Thanks for your lovely words ladies
Denise I think I have two strong aspects to my style based on the two areas of my life, which are my work life (3 days per week) and my non work life (4 days). My natural leaning has always been toward the more 'avant garde' stylings. Black, layers, drape, to my mind interesting silhouettes.
You can see from some garments that I have had for years that this style has been common in my wardrobe forever, but it's been YLF that has given the confidence to dress they way I like and has taught me how to assess elements of garments. So now rather than just buy every black dress I see that is in my price range, I assess carefully the design elements, the quality and does it fit my perceived style persona. Also perhaps it has something to do with being 40+ where I find myself no longer concerned with what others think (I mean that in the nicest way) about how I dress.
I am aware of having become much more intentional, giving thought to my style and what feels good and how I like to look. Rather than just blindly buying what I 'like" but maybe doesn't suit me or really feel like me. I find I "like" many looks and styles but not necessarily for me.
My work style does tend to me more classic. This works because it provides all the variety I need and makes my 'personal time" dressing all the more enjoyable. I am trying to incorporate some drape and interest into my more classic work outfits in attempt to bring more of me into my work wardrobe.
The outfit in #2 is not one I would wear to work. I could but I like to keep it for 'me'... does that make sense?
As far as suggestions go, the biggest thing for me has been giving myself permission to dress as I like. I recognise that my style preferences are limited. I can walk our Mall and see many beautiful clothes that I appreciate, but there are very few that I would actually wear.
I find your style extremely well honed Denise. I think you embrace more trend than I do, but you do it in a way that has a lot of integrity in that you make it yours, you don't look like a carbon copy of the catalogue version. You also dress with incredible consistency and there is an edge to all your outfits. xxx