Wearing Clothing Items Back to Front

I’ve been getting a little desperate with necklines recently, preferring them high rather than V or scooped. I love a cowl neckline, but they too can scoop a bit low at times. I find myself turning dresses and tops with low necklines back to front, repeating to myself: “I wish the neckline looked like this instead”.

Then it dawned on me. Try wearing the item back to front. I did exactly that and in some cases it worked like a charm! For example, the cowl on the Gap tops below hung much lower on me than it did on the models. So I turned them around and voila! To my amazement they looked great. The overall fit was acceptable too, probably because it was a knit top and not a woven blouse. The low front did become a low neckline at the back, but I quite like a lowish back so it didn’t bother me.

Now I’m curious, have you ever considered wearing anything back to front? If so, has it worked? I’m a tad late with this discovery but I’m certainly going to try it again in future.

Top Heavy Versus Bottom Heavy Outfits

During the transition between seasons I see a lot of outfits that, for want of better terminology, I will call “top heavy” and “bottom heavy”.

  • Top heavy outfits: Wearing heavy coats and trenches on the top with hot weather sandals or flip flops on the bottom. Sometimes I see scarves, hats and gloves thrown into this mix too.
  • Bottom heavy outfits: Pairing lightweight summery items on top with cold weather boots on the bottom. For example, summery dresses or short shorts with boots, or a skirt and sleeveless top with boots.

Both categories seem to reflect seasonal confusion. For top heavy outfits, if it’s cold enough to wear a coat or trench – how can you pair the look with hot weather sandals? For bottom heavy outfits, if it’s warm enough to wear a breezy dress, sleeveless top or shorts – how does it make sense to wear cold weather boots?

Well, here’s the thing. I totally get and sport bottom heavy outfits. I am completely comfortable wearing a sleeveless dress with boots. I’ll also wear a sleeveless blouse with jeans and cowboy boots. These outfits look “right” to me. But somehow top heavy outfits don’t make sense and look seasonally confused to my eye.

I don’t have a good explanation for my double standard. I should be able to appreciate the look of top heavy outfits if I adore the look of bottom heavy outfits. Perhaps it’s my cold feet, and being a sucker for wearing closed shoes with socks makes me gravitate towards the look that allows me to do that.

What’s your take on top heavy and bottom heavy outfits? Can you appreciate both looks?  Does one make more sense than the other? Or do they both look seasonally confused to your eye?

Team Cropped Cardigan or Team Tunic Cardigan

I had a hard time choosing a Team because I wear both cropped and tunic cardigans with the same frequency. As much as I adore all of the new look tunic cardigans, like boyfriend, cascading and fly away styles, I prefer layering at least half of my dresses with classic cropped cardigans.

That said, I’ve decided to side with Team Tunic Cardigan because they’ve been a revelation for my clients, and because they are kind of cozier to wear. Also, they look great with leans tucked into boots and its almost time to wear that look again.

Over to you. Are you Team Cropped or Team Tunic Cardigan. A friend of mine can’t get her head around cardigans because they make her feel like old Aunt Mildred no matter which style she sports. That’s okay!  I’d prefer you to pick a side but you’re allowed to sit on the bench if you don’t wear cardigans at all. Remember, no batting for both Teams.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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How to Wear Flat Oxfords

Personally, I have always enjoyed the look of flat oxford shoes. To quote hubby Greg: “They are VERY cute”.  But there is no doubt about it: flat oxfords shorten the leg line and look masculine because they are flat shoes with high vamps. Unless you have a proportionally long leg line they aren’t the easiest shoe to wear.

With some experimentation you can balance out the masculine vibe and shortening effect. Here are some things you can try:

  • Pair them with tapered pants, jeans or ankle length leggings: Showing off the entire shoe when wearing pants, jeans or leggings somehow makes them look more feminine. When sporting perfect pant lengths with wide legs or bootcuts, the tips of the shoe peek out while the rest of the shoe is covered. This looks more masculine to my eye. Of course, the masculine look might tickle your fancy so by all means wear flat oxfords with wide hemmed pants if you prefer that visual effect.
  • Reveal skin on the foot: Sometimes, allowing a bit of skin to peek through between the vamp of the oxford and the hem of the pants keeps things feminine. That’s why I like to go sock-less when I wear my oxfords with tapered jeans. Although it shows more skin, I do not cuff my jeans when wearing flat oxfords because the horizontal cuffs and finished length of the jeans are too leg shortening for my tastes. Instead I leave my skinnies scrunched.
  • Raise the hemlines of skirts, dresses and shorts: This visually lengthens the leg line. I’m not one to wear short hemlines, but a couple of inches above the knee works well. Baggy short shorts work particularly well with flat oxfords because they showcase most of the leg.
  • Voluminous pieces: Unstructured items complement the look of flat oxfords. It’s not a slam dunk, but short sack dresses, breezy blouses, boyfriend cardigans and baggy boyfriend blazers like to be paired with flat oxfords. Somehow, surrendering the waistline is key.
  • Cropped jackets: Boyfriend blazers work beautifully with flat oxfords when worn with tapered jeans, but cropped jackets work well too. Wear a cropped jacket over a flared skirt or dress, tapered pants or with walk shorts. The short hem on the jacket visually draws the eye to the waistline which raises the line of the leg.
  • Add hosiery: Keeping a low contrast between the colour of your legs and the shoes creates a longer leg line. For example, wearing black opaque tights with flat black oxfords is visually lengthening because there is no contrast between the oxfords and the leg. Wearing black micro fishnets with my oxfords keeps the contrast low too.
  • Choose a low contrast shoe colour: Sometimes, opting for nude, metallic, light grey or light brown flat oxfords works better with dresses and skirts because there is low contrast between your leg colour and the shoe. It can also soften the integrity of the shoe, making it more feminine.

A combination of these tips will also work in an outfit. It’s really up to you and your figure flattering priorities. If you like to keep a long leg line as I do, these tips will help. If sporting a shorter leg line works for you, wear flat oxfords with just about anything.

Although flat oxfords are an acquired taste, adding them into your current wardrobe mix can change up the look quite dramatically. They bring both an arty and an androgynous element to your style, which can be appealing. And the comfort factor is pretty compelling too – after all, my flat oxfords saved my feet at Fashion Week!

You might remember these outfits from my recent Fashion Week posts. And that’s forum member Tara peaking over my shoulder in the first picture. Adorable!

Cleaning Out Your Make-Up Drawer

My make-up drawer is typically quite lean because my make-up routine is fast and simple. However, a few free samples here and one or two gifts there, and before you know it there is extra stuff all over the show. It drives me bananas.

I seem to allow the contents of my make-up drawer to accumulate until it’s time to pack the toiletry bag for a trip. Then I get stuck in, throwing stuff out and passing things on. We travel fairly often, so editing my make-up drawer happens frequently. It has become a pre-travel routine for me. How often do you edit your make-up drawer?