Biscuitsmom, thanks for the nice words. You are probably right, but I would prefer everybody else to remain less conscious of it than me. LOL!
Thanks again, LaF. That's just what I'm aiming for, taking the simple and finding a way to add a personal touch. This is more of a challenge in the summer, when cardigans and blazers and scarves add too much heat.
I am actually pretty comfortable with my style per se, but my changing body image means I am having to rework it, and discover what works well with my new body. So I am venturing out in new territory. Just learning what length of capri is flattering is such a simple thing, but powerful in its effect. And realizing how bad the bagginess at the back of my legs in over-sized pants really looks. I tended to pay more attention to colour and garment choice than to fit in the past, so I am glad to learn.
Inge, good comments. I agree that a coloured necklace could work very well here but then I would probably wear more discreet earrings and/or ditch the bracelet. While I don't share my huband's allergy to bling, I get uncomfortable with too much at once. Scarves would be fun, but we're above 30C today, and that's not even counting the humidity. Oy. And you are trying to stretch me with the other accessories, aren't you? I'm afraid all my purses are black... You are so right though, a statement bag would work wonderfully against the black and white.
I managed to spill melted butter on the white T, so I've swapped it out for a rust-coloured one, scoop-necked this time. That way, I didn't have to change my earrings... LOL.