Elly - I'm sorry I'm so late in replying to this thread. My goodness, there are just not enough hours in the day are there?
My wedding band....I have two. I have the original gold bands we exchanged on our wedding day 27 years ago but about 10 years ago, we went to visit a relative who lives just outside a Haida Band reserve. It was an absolutely idyllic place full of natural beauty and very untouched by mankind. We ended up one day speaking with one of the Elders and I noticed this beautiful silver ring he had on with some engravings. When I commented on it, he proceeded to tell me the meaning of the ring and its symbols. In the centre of the band, there is the beak and eyes of the Eagle, symbolizing the knowledge and wisdom, as well as the eyes for seeing into your heart and soul, and on either side of the Eagle, is an Orca whale's tail. The Orca is natural to the area of this Haida Band and although it doesn't mate for life, it is considered to be one of the most loving and social creatures Mother Earth created and therefore the two tails represent your endearing love for one another.
After our discussion I was so moved by his obvious love for the earth and his culture that I started to cry. He then asked us to come with him to the small jewelry store on the actual reserve and presented us both with the same bands. It's my favorite piece of jewelry ever.