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What did you learn about style/fashion this year?

MsMaven

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I learned I have skinny calves. Who knew, after all these years. It's hard enough to find a comfortable boot in a 10 1/2, but throw in skinny calves and it is even harder. You have to figure out what you want early in the season and shop right away.

This is probably one of the reasons I don't like the look of skinny jeans on my body.

I also found some flattering new colors that I once thought looked bad on me. Skin and hair color do change as the years pass, and it's alway a good idea to try new colors and new ideas.

What have you learned about your own personal style this year?

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Mo

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I, too, have skinny calves but I sort of always suspected that What I did learn was that shirts from 5+ years ago are short for today's fashions and scream outdated. It took me a while to learn - I have this stubborn Taurus trait . . . and I also learned that many tops and jackets have low hanging armpits on me that I have to be on the look out for and avoid.

nicoleb

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The biggest thing i learned this year is that my skin has a cool undertone. Growing up my mom always taught me i was an "autumn" and having darker brown hair and green eyes i've always been a bit confused where i lie because i am very fair skinned.

Anyways, finding out for sure that my skin is actually cool toned has helped out a ton with choices clothing and style wise.

MsMary

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OMG, I learned everything this year! The combination of losing a bunch of weight and falling in with you fab crowd has been just revolutionary for me!

I think the two biggest lessons I learned were both from Angie's blog posts:

1. Style can be learned, and
2. YLF's only rule: Have fun with fashion and style!

The rest of what I learned was, I think, the details about how to implement those two very big, very important lessons.

Edited to add:

And yesterday I learned that I am the Captain of Team High Contrast! :p

Tanya

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It has been a fun year full of changes for me. I have shopped less than ever before ( last four months of this tear I have been doing SYC so basically nothing) and still had lots of clothing to choose from. I was also mildly annoyed to learn that my correct bra size is 30D which is not available in any stores, so I buy all of my bras online now.

anne

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2 things

I have really started to appreciate how adding white to an outfit near my face can transform outfits that are too dark.

I have started using blush (my m-i-l gave me a freebie tube), which I seldom did before, and like how it shapes my face.

chewyspaghetti

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I learned that I like low contrast and neutrals more than I thought I did- and that I am most comfortable in earth tones, and dusty shades.

Carole

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I've learned soooo many things!

Like you, MsMaven, I too have skinny calves, and that you are to find boots that not only fit your feet, but your calves too.

That it's ok to buy something that isn't on sale.

It's better to shop ahead and be prepared for a season, than to scramble around at the last minute trying to put together an outfit for various occasions.

You can wear brown and black together.

You can wear dresses even though you don't have a career that dictates dressing up.

I'm sure there are more, but this is a good start!

Kristine

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I also learned I have skinny calves and that boots are supposed to fit snugly. Somehow I missed this lesson until after I bought some that were too large. So my other lesson is to do research in advance!

I learned that detail and structure are everything. I think I have five jackets now. This time last year I didn't have a single one!

I've learned that thrift stores are ok, but only with a fine eye. I found some great thrifted things this year, but I've passed up a lot more!

I've discovered sheath dresses! I never even knew what they were!

Laura

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I learned to buy less, and buy better quality.

Lisa

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I learned a lot this year but a big one besides my body shape was, dresses. They make a fast outfit, are very comfy and make me feel more like a woman than any other piece of clothing.

Kari

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I learned so much this year, but more than anything I found myself really embracing YLF's #1 rule. I was suddenly having effortless fun getting dressed - not that the dressing part was effortless, but it was very easy to make a game or a challenge out of figuring out how to compose an outfit. Shopping, even for items that I used to hate like shoes or bras or jeans, became fun once I became really discerning about fit, and stopped beating myself up for not "fitting" a certain style. I became a lot pickier about quality and really had a blast selecting pieces that I knew would work within my wardrobe.

annagybe

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That's it's ok to be trendy.

Beth

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I learned that:
~dresses are the best, easiest way to get dressed
~pearls can be worn in a way that aren't fussy and matronly
~having fun with fashion also makes it more fun to get dressed in the morning (and I haaate mornings)
~taking the time to clean out your closet makes it so much easier to see what you really have
~not everything has to be a basic workhorse
~remixing pieces can make old outfits seem new

and the big one for me:
~you never know until you try it on!

Thank you Angie and YLF, for a truly fab year:)

Michelle

(website)

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1. That jackets are the greatest inventions this side of chocolate
2. That layering really is the best way to go
3. That scarves are entirely too much fun and a lot more versatile than I used to think.

crazyone

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tons.

I found YLF, for one
I learned the fun of embracing trends.
I'm slowly absorbing that I can incorporate dressier items into every day wear.
I learned that people do really notice if you up your style quotient, and despite my initial fears about how it might be received in academia, my labmates and other friends gave me a great many compliments regarding my style.

Bianca

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Hmmm so many little things here and there...I guess I have changed my perspective on dresses. I once thought they were only a summer/warm weather item that you need to save for a fancy occasion. Now I am pairing them with leggings, dressing them up or down. I guess I really never understood the versatility of "THE DRESS" before. My 2011 goal is to own more!

Late Bloomer

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Personal style is more important than wearing the latest style.

Angie

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Fashion Stylist

What a fun read. Hugs to you all! This is sweet music to my ears

I learned to wear my Mum's flashy gold jewelry.

I learned that the reason I don't own trousers is because I like them best with high heels. Since I don't like wearing high heels, it makes sense that I don't like to wear trousers.

I learned that as much as I adore new trends and wear them frequently, I love my predictable signature looks just as much.

I learned that I really do love expensive clothes, footwear and handbags. So I'm robbing a bank in the New Year.

taylor

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Ha, Angie..I will drive the get away car!!) The vision of the 2 of us fleeing and heading straight to Nordies has me giggling....us, all dresses up to rob a bank:)

I have learned to see fashion and style with a new eye. I appreciate and love it even more now that so very many things make sense to me know. Both why they do and why they don't work. The blog has really showed me that:)

Angie

(website)

Fashion Stylist

Taylor, we can build an Oceans 14 Team. Recommended attire is black from head to toe. Must be textured. Your choice of flats or heels. No pop of colour required but pearls are okay. Who else is in?

taylor

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FAB idea!
i will wear my black cashmere turtleneck...the":pile of pearls" black ponte knit pants and OTK black high heeled boots.....leopard head band..(very discreet)

We need look outs!

Angie

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Fashion Stylist

As Thief Boss I 100% approve of your outfit, Taylor. We can also stash the loot in your Buberry suitcases. I'll wear black skinnies, OTK black boots, black turtle neck and trench coat. I'm throwing in the white specs and pearl ring for good measure.

Michelle

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I'm no good at all as a lookout, but if I'm allowed on the team, Reva volunteers to act as the oh so adorable decoy. She even fits the colour rules!
In keeping with my decoy status I will dress the part of an innocent but trendy professional -- black sheath dress, black zippered leggings, black knee-high boots and a large pile of pearls. I would dearly love to wear a layer under or over the dress, but have nothing appropriate at the moment.

tarzy

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Well, if it's "black attire from head to toe," you know I'm in on the caper!

MsMary

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Can I be defense counsel? Black Chanel-ish suit, black-background floral print Escada sleeveless top (need to keep the jury from going to sleep, after all), black fishnets, black patent leather pumps, and of course the pile of pearls.

Lynne

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Don't forget Tricia!

Laura

(website)

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Isn't it great how a thread can devolve from what we learned to plotting by criminal masterminds, in a matter of minutes?

Tanya

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LOL, you guys are hilarious! Maybe we should all out these outfits into practice for the next Halloween.

Beth

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From the CNN Newsroom:

"Several banks were robbed today, in one of the more unusual heists of the year. While the tellers were able to precisely describe the behavior of the thieves, not a single witness was able to describe the appearance of the robbers. Instead, the victims appeared stunned and speechless, simply stating repeatedly 'they looked so fab.' The trail went cold at the local Nordstrom."

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