Thank you all again for commiserating, chiming in, and suggesting.
Suz and Jenava: Yes, JCrew can really be a great option for me. I just wanted something a little different (because so much of my wardrobe is JC) but I know that I can fall back on JCrew if I need to.
Angie: Thanks for the G-Star Kate recommendation. It's next to try if the Emersons don't work.
Ah, MsMaven: So true. The post-Covid post-menopausal belly adds a layer of complexity (pardon the pun) to the question of pants fitting. My body is so so very different from even 5 years ago. It's just unavoidable to some extent.
Sal, I can't do low rise at all; I'm with you there! And I really hope we've hit peak high-rise!!!
Greyscale: Men's straights that rest on my hips are sort of a dream jean for me - reminds me of my post-college years when I wore my boyfriend's Levis. But now, no real hips to speak of. So I need a mid-rise that will grab hold, IYKWIM.
Chris, Thanks for the Old Navy links. I'm not buying skinnies now (that's a whole other conversation) but those straights may be worth trying. Thank you!
Gryffin, So glad you love the Emersons so much! I will make note of your preferred wash for future denim hunts.
RobinF: It sounds like you and I are very similar shapes (although I am not petite). I'm going to watch your posts closely.