Kate, why did you break up with your boyfriend?
"He wouldnt wear socks when I begged him and his bare feet grossed me out and annoyed me." Gonna be honest this sounds shallow.
"He wouldn't compromise with me, not just on one thing, but on many things throughout our relationship and I felt he didn't value or respect me feelings or opinions." Valid concern.
Only you know which scenario is closer to your true feelings. But ypu seem to really like him.
Since we're really veering away from the style question at this point I'd recommend cintinuing the discussion in the off topic section of the forum if you feel more discussion is needed.