Well, thank you all for the vote of confidence! I will definitely keep playing with these, and with non-skinny pants in general. Sort of relieved to hear that others have experienced a similar need to adjust when branching out from skinnies.
It seems like the shorter, cuffed look is people's preference. Duly noted. Gretchen and nemosmom, I think you're right, some of my discomfort (both visual and tactile) might have been with the puddling/break -- a shorter length helps fix that.
Angie, I will persist! Skinnies-lite is an interesting/useful way to think about these. I'm slightly confused by the "try ONE cuff" suggestion -- in the pic they're only rolled up once?
JenniNZ, will try with a different cardi!
Janet, that's helpful information, thanks. It's really interesting, for me a big part of the point of wanting to branch out to straight legs was to make it easier to wear the shorter tops and toppers that I don't really like wearing with skinnies -- I would feel too exposed and find myself thinking: if the pants were a bit wider/more fluid this would be fine. But it turns out it's not so simple!
And thank you rachylou, slim cat, kkards, and Glory!
What I really wish is that these were slightly looser on the thighs and that they would smoothly cover the tops of oxford/loafer type shoes (I don't like wearing loafers/oxfords with visible socks). I'm not sure these will do the latter, especially if hemmed/cuffed. So maybe what I really want is a slightly different cut, like a not-too-overwhelming boyfriend style?