Get The Tedious Tasks Done

January is as good a time as any to get all sorts of annoying wardrobe and beauty tasks done. They can be trivial and low-grade annoyances, but time-consuming and tedious nonetheless. And when small unattended tasks accumulate, they become a high-grade annoyance. Make a start by addressing one or some of them soon.

Get your alterations done. Sew on buttons. Change buttons. Get new eyewear. Fix old eyewear. Have a bra fitting. Clean your sneakers. Polish your shoes. Take footwear to the cobbler. Take items to the cleaners. Do the handwashing. Refresh loungewear. Refresh sleepwear. Refresh workout wear. Replenish underwear. Clean out cosmetic, nail polish, and make-up drawers. Fix broken drawers and shelving. Buy and insert drawer dividers. Clean dusty mirrors. Get an organizer for your handbag. Vacuum the floors of closets. Repack clothing. Get extra hangers. Swap out existing hangers. Dust off accessories. Put up hooks. Clean out the sock drawer. Pack away piles of clothing. Record your wardrobe expenses. Set a style budget. Create a digital representation of your wardrobe. Do the ironing, or get someone else to do it!

This list is by no means exhaustive. Feel free to add to it in the comments section, and share which pesky tasks you need to do or have already done. My make-up drawer could so with a clean-up, and my outdoorsy, cream lug soled boots need a deep clean. I will also get to work replenishing my undies.

Outfit Formula: Argyle

If you bat for Team Argyle like I do, you might be inspired by some of these outfit combinations. An argyle is a classic diamond-shaped design made up of overlapping or interlocking lozenges, often arranged in diagonal rows. It usually includes thin lines that crisscross the diamonds for extra detail. Argyles can be neutral or non-neutral, and large or small in scale. Knitwear and socks are popular vehicles for the pattern. Scarves, hats and hosiery too. 

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Onto outfit ideas. Remarkably, three of the looks remix argyle patterns with other patterns.

1. Doubled Up

A poppy and blush argyle twinset is combined with a pair of trousers in a tan pinstripe. A snakeskin belt adds the third pattern in the outfit. If you click on the photo, you’ll see that the outfit is completed with chocolate shoes that pick up the chocolate component of the belt. The tan bits across the patterns unite them, thereby creating a harmonious look. Maximally energetic.

Double Up

2. Socks

You might prefer wearing argyle in a smaller portion of your outfit, like socks. Argyle socks are playful and peppy, and can be interesting and insulating to incorporate into outfits. Here they make a statement because they are visible with cropped pants and loafers. A pair of chocolate cropped velvet pants is combined with a grey sweater, earthy brown plaid coat, and cream shoes. Grey, brown and cream argyle socks mop up the colours of the oufit. A chocolate brown bag matches the brown bottoms. Playfully earthy.

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3. Scarf

Argyle scarves are another way to go. Here, an oversized teal and black scarf that functions as a wrap, is worn over a black top and matching black and teal argyle vest for warmth and a dramatic layered effect. The teal and black in the pattern of the pants complement the colours of the scarf. Thrown together chic.

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4. Top

Last, an asymmetrical sweater with exuberant sleeve in a navy and grey argyle is combined with a flared black leather skirt. The black skirt matches the model’s hair, which to my eye helps pull the look together. Burgundy boots and bag match the thin burgundy lines running through the argyle sweater. Elegantly dramatic.

My Mini Style Evolution

2025 was a year for comfortably settling into my style. I stress enormously about all sorts of things, but wardrobe management, shopping, outfit creation, editing and my beauty routine, are not among them. Fashion and style continues to be a guaranteed source of enjoyment and fun in my life. It’s an effective de-stressor, and I hope to keep it that way. I feel great about my style, and my wardrobe is in superb nick. I love my stuff, feel fabulous in my outfits, and am relaxed about all of it.

We moved back into our newly remodeled loft, compete with my dream walk-in-wardrobe. Our new dressing area has a window, a gorgeous view, and incredible light. We finally have a coat closet. That’s very handy when you live in the Pacific Northwest of the United States, which demands a large outerwear capsule.

There is nothing that makes me more cognizant of the contents of my wardrobe than when I have to pack up, and unpack it, in a short space of time. Because of the remodel, my wardrobe is particularly well edited, curated, organized, and stored at this point. The best it has ever been.

After growing out my hair from pixie to shoulder length, I can confidently say that I am not a long hair person. The longer my hair got, the harder it was to maintain and style daily, which I found frustrating. Turns out I dislike the feeling of hair on my neck. I cut my hair in stages, and settled on a bixie at the end of last year. After leaving my hair naturally dark blonde for years, I added highlights in front to change things up. My hair is much easier to manage at this length, which I wear wavy and straight. I’ve satisfied my curiosity, and will be keeping my hair short from now on.

Slowly, surely, and in just the right items, I added warm browns to my wardrobe simply because I was in the mood for it. Shades of toffee and whiskey complement my honey blonde hair so they integrate easily into my style. This is the most significant way my style has evolved. Shades of white, navy, and blue denim have been the core neutrals of my wardrobe for years. Toffee and whiskey have become the next layer of core neutrals. I leave black, grey and olive to those who enjoy wearing them.

It was easy to find the right brown items because brown is the biggest colour trend of them all. Chocolate brown has to be patterned or colour blocked with cream for it to be as enjoyable to wear as toffee and whiskey. I added three brown items of outerwear, a brown bag, belt, wide jeans, and three pairs of brown shoes to my brown capsule last year. Apart from the mules, every new brown item became an instant wardrobe workhorse. Remarkable.

The addition of the browns-for-me is unexpected. One of my friends suggested that I’m “in my brown phase” and I agreed with her. I didn’t think I would like wearing these brown items as much as I do. I find them easy to combine with my brights and neutrals, and a refreshing change. They also fondly remind me of my late earth-tone-loving Mama, who I keep close to my heart.

I recently modeled some brown-rich outfits and my new brown boots in the forum. I like wearing browns with brights, or navy and white.

I diligently set out to replace my old and well worn loungewear, which like all wardrobe basics are workhorses. I appropriately covered all seasons, and am pleased with the results. This year, I’ll tackle other wardrobe basics that need replenishment and replacement.

As for the rest, I view trends as optional accents rather than directives. The trends I pay closest attention to are how the silhouettes of bottoms change (or stay the same). If a trend tickled my fancy and complemented my style, I explored it. I leaned into my established preferences and honed my signature style. Dramatic bottoms, modern classic tops, some retro, white footwear, flats instead of heels, white pearls, gold as my metal, gold footwear, modest silhouettes, high necklines, dressy rather than casual, statement bag and eyewear, and high contrast combinations. Lots of whites and sour brights. Navy, not black. Clear nail polish. Remixing old with new. And my favourite American designer is Ralph Lauren, particularly their Polo label.

Here are more casual and dressy outfits. Some golden oldies. And the various outfits I can create with my holiday capsule, many of which I wear season after season because I do not tire of the items. I also wear many of the items throughout the year.

Style evolution doesn’t require upheaval or reinvention. It’s about honesty, adaptation, and following your feelings. When your wardrobe and style reflect your current values, lifestyle, personality, and sartorial preferences, getting dressed becomes an act of alignment and satisfaction, rather than effort. Here’s to another year of comfortably settling into my style.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Adjectives and Monikers for Your Style

Every year I like to choose a few adjectives to capture my style goals and a short, memorable name for my personal style that I call my style moniker. You don’t need a moniker or a tidy list of adjectives to have great style. Your outfits can communicate who you are without any labels attached to them. Many people express their fashion preferences intuitively, guided by experience, comfort, practicality, mood, and what simply feels right from day to day. If thinking about adjectives or monikers feels stressful, unhelpful, forced or confusing, leave them off your style journey.

On the other hand, adjectives and monikers can be helpful and fun when you’re in the mood to reflect, refresh, or refine your style direction. They can help articulate what’s working, what you aspire to wear more often, and how you’d like your style to evolve.  

polished· relaxed · playful · classic · bold · quiet · colourful · current · refined · earthy · bohemian · sporty · retro · avant-garde · bombshell · romantic · soft · rock ’n roll · juxtaposed · eclectic · elegant · structured · unstructured · creative · witty · athletic · sassy · mischievous · modest · alluring · modern

Adjectives like the ones above can steer you toward choices that support your current sartorial preferences. They can can help you to make informed wardrobe editing decisions. And keep you grounded when shopping by providing a framework for evaluating new pieces. They can be inspiring and aspirational.

A moniker can feel like a tiny style superpower. Style is a creative expression of you and your context, and sometimes naming things sparks joy and amusement.

The process of choosing the words can be just as enjoyable as applying them. Your adjectives and moniker can shift with the seasons, your lifestyle, or your own curiosity. Nothing is set in stone.

Choose from three to five style adjectives, and a style moniker to go along with it. I use five adjectives that I’ve tweaked over the years. I will continue to wear outfits that are Modern, Crisp, Retro, Playful and Dressy.

Modern, because I enjoy injecting some carefully chosen trends into my seasonal look. That’s part of why fashion is fun. It keeps things fresh, and works well with my line of work.

Crisp, because I love wearing shades of white and clear brights, and have a strong need to create a fresh, professional and tidy appearance.

Retro, because of my fondness for fashion from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s, but remixing retro sensibilities with a good dose of current.

Playful, because it’s become important to me to wear outfits that are or have soft, amusing, sentimental, and nostalgic elements. This also reminds me to not take fashion and style too seriously, and to do my own thing.

Dressy, because super casual does not make me happy.

My style moniker is Urban Polish. I live in the city and walk almost everywhere in all sorts of weather with doggies in tow. I wear smart casual and dressy clothes daily, and comfortable shoes that go the distance. I am very neat, tidy, and organized by nature, so it’s important that my outward appearance exudes a high degree of polish. My moniker is like a personal style mascot, and a wink to myself each time I get dressed.

The most important thing is to keep style enjoyable, honest, manageable, practical, and filled with good energy. If adjectives and monikers boost your clarity or creativity, embrace them. If not, pass on the process. Over the years, the YLF community has engaged in many a delightful conversation helping Fabbers find their style adjectives and monikers. Feel free to ask for assistance on the forum if you’d like to get a head start. Feel free to share your own style adjectives and moniker in the comments section too.

Low Rise versus Low Slung

Low rise jeans and pants are not the same thing as low slung jeans and pants. Unfortunately retailers are careless with their descriptions and confuse the two. They can describe low slung bottoms as low rise bottoms, which makes searching for jeans and pants with lower rises a little useless. Just to confuse the issue more, low slung jeans and pants can have high rises. 

Low rise is built low. Low slung is worn low. Low slung is a styling choice and not a rise measurement. I’ll elaborate.

The rise is the distance from crotch point to top of waistband. The waistband is on or just below the hip bone and measures 6.5 to 8.75 inches in length. The intention of the design is to fit low when you pull them on. The pattern is drafted to sit low, meaning the waistband, pockets, and proportion of the garment are built for this placement. The visual effect is FITTED on the crotch point. The crotch point does not hang disproportionately low. Jeans in the late ‘90s and ‘00s tended to be low rise.

Low slung bottoms have higher rises than low rise bottoms. They are intentionally worn lower than their designed rise thereby creating a slouchy, relaxed, and oversized look. They are NOT FITTED on the crotch point. The crotch point hangs low, the pants slouch lower on the hips, and sometimes even lower than traditional low rises. You get the look by sizing up or choosing a relaxed cut so the jeans and pants drop on the hips and slouch. The “slung” part refers to the jeans hanging lower than the pattern intends. Low slung bottoms are on trend.

Low rise and low slung jeans and pants are generally not the easiest silhouettes to fit, style and feel fab in. In my experience dressing clients, low rises are easier to fit and wear when you are shorter in the rise and the silhouette isn’t tight on the legs. Low slung styles can be comfortable and dramatic, although you have to watch that the crotch point doesn’t hang too low, that the waistband doesn’t dig into your hips, and that the level of slouch fit is to your liking. Like I said, these are tricky fits.