*please pardon the bump*
it took me longer to get back to this post than I had anticipated...
I appreciate all the perspectives you have offered and that you each took the time to comment here.
I think one of my big challenges as an eclectic is that it can mean pretty much anything I want it to and I need more words, or pictures?, to hone in on what I want to emulate.
Overall, I think I prefer the word sleek because it means something I can see, texture, sheen etc. I struggle with what urban means to me as a style, I certainly dont live in an urban municipality so perhaps I dont see enough urban to develop an eye for that term.
Rachy, I like spunky. Interestingly this is a word Rae used to describe my very first WIW post. That was before I really knew where I was going or coming from stylewise so I think it is likely a core part of my personality showing through. I think this is a same part Angie uses the word arty to describe.
Beth Ann, I think my build does have a big part to play here. Neither my features nor musculature is dainty and so I gravitate toward the more boyish looks. At least no one still mistakes me for a boy (as occurred throughout my grunge teens and into my mid 20's! -- I was in military uniform though then so maybe Ill cut them some slack...)
I think I am giving Spunky Sleek Tomboy (as newly dubbed subcategory of Arty Eclectic) a try on for size.