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Beyond Body Type Dressing Rules

Popular British and American television shows like “What Not To Wear” were all the rage ten years ago, encouraging us to identify our body type and follow the prescribed dressing rules. Countless books told us that it was trendy, fashionable and cool to follow body type dressing rules. Using clothing, footwear and accessories to balance out bodily proportions, accentuate good features while camouflaging so-called flaws was the way to create a sense of style. 

YouLookFab, was born in 2006 when adhering to body type dressing rules was at its peak. As a fashion stylist who makes a living dressing all sorts of body types, I shared my guidelines on body type dressing within the first month. Over the years I’ve updated the guidelines to keep abreast with changing fashions.

Like most things in life, our thoughts about a particular topic evolve over time, as mine have done with body type dressing rules. We are in the midst of what I think of as the most uninhibited, unprescribed and democratic of fashion eras. More than ever before, outfit creativity and individualism is applauded. There are extremely stylish people bending and breaking body type dressing rules ALL THE TIME.

To some degree, dressing for your body type has become unfashionable and uncool – the polar opposite of what it was a decade ago. 

Over the years I have placed far less emphasis on the importance of body type dressing rules because the idea of sticking to a prescribed way of dressing seems dated in itself. No one wants to have their creativity stifled. No one wants to feel boxed into a particular set of clothing silhouettes when our souls yearn for freedom and independence. Body type dressing rules, as much as they are meant to have a positive problem solving integrity, can also be a bit of a downer. They focus heavily on creating a slim, long limbed,  and hourglass silhouette – and the further you are away from that body type, the more restricted the guidelines appear to be. And no one wants to feel that their body is wrong because they shouldn’t wear a  particular clothing style. 

That said, I still believe that body type guidelines can be an excellent starting point in certain situations. If everyone could wear everything, there would be no such thing as having a great sense of style. Stylish dressing is still very much wrapped around achieving attractive outfit proportions, so understanding what might work well for your body type is a good thing. That’s why I point our new forum members to body type dressing guidelines when they feel lost and overwhelmed. But in the same breath I am quick to qualify that the guidelines are suggestions and not rules. I stress that women shouldn’t get too hung up on them and should feel free to try whatever else tickles their style fancy. 

Body type dressing rules are not the be all and end all of style, but they do have their place. Establish your figure flattering priorities and adhere to them — most of the time. Experiment with silhouettes that you were told NOT to wear, and manipulate them to work in your special way. After all, it is the rebels and rule breakers who start the fashion trends in the first place.

Book Nook: It’s All in the Shoes

Before finding YLF I didn’t know that shoes possess magical powers. Sure, my heart would beat a little faster over all the eye candy in the shoe shops, but that didn’t stop me from making rather uninspired choices. I just never realized how big of an impact the right shoe can have. How a pair of two-toned oxfords creates a completely different mood than a wedge sandal with a cork heel. How the perfect ped simply transforms any outfit. Angie and the many shoe mavens on the forum finally helped me put two and two together. Today I’m still far from an expert, but experimenting is proving to be heaps of fun.

In this week’s book Phyllis Hoffman talks about the shoes she wore during various defining moments in her life. From the shoes she wore the first day of school to the ones she sported the day her twin sons were born, footwear fan Phyllis Hoffman remembers them all. In ”Honey, It’s All in the Shoes: Celebrating the Footsteps of the Contemporary Woman” she reminisces about her favourite pairs and the small and big steps she took in them. Defining moments in her own life are mixed with stories of style icons and the shoes they loved to wear. The book also contains celebrity shoe quotations and black and white illustrations of footwear throughout the ages.

This inspired me to compile my own shortlist of shoes that matter:

  • White leather ballet flats — My first pair of “grown-up” shoes. They had an almond toe, a basket weave pattern and made me feel like Audrey Hepburn. I walked a little taller in those cuties and wore them until they literally fell apart.
  • Dr. Martens 20 eyelet boots — Purchased during my first year on YLF. The gunmetal silver was a limited edition and I’m heartbroken that they no longer fit. The punk rocker in me loves how they add a little edge and lots of attitude. Plus there’s nothing like a pair of sturdy soled Docs to stomp through the Belgian snow.
  • Fly London yellow wedge sandals — These have led to another YLF-inspired epiphany: I discovered that yellow footwear can act as a neutral. To my surprise these sandals work with practically every item in my closet, and catching a glimpse of my “bold” yellow shoes always makes me smile. 

Do you have any “big impact” shoes or a pair of peds that has special meaning for you?

Reminder: The Devil Wears Prada for May 25

Friday 25 May is kick-off day for our next Book Club title. We’ll be chatting about the movie version of The Devil Wears Prada, with Meryl Streep and Anne Hathaway in the leading roles.

Related Books

If the titles in today’s Book Nook are your cup of tea, you may also like:

 

This jacket is beautifully shaped, nipping you in at the waist. It looks best left un-buttoned to accentuate it's casual linen vibe. It runs true to size and is available in four colours. Also available in petite. Especially great with skirts because of it's shorter length. You'll have to make peace with the crease!

Fab Finds: Sassy Summer Shoes

These shoes are not inexpensive, but they are fab finds for being charming, flattering, really well made, and very comfortable. All of the styles are tried and tested by my clients. 

Remix Anita Mary Jane Pumps

These vintage-inspired, low heeled darlings are gorgeous. One of my clients, who was desperate for comfortable low heels, bought these in an assortment of colours because they are bunion-friendly.  She pops them on in the morning and doesn’t feel them throughout the day. That’s worth a lot when you have fussy feet. 

You can purchase them directly from Remix Vintage Shoes by placing an order over the phone as there is no online store. Or you can purchase them online at Sole Food

Anyi Lu Luisa Sandal

Anyi Lu makes amazingly crisp looking footwear that is as comfortable as it is attractive. One of my other clients, who hasn’t bought heeled sandals in years because nothing worked for her feet, recently bought these in cream. She remarked that they were almost as comfortable as her Haflinger slippers. They cost a pretty penny, but if you’re after a timeless, chic and simple low vamped sandal with a manageable heel height, these are worth a look. 

Cole Haan Air Tali Wedge

Simple, modern, no-nonsense wedges that you can wear with just about any Summer outfit. Your feet will be grateful for the Nike Air cushioning comfort. The style comes in an assortment of colours and heel treatments. Some heels are cork, whereas others have a self fabric heel. I like the nude and blue best, although the pink is pretty fab too. 

If you have fussy feet and are desperate for shoes that look great AND go the distance (like I am), you’ll probably spend extra on shoes. You might have fewer pairs because your budget can only be stretched so far, but it’s better to have a few pairs of killer shoes that you wear over and over again, than a whole slew of nice shoes that hurt your feet. 

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Link Love From YLF Members

Annagybe found this article on Jezebel very interesting. It reports on the results of research into the impact that models have on consumer choices.

Rae reads on purseblog that Nordstrom tops the consumer’s list for luxury department stores according to a recent study by the Luxury Institute.

Classically Casual thinks that Georgette of Grown and Curvy Women, recently featured on 40 + Style, is a perfectly dressed curvy lady. 

Christeanne wonders whether the ’90s are vintage after reading that the decade has come of age on Queens Of Vintage. 

ironkurtin suggests taking a peek at Karl Lagerfeld’s crazy Fortress-of-Solitude fashion show.

MaryK liked Corporette’s post on what to wear to officiate a wedding. Mary further suggests that if you’re a clergyperson or a judge, wear your robe for the ceremony and save the pretty dress for the reception.

Celia found interesting this recent statement by Barack Obama about the First Lady’s position on style and power.

Goldenpig was surprised to read in the New York Times that wearing make-up can make a woman appear more confident

Last but not least, I will own these iconic red Gucci loafers one day, and wear them with everything.

Flared Dress, Fitted Jacket and LOTS of Shoes

Matching a fit and flare dress with a cropped and tailored jacket is a timeless and ageless outfit combination. It’s a great look for a business casual work environment, a dressier evening out, lunch date with friends, or whenever else it tickles your fancy. 

The pairing of fitted jacket and flared dress is somewhat ladylike, retro and dressy. Some will even think of it as overly feminine and prissy. The thing is, you can change the vibe of the clothes by pairing them with different styles of footwear. Dress the look up or down. Throw in a bit of edge. Add in an extra modern shoe. Create a retro or arty mood. Or keep it girly and sweet.

I have chosen bold, striped fit and flare frocks because they are on-trend for Spring/Summer 2012. I’ve matched them up with a short white linen jacket for a Summery and relaxed effect. I’ve added in an assortment of shoes that work with either dress and jacket pairing. Ballet flats, flat oxfords, loafers and thong sandals if you like to wear flats. Stacked ankle strap sandals, platform espadrilles, wedges and stilettos for those who prefer heels. There is neutral animal print for the pattern mixers. There are brights for the colour lovers. Neutrals for the neutral lovers.  High vamps and low vamps. Mainstream choices and less expected pairings. I could have also added in slipper flats, booties, metallic sandals, mary janes or cage heels. Take your pick. 

As with all the formulas, I sow the seed of an idea. The next step is to substitute the items that are true to your style persona. Perhaps you’d fancy a solid dress and colour-blocked handbag. A pastel or earthy colour palette. A cotton blazer. The addition of tough shoes or dainty strappy sandals. The possibilities are endless. 

Personally, I’d wear either dress with a collared cropped linen jacket, paired with the animal print ballet flats, yellow loafers or flat white oxfords. Which combination do you like best?

Style these Outrageous Shoes

I love the colour combination of these Style Bubble platform booties. The style is over the top, outrageous, and borderline ugly. Not to mention the crazy platform height. But lets style these shoes in an outfit just for fun. I can see them with a neon pink and white colour blocked mod mini dress and pink wig. Or, with a silky, taupe, long-sleeved romper with a neon pink scarf. Perhaps someone in Harajuku would wear this outfit.

Over to you.

Dressy Skirt and Denim Jacket

Spring has finally reached Seattle and just about everyone was outside enjoying the sunshine and warmer weather over the weekend. We met with friends for supper at Boom Noodle in Capitol Hill, and Greg snapped these photos just before we headed into the restaurant. 

You’ve seen the same brocade skirt dressed up for fashion week and for a rehearsal dinner, but my favourite way to wear it is dressed down with a denim jacket and flats. That way I can wear the skirt more often. This is the trusty denim jacket and skirt formula, which I wear on a casual evening out, when I’m out and about town, or on a more casual appointment with clients.

I’m not a cardigan girl, but I like this Edwardian-inspired cardigan because I can button it up and wear it like a short sleeved high-necked pullover. I also like that it’s roomy around the waistline, yet fitted on the shoulder and bust line. It’s a little slouchy, which creates a more relaxed vibe against the stiff, flared formal skirt. 

I take the contrast theme further by adding a very faded denim jacket. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea to create such a vivid contrast between two items (casual with formal, and light with dark colours). I have a dark blue denim jacket that looks good with this skirt too. But because I really like the colour of light blue denim and enjoy wearing strong contrasting items, the faded denim jacket wins out every time. 

I added dressy, giraffe printed animal flats for a pattern mixed effect. And two-toned fishnet hose, green satchel, specs and watch to finish off the look. I was going to swap out my green handbag for a taupe clutch, but at the last minute, the casualness of my slightly battered green satchel felt right. We had a lovely evening! 

Fab Find: Vince Camuto Slouchy Animal Print Pants

This item is completely misrepresented in the online photograph. Trust me, these pants do not look like skinnies at all. Quite the opposite! They are baggy, slouchy, soft and absolutely divine. Imagine them a few sizes up with roomy drape and you’ll get a more accurate picture of the style. They have dear little zips that taper the hems, and an elasticated waistband (and drawstring) that is great to wear with un-tucked tops. The side pockets are a bonus, as is the fact that they are machine washable.

Superbly lightweight — you can’t feel them on your body — and oh so on trend. Perfect for hot weather and extremely comfortable. They also look fab if you pull up the hems, making them baggy like harem pants. Add sandals, booties, ballet flats or pumps.  

Unfortunately, these trousers aren’t available online at the moment, but they are in stores. You can also ask customer service to track them down for you.

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The Advantages of Shopping Your Closet

Shop Your Closet (or “SYC”) is a recurring theme on the YLF forum. It’s when you put yourself on a temporary shopping ban and restrict yourself to your own closet, thereby resisting the temptation to buy anything new. Some of our forum members are on SYC for months at a time and their reflections during this period are varied and interesting. 

Forum member ironkurtin recently shared some thoughts that inspired me to write this post. As much as she loves to shop, ironkurtin thought the advantages of SYC definitely went beyond the financial impact:

“So, shopping my closet – and it’s only been a week!!! – has taught me these three important things.

  1. You can’t identify wardrobe holes – functional ones – unless you are forced to use what you have. This sounds counterintuitive but if you are looking for the next cute thing, as opposed to the next useful thing, you can get lost in the whirl.
  2. You don’t know what you own until you are forced to use it. I can’t tell you how many times I looked at something and was like ‘Oh, I forgot I owned this!’
  3. You don’t know what you don’t wear until you are forced to use it. Or realize you really don’t want to use it!

I am not loving shopping my closet, but I think it will be good for me. It may even force me to – gasp – buy fewer better things! And to get rid of stuff, because frankly, anything I forgot I owned will be better off out of my closet” .

SYC inspires discipline, analysis and creativity. This is why I sometimes suggest a temporary shopping ban to some of my own clients. This is usually at the end of a large seasonal shop. I urge them to road test their existing seasonal looks for a while, perhaps for a month or longer, in order to accurately identify favourite outfit formulas, least favourite items and wardrobe holes. That way they will hone their style persona, effectively build on their existing wardrobe capsules, duplicate the right items, and pass on the stuff that no longer works for the current leg of their style journey.

The financial impact of SYC is greater than just the money you’re not spending. You are forced to wear more items in your existing closet, reducing their cost per wear. Who knows. You might even bust out a wardrobe orphan or two. You’ll probably also wear items in new combinations to keep your style feeling fresh. How’s that for getting the biggest bang for your fashion buck.  

SYC does not work for everyone and we’ve had forum members express those frustrations too. Instead they prefer the more consistent discipline of “Shop Your Budget” (SYB) because it’s less restrictive, allowing them to nab bargains and hard to find sizes as they come up. A steady, controlled stream of new inventory into their wardrobe also keeps things fun, whether it was all about the hunt, or the thrill of bringing home a new piece that pulled at your heart strings. 

Have you ever put yourself on a temporary shopping ban, thereby forcing yourself to shop your closet for a period of time. If so, how did it go? Were you frustrated or elated? What did you learn during the process? Would you recommend SYC to others, and go through the process again? Or is SYB a better way to keep the spending in check and the style juices flowing.

Team Low Heels or Team High Heels

You are on Team Low Heels if you prefer to wear heel heights that are lower than three inches. You are on Team High Heels if you prefer to wear three inch heels or heels higher than three inches. All heel types count for this poll, be it stilettos, wedges, platforms or stacked heels. 

I bat for Team Flats, but if I’m going to wear a heel with an “everyday” outfit, it’s a shoe with a one and half or two inch heel. Anything over two inches and I start to slow down, with the exception of my Frye boots. Although they are just over two inches, I seem to be okay walking around at a fast pace in those all day. 

I have three pairs of high heeled party shoes with heels just over three inches. They only come out to play when I can sit for most of the event. I can’t walk briskly, and if I do walk at all the balls of my feet start to ache big time. Platforms are not my style so I don’t wear those either. I bat for Team Low Heels all the way. 

As with ALL our Team X and Team Y posts, there is no right and wrong answer. You are merely stating your preference as it relates back to your style persona. Over to you. Are you Team Low Heels or Team High Heels? Tell us why and no batting for both teams.

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This jacket is beautifully shaped, nipping you in at the waist. It looks best left un-buttoned to accentuate it's casual linen vibe. It runs true to size and is available in four colours. Also available in petite. Especially great with skirts because of it's shorter length. You'll have to make peace with the crease!
 
Anyi Lu is expensive but well worth the price. A beautifully chic, sharp and crisp sandal that elongates the leg line with it's low heel and vamp. Feels as comfy as a slipper. Runs true to size and is available in three colours.
 
These low heeled wedges are so comfy thanks to Nike Air cushioning. If you can handle the peep toe, give them a bash. They come in several colours and heel treatments. Run true to size. I loved the nude and the blue.