxed Shirtdress

If you’re after something a little dressier with coverage but just as easy, try a shirtdress. This one doesn’t hang as loosely as a sack because it has a clever semi-structured button detail at the back (click on the link to see it.) But it’s breezy and comfy nonetheless. I like the earthy complement of the bag and slides. The low heel on the slides works well, and does not look out of place. This is my favourite of the five because I LOVE shirtdresses, although I prefer them with shirt collars.

Ryllace Market-Day Dress

3. Active Dresses

Athleisure dresses come in a range of silhouettes, so take your pick. They have a sporty integrity, and are often made of technical fabrics that are crease-resistant, breathable, easy to launder, and wick away perspiration. Feel free to wear a sports bra under the styles with very open armholes. Great with sneakers, hybrid sporty slides, body bag, or small backpack.

Universal Standard Long Sleeve V-Neck Geneva Dress

4. Knotted T-Shirt Dress

We covered T-shirt dresses a few weeks ago, and here’s another example of the look. It’s a maxi length with side slits so that you can knot one side. The knot makes the look to my eye because it creates a flattering midi length, a magical diagonal line, and an interesting asymmetrical hem. Summery thong sandals, sunnies and a straw bag are fabulous Summer additions.

Venus Casual T-Shirt Maxi Dress

5. Beachy Birkies

And last, throw on a tiered beachy dress that you can wear a bikini top under if you like. Or stick to a strapless bra, or decorative regular bra that works with the silhouette of the dress. Add a pair of Birkies, flat sandals, slides, or flip-flops, and a casual bag. Add jewellery, hat, watch and eyewear as desired.

M&S Cotton Woven Floral Tassel Beach Dress