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What I have been wearing and thoughts about my style

Momo

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This year has been tough . I made some hard decisions and changed my life considerably.
Style has gone on the back burner as I have not had money or time nor the inclination to make it a focus.
I have gotten to a kind of uniform this winter of leggings , boots ( usually booties or my Frye harness boots), a dress or tunic or skirt , a jacket and a scarf .
While this look is serviceable and sometimes I even feel good in it . I am starting to get a little bored with the black and the shape .
I realize I love love love scarfs bc of the color and pattern but bc of my body shape and size , I never like color or pattern in other clothing items.
So.. Going forward I think I do want to incorporate more color into my wardrobe .
Not sure where else to head with my style ... Thoughts suggestions ?
And these are some things I wore over the past few months ...

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I like your looks, and they appear very varied to me, though I can understand your boredom with black because I'm in the same boat. Like you, I've had a very tough past few months, and I've been wearing almost the exact same uniform. There's something about the cocooning comfort and ease of dressing with this formula, isn't there?! I like your idea of bright scarves to break up the black. I have also seen mid-grey skinnies becoming a look, so maybe those would work for you? I will be watching others' comments and ideas for my own inspiration.

Joy

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You look very pretty in these outfits and it is a silhouette that works. How about a shift to lighter neutrals for spring/summer? Maybe taupe or grey, shades of white? Dresses with capri length leggings or even bike shorts and sandals for summer? ( I heard that bike shorts were worn this way in some runway shows. Maybe someone else will know).

Jaime

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I especially like #2 (beautiful smile too) and #6, which suggests to me that you might reconsider your restriction of color and pattern to scarves. The patterned skirt in #6 and the top with the metal detail in #2 work beautifully on you!

Angie

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Add colour for sure - and light neutrals - and Spring fashion is JUST the season to do that.

I like the way the floral scarf brings out your complexion and smile in #2. You look like Garance Dore, actually. You both have killer smiles.

Momo

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Thank you
Aliona- yes I agree it does feel like a cocoon and grey pants may be a good bridge for me.
Joy- Thank you . I did wear Capri leggings and dresses last spring but in black of course I do love white ..
Shevia- thank you! Yeah I need to branch out !
Angie- thanks ! I looked her up . Any suggestions on things I should try?

Momo

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One thing I was thinking about is some sort of th folkloric embroidery I think may be around. Like the clutch from Zara. Has anyone seen shirts or dresses like this?

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Momo

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Or theses but not so high heeled!

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rachylou

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I like the outfit with the hit of blue. That's lovely and lively!

Mochi

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Yes, it's a really nice silhouette for you. I agree, you need a dash of color. That could even come with something as simple as a pair of earrings or a bracelet. Or if jewelry is not your thing, the right shoes...

I relate to your slight dissatisfaction and boredom. For me, I am thinking of focusing on one or two colors for spring/summer so I'm not overwhelmed, and can create a few capsule looks. I've never been good at picking up accessories, so that would be another thing that might work to breathe life into your overall flattering outfits.

Anonymous

Do you like navy as a non-black neutral? Also what about adding color via a coat or other topper?

The above suggestion of gray as lighter neutral was a good one as well I think.

Tanya

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You look lovely in these outfits and they really suit you. The pops of burgundy and blue are very flattering.
Would you consder adding more colors in the toppers? You would still keep your dark, neutral column of color in the top and bottom. For summer the dark column could be navy instead of black.

Style Fan

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I like your style. The scarves are a great way to add interest and uniqueness to your outfit. Black and navy are flattering colours for you. I like your footwear. I have the same Frye boots. I love them.
The embroidery on the clutch is very pretty. Are you thinking of a Boho type of shirt that seems to be very popular right now? There are lots of them around. Free People and Sundance both have them. I am sure there are others.

Suz

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I like your outfits and think you have a beautiful smile! I also like the way the pattern in #2 brings light to your face. Scarves are a brilliant accessory in winter and when you can't think of what else to do; I rely on them a lot.

If black is making you blue (ha ha) maybe it is time to consider another neutral to add to the wardrobe?

Momo

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Thank you.. Some guess I am going to be looking at some color, maybe keeping a similar silhouette ...
With no money I am going to have to start by shopping my closet !

Momo

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Terrible pics but here is my first try at shopping my closet for some color

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Anonymous

Nice! I love your blue booties and scarf! Have you experimented with rolling the hems on the pants to showcase the booties more? I think other Fabbers have posted tips on doing this.

Staysfit

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The booties are terrific! I think you could also add some colorful bracelets, bangles, or a cuff. It looks like your wrists are exposed enough in a few of your pics and that is a subtle way to add color without breaking the bank. They can be very inexpensive but still pretty. You can even make your own out of found objects.

Summer

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You look very good in your uniform, even though you feel bored with it (I know that feeling!). I love way the scarves bring variety to your look - especially the burgundy floral, and the blue from the second batch of photos. If the budget is still tight, I'd aim to add some extra, lighter colours in tops and accessories as other have suggested.

Anonymous

I have always envied women that make wearing scarfs look effortless. You have that look.

Janet

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I think you're looking great in what you've been wearing, but I also understand the need for a little lightness and color, even as another person who defaults to wearing black/dark outfits. Scarves are indeed a great way to do this, and I would keep on with that if I were you because you really look great in them.

In addition, how about dipping your toe in with a patterned or printed top with a black or dark background? I've included some finds mainly just for the prints, more so that the styles, because these look like they have something in common with the prints you are already wearing in your scarves/tops, and because you mention the embroidered treatment too. I think you might find some nice drapey tops with those kind of prints that take you through the seasons, and the dark backgrounds make them psychologically easier to wear, rather than trying to leap from dark colors to embracing a bright or light top. They also work really well to create a long lean column with dark or black bottoms, even though theyr'e not solid.

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Momo

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Thank you so much for the help and positive comments .
I never thought of my use of scarves as enviable ! I just love them and throw them on at the last minute .
Truth be told I have s bit of a scarf addiction.

Liking ideas of colorful bracelets, tops and toppers .. I will start looking

Janet ! I love these finds! I am so drawn to the dark florals . Thank you I will check them out .

BlondeAmbition

I think you're doing a great job of using accessories as punches of color. But all of your basics are black or gray. It's time to take a big leap and buy a basic in a bright color, jewel tone most likely. I'm thinking a red pant, yes! And/or a cobalt blue jacket (not to be worn together though, not yet haha.) How about a simple white shirt?

In my opinion making baby steps has its place. But then there are times we must push ourselves past our comfort zone in order to find a new comfort zone!

Momo

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Blond ambition : I don't know if I can leap to red pants ! But I did try on a pair of beautiful dark magenta pants at old navy .. Unfortunately didn't fit .
I used to have a cobalt knit blazer I loved . Michael Kors. Would love to find one again . I know what you mean about new comfort zone though .

Katya

Wonderful Addition of color. And I agree about your use of scarves. You definitely have a knack in that area.