I agree with what efbgen says.
Your hair looks great! What I like about it is that it looks very much alive and has more volume, which suits you well. It plays up your lips in a very sophisticated way, it's also very romantic.
Because of this, your instinct is correct, IMO, to go towards structure and more tapered clothes. In the first pic you have very cleverly played with the layering to shorten the waist and dress up the bottoms. I think you can also achieve a structured look with a more cropped, roomier jacket too. The thrid pic shoes a wordly silhouette that should be both elegant and practical. The topper's length paired with the loafers is a very classic look and indeed provide structure. In the following pic you show the extra cuteness of the top, which is very useful to balance too much austerity. A keeper for sure. I also love, but looooooove you bracelet. Absolutely a piece to exploit.
About taking pics: it's a pitty that the way you hold the camera too often hides the collar detailing of your outfits, which is always an important part IMO. I had the same problem but discovered that I can take pictures with one hand holding my phone upside down - that way I can move the phone away from my body.