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Snow, camo and booted up. wiw 10/21/20

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It snowed overnight - some has melted but I think most of it is here to stay now. So, so pretty , and not too wet out .

I'm not feeling myself lately - uncomfortable in my own skin is the best way I think to describe it. Overweight and not in shape, hair not working, skin aging faster than I can do anything about it, and general physical discomfort. Wearing a mask for 8 hours a day is doing a number on my sinuses and I am puffy and congested all day. I'm living on allergy meds to get through the work day . I used to rely on lipstick to brighten and define my face; now - I'm all mask, middle aged hair, and little eyes peeking out. YUCK.

On that note, I have a day off today and errands/groceries to do, so dressing for the weather was key. Nothing special here - just everyday clothes. Pull on black Jag Jeans which forgive my weight, a new striped comfy sweater , lightweight anorak (Angie has this too) from a few years ago that is roomy for layering (it's not the warmest jacket going ) , new Fly London boots for stable/dry/comfy running around, and a new cozy-lined camo print bucket hat for a no-wash hair day. Apple watch, earrings, the ubiquitous mask and a new Baggu olive nylon crossbody bag. Coco Mademoiselle for a pick-me-up . No fragrance permitted at work so I splurge on my days off.

I like what I am wearing, and love this hat as a tuque alternative when it's not too cold. I'm keeping my eyes open for a burgundy or olive felt rancher style hat too.

Even though I know better, I'm joining a 30 day "restore your health" program starting November 1 with a group of women. Nutrition and supplement support mostly . Not a cleanse, but a dialing back of bad habits and restoring some energy and feelings of well-being , hopefully. Kind of at my wits' end.

Thanks for reading my tale of woe - and Carla, this isn't a seasonal wardrobe meltdown At least I have lots of nice clothes to wear.

Commiseration, advice, help, jokes, etc - they are all welcome.

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LaPed

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I LOVE that sweater! The whole colour palette is so nice. And you wear brimmed hats very well -- jaunty!

Firecracker (Sharan)

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What a great casual outfit, Lisa. That sweater is so cool, and the boots, too.

I love the feeling you describe, of loving what you are wearing. It sounds as if working and wearing a mask for eight hours a day is very draining and trying. It's understandable to me. Having a day when you can be yourself and wear what pleases you can feel like such a relief. Good luck with the restore-your-health group. It sounds appealing to me!

nemosmom

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This is such a great outfit, Lisa! You look put-together and well-styled; I would never had known you were feeling yuck if you had not said so - it certainly doesn't show!

Sending you hugs for the blahs (it may sound insincere coming via screen, but the sincerity is there ) This year has been so challenging to everyone's physical and mental (and often spiritual and financial) well-being. Good luck with your restoration! Be kind to yourself!

madeline

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Wearing green really brings out your eye color! You look very put together in your errand-running outfit. Sometimes we do get in a funk and it’s okay to stay there for a little while. Hope your wellness group lifts the fog for you.

JAileen

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Oh boy - snow. My son in MN sent a picture of snow the other day. As I write this I’m on my chaise on the deck. It’s just perfect, today.

Aging is good. Not aging is bad. I think you look great. I think you always look great. Your colors are awesome. I LOVE your sweater.

I’ve gained weight, but I’m fairly happy because we get out bike riding every day. And it’s very sunny here.

Jane

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You really do look super. Relaxed ever so slightly nonchalant. I think this is a great look. It looks real and genuine.

These are such tough times. Well done for doing something about it though and it sounds as if it will be fun. Similarly if it turns out to not be fun / helpful then move on.

The snow sounds so pretty.

Hugs.

JAileen

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Olive fedora at Nordstrom:

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/ba.....ra/4634133

Angie

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FABULOUS casual look!

I love the hat and pullover! Super cute with the boots and parka! The boots look like an excellent fit on your foot and ankle. Neat and polished.

Your hair and eyes always look beautiful. I bet everyone sees what I see!

I can't sugar coat the very, very trying and stressful year - especially here in the US. You are not alone in feeling low about things, and wearing a mask all day makes things worse. It's affecting all of us in some small or large way. But onward we go!!! Chin up!! We are always stronger than we give ourselves credit for. Be kind to yourself, and good luck with your restoration month of well being. I'm sure it will help.

And am wearing the same parka today (and yesterday too) - but with the faux fur. I LOVE it!

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Brooklyn

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What a great relaxed casual look. You wear olive green so well.

And yay team bucket hat! I just ordered another one (men’s size XL) in plain black. I’d love a camo one too.

It’s been a blah year. You are not alone. Good luck with the program. It could also be a nice opportunity to connect with other women who are doing it tough. We all need more opportunities to connect.

Sal

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Oh it has been a tough year, and you have faced significant change as well. And one some weeks I can see myself age in real time!! Mask wear is uncommon here for various reasons but I suspect that might change due to the insidious nature of the virus.

I think it is taking pleasure and progress where we can and your programme sounds good. I did a running workshop last weekend to get some hints/tips - and an online seminar tonight about food cravings. Depending on what I find out I will share more off topic.

And you look really good in a hat!!

Anonymous

Thanks for posting the find , Angie . I bet I have it and just forgot it was there . I don’t do “fur” until November But with the way the weather has been this past week or two , my fur pieces might be coming out early !

Thanks for the link , Janet . Why are hats so $$ ?

Thank you all for not blowing off my whining . It’s helpful to know it’s not just me . My life itself is good. Really good . I have a job I like , my family is healthy and happy and secure , and I have all I need . I just have to get my health and well-being in order .

kellygirl

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I can't believe it's snowing already! So fab that you have a great closet to pick from--you look as stylish and put together as always. Love your new boots and that anorak is terrific. Good for you for taking charge of your health--I like an occasional challenge too. It's nice to have some company for these kind of things. It can be very motivating. Good luck!

Leslie

1. Lisa, you look cute in your hat, coat, and boots.
2. I miss lipstick, too. When I look at my unmasked face, I see no color. I see blah.
3. I had a brownie and a chocolate cookie for dinner. I have better food in the house. I just don't feel like putting it together, and brownie yum yum.
4. My birthday is 29 Oct., and I am trying to tell myself I am going to get it together--whatever it is--on 1 November. That date because I refuse to deny myself birthday and Halloween goodies. But maybe I should wait until 4 Nov., which will either be "thank the goddess" or "depths of despair/where am I going to live now"?
5. My clothes are tight too, and I hate that, but right now, I love the brownies more.
6. I hope you feel better soon. But it is okay to feel blah too, especially in 2020. The struggle is real. The suck is real.

slim cat

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You look lovely as always however I share the same feelings about skin, aging and so-so mood on many days.
Wearing mask for 7-8 hours at work and not being able to use the lightest mask ( the blue one ) makes my skin suffer. I try to remind myself to smile more, to watch more stand up comedy, to enjoy the simple things in life. It's a trying time for everyone so we are all in this together, like they say.
You look very put together - all pieces work great. I like your pretty earrings and boots especially.
Good luck with a program!

Runcarla

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Oh, Lisa - you have every right to be in the mopes. No scold from me! That said, I like your outfit very much. You do casual so stylishly, and can I say how nice your skin looks?

I got my winter tires put on today, but DH thinks I’m too early. I hardly go anywhere. A tank of gas lasts 6 weeks!

Gigi

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Wow, I really love that sweater! All my sweaters seem so blah. I'd love to find one with some character. The color of your hat and coat really bring out your pretty eyes.

I'm so sorry that you are having to wear a mask all day at work. The workers at my local Nordstrom all seem very depressed, and I'm sure part of it is due to having to wear a mask for hours on end. As others have said, the struggle is real. And I'm finding that it requires much more energy and courage to break out of a depressive state than it did for me before...and I don't always have those reserves. What I have found helpful lately is to find some TV shows (previously aired series) that I have been watching one per night. It gives me something to look forward to that is enjoyable. And some judicious online shopping and planning too.

I hope the program works out well. I think that just having some extra social contact, even if it is online, helps.

Jaime

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Just wearing a mask for all those hours is enough to put anyone in a bad mood. Although I have to take issue with your "little" eyes. Your eyes are among your best features!
Anyway, totally feeling the not comfortable in your own skin thing. Between lockdown (which we are in), political anxiety/obsession, my entire family working/schooling from the house every single day, and a few more specific major issues, I don't even know who I am anymore. It does not help that November is usually SAD for me - even in this relatively sunny country. Ah, I feel better already just complaining. Misery loves company?

Jessikams

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My weight is all over the place too. One week waist is huge; next week depression-skinny; next week shoulders swollen from exercise, shirts don’t fit; and on and on. It’s so wacky I’ve decided to just ignore fit issues for now. But it is extra annoying, I hear you!

kkards

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Lisa-love this outfit, the camo hat Is fab, and i love how it finishes the outfit.
re all the other stuff...I haven’t worn makeup since March, and magically thought my skin would look so much better because of this, but alas, no change, so I’ve needed to own up to the fact that my skin tone is blotchy and reddish. And my nails are a mess, and depressing to look at, every time i get them looking good, i seem to break one...I’m used to traveling every other month or so, and now i consider a trip to the dentist as an event...I’m taking it one day at a time and trying not to over think my situation and just take what i have and make the best of it.

Anonymous

Olive is so good on you! I think we're all feeling out of sorts this year- kind of in limbo since we just don't know what's coming next. Prioritizing health is definitely the most important these days, but be gentle with yourself too. We never faced anything like this year before.

UmmLila (Lisa)

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I'm all about this color palette! I think you look great, but I hear you on the no-lipstick thing being a drag-- it always brings such a nice pop of color.

Roxanna

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Not a seasonal wardrobe meltdown at all - not even whining. Just being thankful for what you have, while acknowledging the crappy circumstances and how it's affecting you. I think we can all relate!

Heaven knows I get the body discomfort - I go through it myself every few months. Hopefully a cleanse will help. How are the workouts going? Sometimes I find that if I work out for even 3 days in a row, it somehow shifts my whole perspective on my body from negative to positive - it's much more a mental thing with me, I think.

Love your hat, and what a nice alternative to a toque! No snow here yet - though we do have tons of rain...

unfrumped

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Love this whole look! Relaxed- polished- sporty-classic or something!

I can just empathize with the long hours of masking. One if my DD’s wwears all day at work. My former colleagues at several hospitals and clinics wear all day plus spend hours in full PPE - exhausting. Hope your workplace allows some safely- designed short mask breaks - which I know is harder as weather becomes more brutal in various zones, and outdoor breaks and lunchbreaks become impractical.

viva

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You look fantastic here and are always such an inspiration to me, to get off my butt and put an outfit together! I especially love the sweater and hat: I want both, actually.

Anonymous

I got some great advice in a private message last night and I'm tempted to cut and past here - eliminating any identifying words, names etc, of course. I'll see it the writer is ok with it.

Thanks for the outfit comments - I know the anorak looks a bit unflattering in the photos, but has better movement IRL. It has the cutest back with "tails" and is much nicer from that view Aren't novelty sweaters fun? I find they make a jeans /sweats outfit so much better even if they aren't the highest quality knits around. I don't look great in fine gauge merino and silk knits, and chunkier, fun knits are a lot more forgiving .

Anonymous

Kelly - the snow is still here today End of October isn't unusual for snow here . Sometimes we get past Halloween without any, and even right up to Christmas with little snow. I know it's hard to imagine this from California...but, here we are . Here is a shot from my bedroom window this morning :

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Lisa, this has been a rough year. Wearing a mask is so tiring. You seem to be able to pull together great outfits with ease. I love that sweater. Olive is definitely your friend.
The group sounds interesting. I hope it is helpful.

Liesbeth

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You look great!
I've had a lot of migraines and belly discomfort lately and have turned around my eating habits too. Wfh I have some more time to prepare a quick vegetable based lunch instead of my usual sandwiches. I don't know it if's the food that's helping or just the idea that I'm actively doing something instead of undergoing it all, but I feel a bit better already. Hope your program works for you!

catherine

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Lisa, I don’t see what you see at all. In all of your posted photos, you look cool, lovely, and fierce. I also love the outfits that you post. Soon, I hope you will see yourself this way as well.
Having said that, not sure any of us are exactly “living our best life” right now. We are all allowed to feel like crap whenever we want, and I frequently do.
Sending good thoughts.

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