WIW: flowy top, flowy shawl, & white jeans

I'm so excited about this outfit, I'm thinking about wearing it again next week, as soon as I've done laundry.

I layered a black and white shawl I borrowed from my mom over my favorite flowy black top with an asymmetrical hem because it was too warm this evening for an actual jacket but still a bit chilly, and the top by itself was a bit too plain for my mood. I wore my white flaired leg jeans for the first time in a WHILE and really enjoyed the change, and wore my black pointed toe booties, which have enough of a heel to keep the hem of these jeans from touching the ground and bookend my so-dark-everyone-thinks-it's-black hair. I added a chunky bead bracelet which, along with my red glasses, added just a bit of color. I'm not wearing any makeup because I haven't felt like it for several months, and darn it, that's okay.

I also wanted to let y'all know... I'm getting divorced. That's part of why I've been quiet. I've just been so busy. But although I wasn't the one who asked for it, I'm realizing more each week that he was holding me back in so many ways and I'm happy to be moving forward with my life. Playing with clothes is one of the ways in which I'm coping. By dressing in a bold and confident way, I am putting myself in that mindset and feeling better about myself than I have in years. I really do believe that I'm going to be okay.

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9 years ago

JAileen

Veteran

Your poncho and jeans are cute together! Kaelyn, I don't think you need any makeup. You look lovely as is. I'm very sorry about your divorce.

Jaime

(website)

Sorry about the divorce, but it sounds like you have a positive attitude and it might be for the best. You certainly look good - your skin is gorgeous and the outfit is fab!

chewyspaghetti

Good for you Kaelyn!
The outfit looks cute and your attitude is great!!

Anonymous

Good to hear that you are working through a difficult situation and are feeling better and more confident, it shows in your smile

Sisi

Lovely outfit and beautiful bracelet. I agree with Jaileen and Shevia - you look very good, you can allow yourself not to wear makeup (without makeup I look like a ghost!). I wish you happiness in your new life.

Inge

Moderator

Love the addition of the poncho, and the flared leg silhouette here, Kaelyn. I'm very sorry to hear about your divorce, but good to hear that you have a positive mindset about it and that you are feeling confident. You will be OK!

Bijou

It is so lovely to see you again and I really love this new style direction (although I did love your purple lipstick!). I am sorry to hear that you have had such a seismic change happen. Break ups are hard, however they are also liberating and I am glad to hear that you are feeling that too. You do look strong and confident.

Kaelyn

Thanks for the kind words, everyone! You are all so very sweet.

Don't worry, Bijou, I still have the purple lipstick and I'm sure I'll wear it again. I just haven't been in the mood to deal with any makeup smudging and taking it off every day. I think the break had been good for my skin, too.

Dottie

Active Member

I think you look fantastic! Love the flares and the poncho is very pretty. Everything coordinates so nicely. Hang in there, you've got a great community here to support you through difficult times.

El Cee

You look beautiful, Kaelyn. I love this outfit on you. Fab poncho! And your hair looks fabulous too -- such great curls. Sorry that you have been going through difficult times. Your positive spirit will continue to keep you strong.

Hi Kaelyn. Nice to see you again.
You look fabulous in bootcuts and pointy shoes. Great style!
I also like your longer hair-- such pretty curls.
I am quite a bit older than you are and am now transitioning into a daily makeup routine and it IS a bit of a pain, but for me, I look so much more healthy and alive with it on that it is worth it. But you look healthy and alive without it. Beautiful skin
I hope you can lean on your family and friends as you work through this emotional time. Keeping your mind off things by playing in your closet is a good idea!

Thirkellgirl

I love those pants on you! You look great.
I'm sorry about the hard thing in your personal life. You certainly look like you are dealing with it with dignity and grace, which is no surprise at all. Your beauty doesn't come from your clothes or makeup, it comes from your spirit. <3

RobinF

Super cute outfit, love the poncho and the curly hair. Sorry about the divorce, I'm so happy that you have a positive attitude about it. That should make a huge difference in moving forward. Good for you!

smittie, thank you! I'm enjoying the longer hair quite a lot. I had fun buzzing it last year but it's been nice growing it back out a bit. Not having to do anything with it every day was fantastic, but I missed the curls. The nice thing is I have really healthy hair now!

Thirkellgirl, I love and agree with that sentiment: "Your beauty doesn't come from your clothes or makeup, it comes from your spirit." I think that's true in general. Someone with a beautiful spirit will look great no matter what they put on to decorate their body. And I really appreciate the compliment--made my day! <3

Angie

Fashion Stylist

FABULOUS. You look wonderful, Kaelyn. I missed you, so extra fab to see you post. Loving your short curly hair.

I'm sorry that you have to go through a divorce. Let us know if we can support you in any way. Much love to you.

rachylou

Stand up!

Sara L.

Great outfit! I love your hair and you're so lucky that you don't need makeup (I look dead without some color on my lips). I'm so sorry to hear about your divorce but you have a great attitude and I hope it all turns out for the best.

Mirjana

You look good and you poncho is nice. I really wish you all the best go ahead.

Helena

What a fabulous and chic outfit. Applauding you for your positive attitude!! All the best as you transition in to a new phase of life xx

shedev

Great outfit. You have really lovely skin. I'm sorry to hear about your divorce, I admire your positive attitude about it though.

bj1111

Onward! You look fab navigating this new phase!

Love your smile. Wistful yet optimistic. Fitting for this transition.

Big hugs

Brooklyn

Kaelyn, I am so sorry about your divorce. I have always admired your positive attitude here on YLF and never more than now. You rock. And your outfit is fabulous.

Sorry I'm so late to reply--it's been a busy week with Thanksgiving and all. I really appreciate each and every one of your comments. The moral support is helping more than I can say. <3

Firecracker (Sharan)

Kaelyn, this outfit is dynamite, and you are so beautiful, without or with makeup! Love your closeup with the bracelet. I'm sorry about the ordeal you're going through, and like others, I'm glad to hear your positive outlook on it. Wishing you much strength as you forge ahead!

cindysmith

This outfit is pretty great. It seems so free-spirited and fun.

Also, I would have to say that it is absolutely ok to not wear makeup. You look very pretty without it--like, I wish I looked that nice without makeup but I'm too pale and my under eye circles that never go away are nowhere near as pretty as you without makeup

Ledonna N.

I love this look especially the poncho and the shoes/boots. Well done

Welcome back

Nice to see you again! This is a lovely look. Love the shawl jeans combo.

Lisa

I adore seeing the white jeans with a winter look. This is lovely on you. And your outlook is inspiring too, thanks for sharing!

Thanks, y'all!

cynthiawalkers, it's funny you mention being pale and having eye circles as reasons to need makeup, because I'm about as pale as they come and the only reason you can't see the dark circles under my eyes is that my glasses hide them really, really well.

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