This is a wonderful tribute ! I am also thinking of San and Tanya in particular as they are in the midst of it. It can seem so lonely some times. That is why this place is so wonderful.
As someone who has been going through the cancer labyrinth for almost 3 years, I want to say that this has always been a place of respite and incredible support. And a place where the women have always understood how important it was to hang onto a little bit of "me"...even if all that meant was washing my hair for the day. Thank you ! I don't know what else to say.
AV, what tremendous loss. I am sorry. Your post reminds me though, that MEN get breast cancer too.
I want to remember my sister in law who died last month and my friend's husband who died exactly one year ago.