The topic of discarding items is very timely to me, as we have bags and bags of things to go, right now as we speak. My husband had basically mere hours to clean out the house at our ranch because the buyers were anxious to close early, so he threw all our stuff in the Airstream and brought it home for us to sort through. Pics below. And this doesn’t even count the linens.
Much of it will go straight to the fabric recycling bin at the nearby county facility. Lots snd lots of old jeans and worn out tees. I also have a bag of still serviceable socks and shoes, and a couple of coats, to give to homeless people I see when I go into the city. I’ve done that before and people seem very thankful.
Only a very few things made it back into our regular closet. The other items that still have some life in them and aren’t visibly stained, etc, will be donated. It took some hours to sort through everything, and then launder and fold what needed it, but now it’s done. We no longer need two wardrobes and it’s freeing!
But to the original point, I definitely let go of items when I tire of them for any number of reasons, not always because of wear and tear. The “boredom” factor usually points to some other deeper issue with a garment — a print or color that one has fallen out of love with, an item that used to support an outfit that you no longer wear, a style that no longer feels relevant to you, etc. That is a natural outcome of anyone who enjoys evolving and growing their style, as most of us here on this forum do.
I see no need to feel guilty for letting go of good items in a responsible way that allows someone else to enjoy them. I have supported several local and national charities by giving them my stuff to sell, and I also like giving things directly to recipients — friends, relatives, members of our local “buy nothing” group. I sell some of our nicer, higher-end items on eBay or Poshmark.
I certainly don’t strive for closet churn, but some degree of it is inevitable. We all move on and buy new things (or new-to-us things) at some point or another.
During our big closet cleaning yesterday, my husband tried on a nice leather jacket he’s had for probably 15 years. His son wore it for a while and then returned it to us. While it looks “ok” and fits him, he put it on and felt no desire to wear it — he has moved on from that style and will happily donate it for someone else to enjoy, so that he can enjoy his three newer, more modern leather jackets that he actually enjoys.
So yeah, I guess I’ll channel a little Marie Kondo at this moment and say, if a garment no longer sparks joy and you don’t wear it, for no reason more than “you’re over it,” why beat yourself up about it? Let it go and wear the things you love, even if it means finding a better replacement!
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