Make Style Decisions with Your Head AND Your Heart

Sometimes a colour palette, a silhouette, outfit proportions, or a juxtaposition of items is physically comfortable and looks great to others, but you don’t feel good wearing it. In these situations, you should follow your feelings and choose something else. 

Follow Your Feelings

Pay attention to your emotions when you try a new look. What is your instinctive response and how do you feel in the moment? If it’s confident, authentic and attractive, that’s a good sign. If you find yourself doing a dressing room happy dance, even better.

It’s ok to change your mind. What doesn’t resonate emotionally one day might feel good the next. Maybe someone you trust reassures you. Or your eye and preferences adapt. Just keep listening to your head and your heart when choosing outfits.

Three Reasons to Like Full Length Bottoms

Full length pants and jeans are back. After years of relentless cropped pants trends, it’s great to see ankle covering bottoms take centre stage. Change is good.

Full length pants and jeans vary in length. Traditional full length hems skim the surface of the ground. The new shorter full length version rests on the vamp of the foot. Extra long, floor sweeping lengths scrunch and slouch at the hem. Take your pick. 

Whichever specific length you choose, full length pants and jeans have their advantages.

1. Elongation

Visually, the length makes your legs look longer. This is especially so when you wear heeled footwear under bootcuts, flares, and wide legs with hems that skim the surface of the ground. You can’t see much of the shoes, but you gain inches in leg length. If creating a longer leg line is a personal figure flattering priority, you’re probably enjoying the return of full lengths.

2. Warmth

The ankle coverage of full length bottoms insulates the lower legs and feet. It’s remarkable what a difference this makes. You need to wear high shaft booties with cropped pants to prevent cold ankles. You don’t need to do that with full lengths. You can wear socks or knee highs with oxfords, loafers or sneakers and feel quite cozy as long as your bottoms cover up.

3. Drama

Extreme long lengths that scrunch and slouch around the ankles and feet create a dramatic effect. This is a tripping hazard when hems are very wide so please be careful. But when hems are tapered or not as wide, “ankle scrunch” can look textural and interesting. Excess fabric folds rest on the shoe, don’t get wet or dirty, and look a little luxurious. Too much scrunch can look ill-fitting and untidy. Just the right amount can be a winner.

Personally, I’m thoroughly enjoying the return of full length pants and jeans for these reasons. I continue to enjoy crops that showcase my ankles (or I cover up with high shaft booties), but enjoy the variation. I especially like wearing full length bottoms with flat loafers and booties. Their ankle coverage has extended the wear of my loafers in colder weather, which is good news for loafer-loving-me.

Over to you. Are you happy with the resurgence of full length pants and jeans? Can you think of extra reasons to like them?

Outfit Formula: Black Puffer and Black Shoes

Black puffer coats and jackets are ubiquitous in Seattle and might be in your neck of the woods too. If you wear black, true neutrals, and earth tones, a black puffer can be a seamless addition to your wardrobe. It’s especially effective when you match a black puffer with black footwear. The repetition of the black at the top and bottom of the outfit pulls it together. 

These casual outfits might provide inspiration.

1. Sprinkling of Cinnamon

A pair of very roomy cinnamon ankle length cargo pants is paired with a black sweater. Chunky black platform clogs worn with black socks match the sweater. A short black puffer tops the lot, matching the black in the outfit. I see a black, brown, red or orange crossbody bag complete the look.

Sprinkling of Cinnamon

2. Frocked with Bubblegum

A column bubblegum pink sweater dress is combined with white socks and stompy flat black lug sole boots. The socks have a pink stripe too. A maxi black puffer coat is worn over the dress and matches the boots. A pink beanie matches the dress. Add a bag that works with the palette.

Frocked with Bubblegum

3. Blue Denim and Pearl Grey

A grey and black Fair Isle sweater is worn with a pair of relaxed boyfriend jeans. Grey socks match the grey sweater. Black moto boots are the casual boots of choice. A thigh length black puffer tops the lot, matching the boots and black in the sweater. There’s a belt around the puffer that you can leave off.

Blue Denim and Pearl Grey

4. Textured Black-Out

This outfit creates a textured black-from-head-to-toe look. Faux leather, knits, quilting, and shiny patent leather provide ample textural interest and depth for this monochromatic low contrast outfit. A graphic tee is paired with leather pants. It’s topped with a grey cardigan. Chunky black platform loafers make a playful statement. A dramatic long diamond quilted puffer tops the lot. Add jewellery, bag, eyewear and watch as desired.

Textured Black Out

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Kitten Heels: Yay or Nay

A kitten heel is a shoe with a short and tapered heel that stands one to two inches high. You’ll find kitten heels on pumps, mules, sandals, Mary Janes, and boots across a range of toe box shapes. Kitten heeled shoes tend to have a dressy and refined integrity. They are a sharp contrast to the chunky, lug sole trend. 

Kitten heels waft in and out of fashion. They’re currently having a fashion moment so we’re seeing more of them for a while. They are particularly popular in the form of a low heeled slingback pump. The collection below shows a range of examples.

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WRANGLER Lila Boots
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L'AGENCE Elle Pumps
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ALTA Donella Heels
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ALTA Fiamma Heels
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Kitten heels, especially when they’re extra low, can be easier to walk in than high narrow heels. That said the narrowness of the heels can feel unstable. Some of my clients feel they’re going to topple over in kitten heels. The stability of a wide and chunkier heel feels more sure-footed.

Aesthetically, there is an elegance and dressiness to a kitten heeled shoe. Although you might prefer chunkier heels because it works better with your style, comfort levels, shape of your feet, and lifestyle. And if you like both narrow and wide heels on footwear, by all means enjoy the variation.

Personally, I vote yay. I enjoy wearing a low one inch kitten heel in a dressy shoe from time to time. Typically in the form of pumps and Mary Janes, but boots can work too. Their dainty, pretty and dressy integrity work for my style and shape of my feet. I don’t have kitten heels at the moment because the comfort and stability of a wide square heel can’t be beat for my fussy feet. But I’ll wear kitten heels again.

Over to you.

Get Out of a Rut By Refreshing Your Style

Change aspects of your style when you’re in a rut. Sometimes it only takes a few changes to feel refreshed. Update eyewear, underwear, and hair before addressing your wardrobe. If that’s not enough, tackle the rest over time, starting with bottoms. 

Refresh To Get Out of A Rut

Try a new colour and colour combination. Add a pattern and try pattern mixing. Try trendier bottoms or throw in some classics. Try a new silhouette to create updated outfit proportions. Juxtapose items. Wear fits tighter or looser. Add texture and shine.

Accessory and make-up tweaks can be effective and affordable. Instantly amp up your look with new specs, scarf, belt, lipstick, eyebrow pencil, mascara, or handbag. Elevating everyday looks or relaxing the dressy glam ones can feel refreshing too.