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WIW: I'm jumping. Hope it's not a belly flop

doubleh

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Ok, y'all. I'm doing it- posting pictures. Still trying to get the hang of the selfie and I am slightly horrified with my background, but here you go. I don't know exactly what I've learned yet of my style, but I'm gathering the evidence. Maybe I have a bit of a uniform? I seem to like cowlnecks/scarves/drapey necklines. I also noticed I have about a zillion white/ivory/champagne sweaters- all newly acquired.

I will say that I have a bit of insecurity with body type. I recognize I am pear shape now (pretty sure), but until my early thirties I was twiggy; super twiggy. I know I'm not that shape anymore, but when it comes to dressing, somehow I still visualize myself that way; if that makes sense. Photos are helpful at revealing ugly truths, I suppose.

Without further ado...

1. This is my running errands outfit. I like these, but all is showing wear and will need to be addressed soon. I do love my boots.

2. Work version of #1.

3. Debating purging the boots and cardigan, so decided to give it a go on the weekend. It's cold, so one more layer than normal.

4. Version 3.0 ivory sweater/skinnies.

5. Out on a limb- mint sweater! Tried to dress up for work with basic trousers. Again with the cowl.

So, there it is. Nothing to write home about, but honest attempts. Love to know any thoughts you might have. At the very least, hopefully I'm starting to establish my style for future review.

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Sarah A

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Welcome to WIW My faves are 2, 3, and 5. I think others will agree with my saying that taking WIW photos really will help with accepting that our bodies change over time and accepting ourselves for how we look right now You look great!

Anonymous

First, I totally love your bangs and the red cowboy boots!

Second, I think you look great in all of these. My favorite is #5 -- something about the two layered tops with the pendant is simple but elegant and a little unexpected. You also look lovely in cream. And I really like the boots and cardigan you were thinking of purging, but could also see them looking a little less refined than the looks in the other pictures, if that's a direction you want to move from.

Jewell

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Yes, outfit photos are very helpful! You look fantastic, and I'm wondering about the pretty pear classification. You're looking hour glass-y in these photos, so if you are in fact a pear then you're balancing your proportions well. I quite like all of the boots you have pictured here. My favorite outfits are #s 2 and 5. I love the color of that cardigan. I have one in a similar color and have found it to be a versatile piece.

Windchime

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Good for you for jumping! I did my first WIW about a month ago. Hopefully you feel like you're having a nice swim, and not a belly flop.

The first thing I noticed in all your pics is your beautiful hair! Something about your hair style and your cowlnecks seems to work really well together. Like others, I also particularly like the mint sweater on you.

JAileen

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I think you look great - what beautiful hair. And I love your red boots! Are those the Ariats? I'm sad, mine have to go back. They are cute pop of color for you.

E

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Welcome to WIWs!

Your legs are still looking twiggy to me! (Assuming twiggy is a nice word from your use of it? If not, know that I meant that in a good way.) And I would have thought you an hourglass rather than a pear, although of course it's tricky to tell from normal photos. Definitely no ugly truth in sight.

You look great in fitted bottoms & drapey tops; my very favourite is 4. Those boots are fabulous. All of my shoes are neutral, and this year I really want to add a pair or two of dark red ones!

rachylou

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#1, 2, and 4 are most up my alley. I like the simple, unfussiness of those ones best.

abc

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Welcome to WIWs! It does get easier and it definitely helps so try not to be too scared or overwhelmed.

I think you're honing in on your style. You look great in the sweaters and I really looooooove your red boots and the other 2-tone? booties are great too!

More importantly, how do you feel in these? Are you satisfied or do you feel like something is missing or you'd like to try something new?

Susie

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I think you look great! No way have you flopped!

Your hair is so pretty and you look terrific in cream. My favorite outfit of these is the second one.

doubleh

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Thank you all! I think maybe I should do a clothes purgatory rather than purge. At least until I know what works for me- I'd hate to toss something I might have learned to integrate.

Huh? Am I hourglass? I will have to do a unitard photo perhaps. I do have good bras...:)

Jaileen- I remember you got the gray pair and I felt for you! Mine are Ariats- and little big, an impulse buy and an un-necessary item. But I love them.

E- Twiggy is good. Thank you for saying so. My rear is no longer twiggy- it is full on bloomed.

Peri

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Very cute, no belly flops in sight!

deb

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Yea for WIW! I love your hair and your outfits look great.

Jaime

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The first post is really difficult but yours is terrific! You look great, #4 is my favorite!

MuseumGal

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There's nothing wrong with being a pear! But - you do not look like a pear - your hips are perfectly balanced by your shoulders. Cute outfits too!

goldenpig

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Welcome to WIW's! So glad you decided to take the plunge. You have a great figure and I love all your outfits but #3 is my fave--love the cheery yellow on you! Can't wait to see more from you doubleh!

Jeanie

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Glad you jumped in...welcome. You look lovely. I really like #2 and the mint sweater is very pretty with your hair. It does look like you have a bit of a uniform and it looks great on you.

T

As a pretty pear - you have balanced it rather well in these outfits. I agree with Jeanie that there is whiff of a uniform style, but it looks good on you!

EveningMood

I'm no expert, but I also think you're more hourglass than pear, since your shoulders balance your hips, and I see no ugly truths here, just a lovely figure and long shapely legs you showcase well. I love your boots (especially the red ones!) and your outfits, particularly 2 and 4. I'd like to see deeper colors though, with your rich complexion and dark hair, but that's just me!

viva

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The WIWs do get easier, believe me, and they will have a great impact on how you feel generally about photos of you. It's such a nice by-product of the process.

Add me to the growing list of fans of those red boots! Love love love them!

My favorite outfits here are 1, 4, and 5. I love the red boots with the skinnies, and I think you've done a great job styling that mint sweater.

Looking forward to seeing more of you!

Janet

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Welcome to the world of WIW -- no belly flops in sight! You look great, and I love your red boots and mint sweater. As far as I can see, you have an enviable figure.

Angie

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I echo, Janet. Well done. xo

Suz

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Chiming in to say welcome, and you look terrific. From what I can see I would say you're an hourglass, as well. Either that, or you are doing an awfully good impersonation of one.

I am especially fond of outfits 1, 2, and 4 -- I love the flowing simplicity of those and the interesting shapes of the sweaters in 2 and 4.

The process of WIWs is scary at first but it is so helpful! You'll be amazed as you go along all the stuff you can learn.

shemarie

Congratulations on your first WIW! Each time someone takes the plunge, I'm one step closer to doing so myself. Until I look at my iPhone pics on the computer and cringe, that is! One day! But you look great...and I love your uniform...and those red boots/ivory cowls! No insecurity necessary. I think your uniform suits you very well!

doubleh

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lots of catching up to do...thanks all again!

abc- I do feel comfortable in these outfits; just sort of establishing what is my style. I would like to venture beyond and take it to the next level.

shemarie- do it, do it!

I appreciate everyone's input- you all have certainly opened my eyes and given me lots to chew on. And have been so nice. I am looking forward to do it again.

Gigi

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Beautiful outfits! My faves are 3 and 5. I know you said you're thinking of purging the boots and the sweater...are they worn? Or do they not fit right? (From the front they look OK, but there are obviously other angles to consider.)

In pic 1, is it possible to wear lower-contrast socks? I think it would be nice not to break up the leg line until you get to the booties. I do think those booties are fab!

Beth Ann

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Welcome to the world of WIW! You did beautifully. No worries about your backdrop -- we're all just trying to find the right light and space!

First: your hair is beautiful -- healthy and flattering, with a face framing style.
You are favoring a single silhouette in these photos, but I there are enough shifting details to keep it interesting. If I had to pick favorites: 1 and 4. I love the neutrals with just a touch of rich color in the boots.

I'm also seeing hourglass in these photos!