Wow! So much advice that is so carefully thought through. I have just come back in from being out for the evening and was thinking that I had overshared and was kind of wondering what I might come back to.
So many ideas, and so much support. Thank you all so very much.
bj, may be it has rut potential, and that is I think one of my concerns and what I am wary of. As I get older, I still want to feel I have an element of freshness and vitality to my look, I think.
Sterling, I think that colour is helpful but it needs to be at a level that is easily absorbed in a serious meeting and not distracting. I have a coral jacket that I wear occasionally. It is a fab colour, but it does feel slightly out there.
Gretchen, thank you, you could be right on the signature item. I have a lovely gents watch, gold, Omega, old, which I wear on top of my sleeve of my tops, which gets quite a few looks and compliments. Like the one my dear dad had. Maybe it is thinking what would chime well with that. On the details, I do like the idea of sleeves with detail, and also shoulders with a bit of puff, as they can be feminine.
LisaP, thank you, it is a fab job! When I was younger, I never ever thought that I would be able to get to such a super role. There isn't a clothing allowance, but that is okay, and I am absolutely fine with say, wearing Boden to a meeting with Chanel. Yes, that is a good call - I do need to be mindful of trends and products and quality, and it isn't really too much of a hardship to read Vogue and look in the shop windows! I will have a look at Porter magazine and my SIL has just bought DH and I a subscription to Vanity Fair.
When I started with the company, I thought I should aspire to have english designers - so kind of Paul Smith (but the clothes are the wrong proportions generally and quite creative) but I am thinking perhaps now a Vivienne Westwood dress. I have a bit of creativity in me though and do sometimes feel like I need to break out a bit.
Gretchen, thank you for the recommendation, I will take a look.
Angie, you are so kind writing such a clearly thought out response. Such wise words. Coats, may be they are spring / autumn colours ish. But yes darker colours feel less noisy I think.
Hose. Wow that is a whole other realm / drama. Thankfully the OTK boots help resolve that in winter, but summer is tough. I am wedded to the black opaques in winter and it would be really good to move on from them.
Creases, yes, I so agree. I am super fussy about creases. I have almost bought but haven't yet, a travel iron for work. I have found the Kettlewell silky tops are brilliant at not creasing. Wolford skirts don't crease. I don't take the tube thankfully, and sit on one train for the commute, which means I take off and gently lay my jacket and coat so that it doesn't crease on the luggage rack.
New glasses, that will be a good thing to sort in the New Year.
Yes, that is so clearly articulated as to where I need to be - the polished professional - exactly as LisaP says. It sounds effortless, but isn't at all! Wise words indeed.
I will post more responses later.